Would you date a girl who had 5 one night stands and is 21?
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And 2 boyfriends.
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+1 y
some of you truly disgust me... kinda disappointed in people... not surprised though
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I‘m a lot younger than 21 and I’m a virgin actually. This was a troll question to see how guys react. Conclusion: their main problem isn’t stds (as I claimed the girl got tested and is std free) it is the idea that many other guys have been in that girl before. Maybe they are afraid that they aren’t the best their girl has ever had. Maybe they only want sex when there is an emotional connection. Maybe they’ve just been brainwashed. Who knows.
I would like to know why she engaged in one night stands. What she was hoping for.
Asker
+1 y
Well for sex obviously. What kind of answer would you like to hear?
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Dargil
+1 y
If the answer is simply for sex, I have my answer.
Asker
+1 y
Can you please explain lol I can’t read your mind?😅
Dargil
+1 y
Some girls are actually looking for a meaningful relationship and use ONS (which hopefully may not turn out to be ONS) as preliminary interviews for something more. I think that is a bad idea, but I think it happens.
Asker
+1 y
That sounds stupid to me
Dargil
+1 y
Yes, it does.
Miristheiss
+1 y
I can... answer is no. He wouldn't want you... duh.
imjustadudeXper 7
+1 y
I'll be number 6. Where my condoms at?
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Asker
+1 y
Actually you’ll be number 8. The girl is std free she got tested
imjustadude
+1 y
Great! I don't want any kids and I need to get through this pile of Pasante super kings in the drawer before they expire.
Honestly, I do not care... As long as I find her beautiful and she is my type and has no STD
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Shark_61695Yoda
+1 y
I'm not in a position to care.
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MannMitAntwortenGuru
+1 y
So what.
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MakeushiverYoda
+1 y
I don't think I'd need to say anything. If she's 20 and has been waiting for me before having sex she's been wasting a lot if years getting to know different lovers style
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_SOARERXper 7
+1 y
If I knew about that, I wouldn't How can someone share the most intimate part of their life with 5 people who dont even care to stick around. It shows a lack of morality, values, and awareness
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FýrdracaDócincelGuru
+1 y
Sure.. as long as those encounters haven't dampened how passionate she can be.
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JKingOffExplorer
+1 y
I probably fuck her, but maybe not anything more than that. 21 is still a pretty promiscuous age. on top of that to have two boyfriends that one is one too many for my preferences. Plus 5 one night stands in counting just leads me to believe she'll probably leave me if I don't leave her.
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JKingOff
+1 y
Maybe you should grow up a bit and let the adults have their adult time. might also be a good idea for you to stop creating fake accounts on public forums. If your idea of finding the perfect match and having a successful relationship is to fuck every guy you see and then leave but get upset at them for doing the same I would suggest waiting a few years to mature first. Furthermore you did not mention that this question pertains to you specifically. Therefore it doesn't make sense for you to be taking such personal offense to a lot of the answers people submitted. unless of course this was the actual situation that you're in and you were trying to allude that to the situation. If that were the case then I suppose it would make sense. It also means that I would pitty you that much more. Have fun and good luck with your one-night stands. I'm sure that's all they're ever going to be until you can grow up a little bit more.
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Funny because you’re the one who said you’d fuck her but nothing more than that.😂 Fuck every guy I see. Haha. If a person is 21 and they started having sex at 17 they did it once a year. Okay minus the relationships so maybe twice a year. That’s not even remotely close to every guy they see. (You’re right about not creating fake accounts) I don’t need your pity. I‘m sure one night stands are all I’m ever going to be. :)
JKingOff
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Whether you need my pity or not you sure have it. And your question suggested got the hypothetical person in the situation was 21. I fuck women not kids. If the person in this question is supposed to be you then that means that you've already had five one night stands and that you currently have 2 boyfriends. To me it sounds like you have some insecurities issues. you probably think that you're not good enough to be in a successful relationship and therefore don't want anything more than a one-night stand. you probably keep two boy toys around and call them your boyfriends to make you feel like you're more of a high commodity than you really are. I'm fairly certain that if either one of these guys were to find out that you're fucking the other guy they probably fight each other and then leave you. Let's hope that they don't have a face gag account too, lol.
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Asker
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I think I misworded that. Two boyfriends so far in her life not right now and not at the same time obviously.😂
Asker
+1 y
I might have insecurity issues but that’s not the reason I posted this question. It’s just shocking that most guys wouldn’t even consider dating that girl anymore... but to be honest I believe many would date a girl with that history in real life if they are a great match otherwise. It would be stupid to not get into a relationship with someone who you like and who likes you back because of that.
