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Would sex feel better with a person you find physically attractive compared to a person you just thought was average looking?

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  • Very seldom have I dated anyone on the upper end of the scale..8's were about the best looking I've dated. Maybe a couple 9/10's that were one night stands but mainly, I tend to hover around the 5-7's range. But that's mostly due to my being broke and their having a personality I could relate to... or just a personality in general, really. Lol

    Anyway, with that in mind... I've found the lower the number, the more likely they were to be a sexual dynamo! Which I'm quite sure, is by no small coincidence, that it always seems to work out that way.

    Which isn't to say, there's no 10's out there, that can't make the walls shake with the best of em.. but they're either escorts, strippers or porn stars.

    For those who (could) afford to take out daddy's little princess, from what I heard... in no way, shape or form, were they worth the price of admission. As giving head in their mind.. was an "eewe"-worthy, act.

    Which is hardly surprising, when considering giving rather then receiving.. is a foreign concept to people like that. Along with doing anything much other then laying there like a lump, while bitching every time their hair got mussed or make-up smudged.

    A more homely girl on the other hand, knows she needs bring a little more to the table, in order to choose her instead. And being dynamite in the sack, certainly goes a long way in that department!

Most Helpful Guy

  • Why would you even be having sex with someone whom you wasn't physically attracted too? Even if someone is average in appearance, that doesn't mean there isn't an attraction. You also have different types of attraction, like face over the body, vice verse, personality over appearance. The type of sex over every other factor. I would argue it is all a psychical attraction as sex is psychical. The only attraction which is comparable would be emotional attraction v the psychical. There I would find a difference in the zeal and passion.

Most Helpful Girls

  • As someone who has experience with this I can for sure tell you that looks ain’t ever enough to make sex feel better. You could fuck a whole male model and still not cum if his stroke game weak. It’s all about whether or not the person knows what they are doing. If an average looking guy fucks like a male porn star obviously he’s going to give a girl more pleasure than a super hot guy that’s just ok in bed.


    I’ve even heard men talk about how disappointed they were after having sex with models. Because they couldn’t give decent blowjobs and were boring in bed.


    Physical attraction only goes so far when it comes to sex.🤷🏾‍♀️

  • Sexual chemistry, sexual performance, sexual connection are what makes the difference between good sex and great sex, looks don't have as much to do with it as people might think... You being sexually attracted by their looks won't mean anything if they aren't good in bed, or are a selfish lover, or don't share the same sexual preferences you do...
    And if you love someone, you don't see them as average and if you don't, they can be as goodlooking as anything but if they're a bad person then they will be ugly in your eyes and that would be more of a turn off than what "others" might label as average or goodlooking 🤷🏼‍♀️

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  • What a guy looks like does not affect his ability to move his fingers or his hips. There is a baseline selection bias for "would I even want to look at him on top or below me?", but I would not "stay" with a guy who "looks" hot, but is a bore or a one trick pony in the sheets. Good sex is about how they treat you in AND outside the bedroom. If he isn't respecting me on the streets, he doesn't get to "disrepect me" in the sheets ;)

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    Would sex feel better with a person you find physically attractive compared to a person you just thought was average looking?Would sex feel better with a person you find physically attractive compared to a person you just thought was average looking?

  • Feel better? No. But i’d crave him more if im more physically attracted. However, if im in love, then i’d do almost anything sexually. Well not really but you get the point lmao

  • I think what she's willing to do is more important than looks to me. She doesn't need to be experienced, but just have the will to try things I enjoy. I have plenty of kinks

  • well, yes duh..

    sex is more than just the physical act. If your mind is involved 100%, it makes it even better... so an attractive person stimulates that a lot more than an average looking person.

    Of course, Love does play into it.

  • No way AVARAGE looking guys a hot as hell, and to see and avarage looking guy just brighten up and glow like a star, is so incredibly awesome

  • Sex would feel better with the average guy if I loved him.. and he wouldn't look average in my eyes, love is really powerful

    • i agree :)

  • It depends on the emotion. If I loved them the sex would be best. It’s just how I work, even if they suck and their body is not that nice. It’s them and that’s all that matters.

  • Average looking is fine. What counts is the connection that you make, in my opinion.

  • Psychologically , it's more affirming to have her be gorgeous. But she had to know what she's doing , and earn my trust, to keep me invested. If she proves untrustworthy , it all falls apart.

    And the biggest feedback I get is that I need more stamina. I hit hard in the beginning, and girls like that. But I can't keep it up. After about 20 minutes, I get tired.

  • Sex feels better with someone who actually knows what they are doing has nothing to do with what they look like you could have the most beautiful women in the world but when it comes to having sex she is as stiff as a brick then you could have a very unattractive women who is a devil in the bedroom and would ride the life out of you which would you prefer ano my answer

  • The best sex I ever had in my entire life was with a guy who resembled "The Penguin" from the movie Batman returns. He may not have been easy on the eyes but, GOOD LORD! He could last for three hours and when he played electric guitar his fingers moved so fast they looked blurry.. so you use your imagination.

  • When you love someone you automatically find them attractive so but I don't know it's usually better when you love them

  • Oh definitely, I enkoy it much more with hotter girls compared to lesser attractive ones (less attractive face, chubby/fat, no curves etc.)

  • That sounds quite judgmental If a man is your who is drop down gorgeous but has no chemistry then the sex kinda becomes ( if it goes ahead ) mundane, Unless you just have to him but later feel disappointed Now the average kind of guy same thing really So short version No chemistry become ok With chemistry fantastic

  • A person who you find attractive in anyway would make sex way better
    It's not always about physical attraction

  • No... the best sex I've ever had was with someone i wasn't attracted to at all- a friend zone guy.
    I was shocked. He was overweight and somewhat annoying.
    I wasn't attracted enough to even want to kiss him. But damn... he finally got me in the bed and rocked my world in a way I'll never forget.

    On the other hand, the hottest guy I've ever been with was the absolute worst sex I've ever had...

    To me, looks have nothing to do with the enjoyment of sex.

    • What did he do that rocked your world vs the other guys?

    • And do you know if he was really really into you bc i think that could make a difference?

    • How did that overweight ugly dude tricked you into sex? Drugged you? Lol

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  • It’s not about what I see but how I feel. I’ma bitch to work with lmao. I’ll get into the mood heavy petting commences then I’m bored and it ends... I almost always finish her even after I’m out of the mood because if not that’s just bitch mode. But only a few times have I really been in the mood and it’s never been about looks.


    I can remember each time specifically... the first time I had outdoor sex... had a place in the lake and we got down to business in front of a bonfire. The first time I let go and let an ex get my ass involved. And the one time I had sex outside a relationship... she came at me with the intention of Dec and I’ve never seen such a confident women come at me like that.


    It’s about the buildup. The excitement. That’s why even though I have a high sex drive I don’t really have much even in a relationship.

  • Most likely if you find someone attractive it’s easier to get off, but it’s sex you can have it with anyone. It may be good depending on the person.

  • Not necessarily. I've known both, and sex with someone who actually gives a damn about you even if they're average can be better than sex with a hot girl who's vibe really isn't that special.

    That's why you have all those guys with the beautiful/sexy girl but end up cheating on her with the average or ugly girl. I'm definitely not condoning it, but one of those girls is giving him something the other isn't, whether it's sex, fun, good personality, or treating him like a king.

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