Would you consider having sex with an overweight person?

[Anonymous]

Please just comment “yes” or “no” to my question.

Please don’t write insulting comments like “gross” or “whale.”

Don’t be a loser. Don’t be lame.

[SteveSmith1985]

Wow. The fact that you felt the need to pre-emtively tell people not to be assholes... makes me sad. I can't imagine what horrible shit people have said to you in the past, to make you feel the need to include that.

I'm... going to disregard your instructions to leave a simple yes or no. But I certainly have no intention of insulting you or being lame.

Not only would I consider having sex with an overweight person... I've actually done it! (gasp!).

I'll be honest, I'm not generally a guy who is into overweight girls. Like I'm not someone who is specifically into bigger girls. So I'm a... regular-ass-dude... but I happened to have had two sexual partners who were overweight.

And... really... it's not a big deal. It's just not. It was sex... that was no different from sex with a slim girl at the end of the day.

I think that guys who say they wouldn't consider having sex with an overweight person aren't being truthful. Not to say they're lying. What I mean is: they're thinkng of "an overweight girl" in the ABSTRACT and general sense.

They aren't thinking about any specific girl. Once you go from the abstract to talking about some specific individual girl who is overweight... Things change. All of a sudden her being overweight isn't nearly as much of an issue as you would have predicted when talking in the abstract. That's just not their main criteria in whether or not you're sexually desirable. The whole package of "you" is what's going to determine that.

But I think that asking this question might actually lead to giving you a false impression.

A lot of guys are mean as fuck to "overweight girls" in the abstract. But I bet that these same guys KNOW overweight girls in their real life... who they just don't look at as "gross" or "a whale" or any of that shit. Because they see HER (for the individual person she is. Not just "some fat girl").

Things do change for a lot of these asshole guys when you bring it down to what they think of some specific individual.

It breaks my hear to think that you believe that there is some significant proportion of guys who wouldn't consider having sex with you, because you're overweight.
I just don't think that's true. At all. Even if you end up with replies that suggest maybe that's true after all. It's not.

Please don't think that some guy you like wouldn't want to have sex with you because you're overweight. For the vast majority of guys, that's simply not true. Even if some asshole guys feel the need to PRETEND it's true (to look good for other idiots). 🙂

[Asker]

I can ask people not to be insulting but that doesn’t mean everyone will follow my orders.

[SteveSmith1985]

Wait... I hope you don't mean that I insulted you somewhere in what I said? If so... that was certainly unintentional. But if you mean "in general"... then, it's just fucked up that you'd even have to ask people not to be insulting in the first place. That's messed up. That should be the case. I'm not saying it's not necessary. Just that it SHOULDN"T be necessary.

[Asker]

I don’t feel you insulted me. I know some users on GAG can be mean while sitting behind the keyboard computer screen.

[Asker]

I know there will always be people in the world who are rude and uncaring about the feelings of other people. I just felt like telling people to try and be respectful in the comment section by not using insulting words like “gross” for example.

[Asker]

Some people might do what I ask

[SteveSmith1985]

Well I hope people do what you ask. It just sucks that you've had people be mean to you to the point that you'd even feel any need to ask. People should just be civil (at least) to you... without needing the reminder. That's all 🙂

[Asker]

So far it seems like people have done what I ask. I haven’t seen any fat jokes or insults about overweight people in the comment section yet.

[SteveSmith1985]

Well... I mean... Good! As it should be! I would like to hope that would be the case even if you hadn't asked. I guess we'll never know though.

[Dargil]

I have. She was thick but not excessively so. I was used to bony girls. I admit that Missionary position with her was "comfy".

[ShiftingMonke]

Yes.

[Guy13]

If she had a small waist then other factors would not bother me because I can see the shape.

[Tyrael]

Overweight, yeah I would. Far? No I wouldn't.

[Tyrael]

Fat*

[summiter]

Of course I would have sex with her. The body is just a shell it is the person inside that counts.

[FunkyMonkee]

Yes but, I'd LIKE to have sex with a skinny girl, for once!! all three of my ex-'s were slightly chubby to very overweight.

[exitseven]

yes, if she was nice.

[Nikki1989]

Yes I would.

[es20490446e]

I only have sex with women of a healthy weight.

[es20490446e]

The reason is usually not physical. I just want my girlfriend to be minimally active.

[genericname85]

would obviously depend on "how much" overweight.

[ashish804]

fucking yess

[LiamJHayden]

As long as she is just overweight and not obese, yes.

[dudeinohio]

Certainly

[AngryCarl2]

Yes, if I can be on top.

[TallAnon]

Nope

[FireFox001]

Nope.

[Guardian45]

Yes, I have and I would

[abc--123]

Nope.

[SmokinAces2000]

Depends on how overweight, most people are overweight but you can be overweight without being obese

[JamesRandiDebates]

Sure. I've boned plenty of fatties.

[JesseJayNeak]

Yes. I would. I’d grab the love handles