JKingOff
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Ok, then that's a different story. If you are single and of age then it wouldn't really matter about your previous relationships, or lack of. Assuming that you showed the same loyalty that you would want in exchange. I would still recommend that you correct the age on your profile. Also, in the future if you have a question that's pertaining to yourself be sure to mention that rather than making people online look like they're pedophiles. if you like feel free to follow me and you can check out some of my other advice on other people's questions that they post. I believe I answered one recently instated that having a successful relationship is more than just finding the right person, it's also about being at the same level and ready for a committed relationship when you meet the right person. Or, at the very least showing the willingness and ability to grow and develop. Same is true for both parties.
JKingOff
+1 y
I can agree to that. People make mistakes and I don't believe that they should be persecuted for it for the rest of their lives.
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(68)I'd want to know more about her before I decided.
Like what?
I would like to know why she engaged in one night stands. What she was hoping for.
Well for sex obviously. What kind of answer would you like to hear?
If the answer is simply for sex, I have my answer.
Can you please explain lol I can’t read your mind?😅
Some girls are actually looking for a meaningful relationship and use ONS (which hopefully may not turn out to be ONS) as preliminary interviews for something more. I think that is a bad idea, but I think it happens.
That sounds stupid to me
Yes, it does.
I can... answer is no. He wouldn't want you... duh.
I'll be number 6. Where my condoms at?
Actually you’ll be number 8. The girl is std free she got tested
Great! I don't want any kids and I need to get through this pile of Pasante super kings in the drawer before they expire.
Reminded me of this clip..
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Wine and dine? No.
Temporary friends with benefits? Maybe.
Honestly, I do not care...
As long as I find her beautiful and she is my type and has no STD
I'm not in a position to care.
So what.
I don't think I'd need to say anything. If she's 20 and has been waiting for me before having sex she's been wasting a lot if years getting to know different lovers style
If I knew about that, I wouldn't
How can someone share the most intimate part of their life with 5 people who dont even care to stick around.
It shows a lack of morality, values, and awareness
Sure.. as long as those encounters haven't dampened how passionate she can be.
I probably fuck her, but maybe not anything more than that. 21 is still a pretty promiscuous age. on top of that to have two boyfriends that one is one too many for my preferences. Plus 5 one night stands in counting just leads me to believe she'll probably leave me if I don't leave her.
Maybe you should grow up a bit and let the adults have their adult time. might also be a good idea for you to stop creating fake accounts on public forums. If your idea of finding the perfect match and having a successful relationship is to fuck every guy you see and then leave but get upset at them for doing the same I would suggest waiting a few years to mature first. Furthermore you did not mention that this question pertains to you specifically. Therefore it doesn't make sense for you to be taking such personal offense to a lot of the answers people submitted. unless of course this was the actual situation that you're in and you were trying to allude that to the situation. If that were the case then I suppose it would make sense. It also means that I would pitty you that much more. Have fun and good luck with your one-night stands. I'm sure that's all they're ever going to be until you can grow up a little bit more.
Funny because you’re the one who said you’d fuck her but nothing more than that.😂 Fuck every guy I see. Haha. If a person is 21 and they started having sex at 17 they did it once a year. Okay minus the relationships so maybe twice a year. That’s not even remotely close to every guy they see. (You’re right about not creating fake accounts) I don’t need your pity. I‘m sure one night stands are all I’m ever going to be. :)
Whether you need my pity or not you sure have it. And your question suggested got the hypothetical person in the situation was 21. I fuck women not kids. If the person in this question is supposed to be you then that means that you've already had five one night stands and that you currently have 2 boyfriends. To me it sounds like you have some insecurities issues. you probably think that you're not good enough to be in a successful relationship and therefore don't want anything more than a one-night stand. you probably keep two boy toys around and call them your boyfriends to make you feel like you're more of a high commodity than you really are. I'm fairly certain that if either one of these guys were to find out that you're fucking the other guy they probably fight each other and then leave you. Let's hope that they don't have a face gag account too, lol.
I think I misworded that. Two boyfriends so far in her life not right now and not at the same time obviously.😂
I might have insecurity issues but that’s not the reason I posted this question. It’s just shocking that most guys wouldn’t even consider dating that girl anymore... but to be honest I believe many would date a girl with that history in real life if they are a great match otherwise. It would be stupid to not get into a relationship with someone who you like and who likes you back because of that.
Ok, then that's a different story. If you are single and of age then it wouldn't really matter about your previous relationships, or lack of. Assuming that you showed the same loyalty that you would want in exchange. I would still recommend that you correct the age on your profile. Also, in the future if you have a question that's pertaining to yourself be sure to mention that rather than making people online look like they're pedophiles. if you like feel free to follow me and you can check out some of my other advice on other people's questions that they post. I believe I answered one recently instated that having a successful relationship is more than just finding the right person, it's also about being at the same level and ready for a committed relationship when you meet the right person. Or, at the very least showing the willingness and ability to grow and develop. Same is true for both parties.
I can agree to that. People make mistakes and I don't believe that they should be persecuted for it for the rest of their lives.