Girls, would you be disappointed if you found out your boyfriend had seen escorts in the past?

[Anonymous]

So I'm 26 and in the past have seen a few escorts. To be clear I have never had full sex with any of them and never would. Furthest I have gone is receiving a blowjob with no condom. I have a fetish for tights so for me, seeing escorts is a way of satisfying that fetish as I don't currently have a girlfriend.

My Question is: If you found out your boyfriend had done this in the past how would you feel? Disgusted? Disappointed? Or understanding? Also I would never see an escort while was I with someone.

[SueShe]

This is something that is thankfully never likely to happen because before I call a guy my boyfriend, I would have made sure that I do a thorough check on his criminal record, his health status and his previous sexual "acquaintances" and conquests.

Should he have been such a womanizer or a person of such low morale that he had the need to seek relief with a sex worker or prostitute, then he would never be my boyfriend in the first place.

I pride myself to ensure that I keep a tab on those people that are close to me in order to avoid bad surprises.

If I found out that a guy has had that type of encounters, I would of course be disgusted and this person would certainly not be allowed to be part of my circle of friends. Friends are people you trust. You cannot trust a womanizer and a person that seeks and interacts with sex workers.

[Asker]

Thank you for your opinion. I disagree with all of it but each to their own!

[SueShe]

Of course, you are a guy, therefore you have to disagree.

[Asker]

Woah! That's a bit sexist?

[SueShe]

Not sexist at all. You seriously did not expect people to approve your encounter with sex workers and try to wiggle your way into other people's lives with that kind of negative experience. How does it make a girl feel to know that her potential boyfriend is paying good money and taking an immense health risk for a few pathetic spasms and muscle contractions? It is not really the doing of somebody to look upon, is it?

[Asker]

You can't make a sexist comment and then say "Not sexist at all". Smh. Feminists these days...

[SueShe]

If you consider an opinion about a person seeking sex workers and prostitutes as sexist, then who am I to dispute it...

[Asker]

It has nothing to do with my original question. You said "Of course, you are a guy, therefore you have to disagree." That is a sexist statement.

[SueShe]

If a girl would seek a man whore for the same purpose, my reaction would have been exactly the same. They are basically just toxic people in any relation. End of story.

[Asker]

End of Story = I've been caught out being sexist and my feminist ego can't take it.

[SueShe]

I see that you are the type of person that is not only seeking whores for his physical pleasure but cannot take criticism. Nice character on top of being of low morale.

[Asker]

Yup you defo took an ego hit sweetie

[SueShe]

Look who is becoming so familiar and calling strangers "sweetie". Another positive trait of character of yours or is it how you look down on others by being so personal? "Sweetie" spoken by a stranger to a girl that he does not know is an indicator that he does not respect people in general. I don't think that you would call a guy "sweetie" unless you are gay - are you gay? I guess that it is yet another positive aspect of your personality and that is the total lack of decency.

[Asker]

"Sweetie" spoken by a stranger to a girl that he does not know is an indicator that he does not respect people in general." That's just completely false. Fake news. But here's a fact: How many feminists does it take to change a light bulb? 0. Because feminists can't change anything.

[SueShe]

So, should you have a conversation with Melania Trump on a social media, would you insult her too by calling her "sweetie"? Of course not because you would sh**t in your pants due to the consequences of your actions. Again, shows the real character of a loser.

[Asker]

Official Oxford Dictionary - "Sweetie" - Used as a term of endearment. Doesn't sound like an insult to Me? But go ahead, change definitions as all feminists do!

[SueShe]

... says a person with so much courage that he needs to troll and spam anonymously. Great example of a personality. I guess the little character and personality you may have had moved into your trousers. Let's not even talk about intellect because apparently you don't have any.

[Asker]

... you sound like the ramblings of a mental patient 😂😂

[SueShe]

Nothing else to say for your defense? Did we perhaps deplete your entire iQ?

[Asker]

No I'm just laughing at how ridiculous you sound. Please stop! 😂😂

[SueShe]

So, I will stop. I don't want to cause you more anxieties. Was nice chatting with you. By the way, next time you ask a question, accept that people do not share your opinions rather than trolling and spamming those that have different opinions. It can only be positive for you.

[Nikki1989]

Disappointed would be an understatement. I would have to consider dumping him at that point.

[adoredbyher]

Whew it’s getting hot in here

[Anonymous]

More than disappointed.