Would you be offended if your partner used a sex toy? Why or Why not?

I work at an adult toy store and I frequently hear people say their partner would be upset if they were to use a sex toy. They say it’s because they’re offended that they would use the sex toy rather than them. Or that their partner feels they should be enough to satisfy their sexual needs. What do you feel?
Would you be offended if your partner used a sex toy? Why or Why not?
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  • I've worked at the same kind of store before, and I wondered the same thing.
    So far as I can figure, guys put too much value into how big their dick is (regardless of it's actual size), and almost effort into learning anything that might make them better, or to learn technique. From what I'm given to understand, guys don't take instructions well when it comes from a women and is about sex. Even though, there's a pretty good chance that women knows what she likes, and what feels good to her.
    For whatever reason guys think they know better.
    Which is one of the reasons why I've said for a while now, guys are idiots, and I don't know why a women would involve themselves with one in the first place.

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  • I suppose the benefit of not having a partner is I don't have to think about that.
    I remember a woman who was a stripper who attended the same college as I did - she had all those questions and... thought everyone was obliged to find her the sexiest female on earth (which she was not - and certainly not amongst the good ones)

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  • I've said before on this site that I know of a toy store that gives employees free toys, if they write a review on their site. There are lots of reviews from the employees. No, I have better things to worry about. But if our car was in need of repair, and he paid 30 K on a sex bot, I would drop him like third period French.

  • If I had a partner, I wouldn't be offended. Partners might not always be there to satisfy you when you need it. But on the other hand, sex toys can be good if you like to use them with your partner too.

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  • No, I think it would be great if he did that. Toys are best when you use them together but you can ofc use them for some fun when you are alone as well.

  • Not at all. I even borrow them sometimes. They're also fun to add to foreplay.

  • My ex bought me one, to use when he was away.

    But never had to use, just one call and he was coming home even from his work.

    Or he was coming to my workplace.

    • Does anyone come to see you now within an hour of calling anymore? :(

    • @marcusalonao I am single now. I don’t have sex out of relationships.

  • I wouldn’t allow it.. in fact I encourage it.. but I’ve heard a few guys say the same..

    • I WOULD allow it*

  • No not at all. Toys only add in more fun

  • I’m fine with it. I mean if I’m not available or if I’m busy working. I would want to be able to help if I could and honestly would probably leave work early if it meant taking care of my girl. But I would want her to feel free in what she is doing for herself. I would also be one hundred percent using said toys in midst of out sexy fun too. I love the idea of toys mid fun!

  • Not offended one bit. I've helped her buy them.

  • There are toys for mutual pleasure just saying

  • Honestly offended because it hurt my dignity and feel down in my heart ♥ that iam not fulfilling her physical needs, better she talk to me instead of doing this type of shit in our lovely relationship.

  • I think go for it, let's use it in our sex together as well

  • Not at all, enjoy yourself.

  • For masturbation "off the clock", no. I don't know if she does now. I hope it's not a Monster Dildo for reasons you can predict.
    I have a small toy box I open as a sleep aid.

    • “Off the clock” hilarious! 😂😂

  • I'd be annoyed if she used a sex toy and that reduced the amount of sex she wanted to have with me and I didn't get enough.

  • No. Used them and other things before, adding spontaneity and versatility is a good way to keep things interesting.

  • no not at all.
    Anything that helps her enjoy the moment is great, because then she will want to do it more often.

  • Nope, not one bit.

    Sex toys are fun

  • It would not bother me. Hopefully they'd let me help.

  • Absolutely not, I'd be the one encouraging the use of more toys. Why have less ways of giving /receiving sexual pleasure when you can have more ways?

  • Well, that depends on several things. Are they using one because the sex life sucks?

    • Well if you’re sex life sucks then you should talk to you partner. You shouldn’t feel offended but embarrassed.

  • Hell no. I got some, my wife has some. We use them together, sometimes on each other and sometimes alone.


    I wouldn’t be offended, I encourage it. Mixes things up sometimes for a bit of a different experience and an extra thrill.

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