Sexual Relationships
+1 y

Would you help a man who is being sexually harassed?



Would you help a man who is being sexually harassed?
This question was inspired by these videos that REALLY pissed me off:




I'm just floored of how people react when a men are harassed by women. Maybe it is a stereotype that all men want nothing but sex, but my main problem is is that YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT THE FUCK THAT MAN HAS GONE THROUGH!!! He could have had a traumatizing experience as a kid, maybe he was raped by his uncle, or he was molested by a close adult and he might be really uncomfortable with what she's doing, but it makes me sick that the only thing other people could think is "why don't you want that?". I hope that this made some people look at this issue from a new perspective, and if your reading this, will you spread awareness on this issue. Not all men are strong enough to fight alone.
YES
Vote A
NO
Vote B
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
Girl Guy
0 1

Most Helpful Guys

  • I once worked at a McDonalds and when i was at the fries or making a sandwich, my black female coworkers would walk by and slap my butt.

    One girl did it and then pretty soon other girls would join in and slap or touch my butt every time they walked past. Then they would giggle. These women were in their 20s and 30s.

    Some of the girls I thought were attractive and wanted to have sex with but I was a shy guy because I wasn't used to being around black people (I am black from a white family).

    Anyways, I never flirted with them because I was shy. What they did was sooo humiliating each day I wanted to cry. I was a grown 25 year old man and I wanted to cry. But I was a black man and had an image to protect.

    Not one coworker came to my defense. Not one female told them to stop. It only stopped when my white manager yelled at them to "knock it off!"

    The damage was done. Fuck that McDonalds. Fuck fastfood work.

    • Did you tell them to stop? I think it's disgusting how the harrasment of men hasn't been taken seriously enough. Of course if you didn't tell them, they maybe taught you liked it and tought it was cute. I wouldn't like it either.

    • @PrettyRegular I think I did but I also felt a lot of pressure as a black man to "look tough". To I guess "look masculine". I couldn't complain for women hitting on me or touching me sexually because I felt it would immaculate me. I've also been an abuse victim so it really triggered a flight response.

  • Okay to be fair. Adam Saleh and JoeySalads have both been caught faking their "social experiments"so don't believe them in the video.

    But I fucking loath the idea that sexual harrassment is one sided. It happens less to men sure but it still exists. So yeah I would do something about it if I saw it.

    • I don't really know who Adam Saleh and JoeySalads are, I may have watched like I don't know, 4 JoeySalads videos, but I don't really watch them.

    • Yeah don't worry bro. Not putting you on the podium or anything. I was just saying they were fake, not your fault for not knowing.

    • Well even though they MIGHT be fake, I think this is a big problem that men deal with, and its not just sexual harassment, its pretty much any type of victimization. If a woman was being beaten by a group of guys in public, half of the world would go to her rescue, but if a dude was being beaten by a group of guys in public, everyone's first reaction seems to be to take out their phone and record it, not as evidence to show police, but to upload it on "world star" or some shit. I think this needs to stop and people need to have the balls and humanity to help ANYONE who's being victimized.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If he wanted help.
    Let's be honest... most guys have wet dreams about being sexually harassed and would love the opportunity.
    Of course, it is the complete opposite with girls.
    Exceptions apply to both sexes, but that is the rule.

    • @laurieluvsit I don't what kind of guys you talk to, but they have serious mental issues xD

    • Your right, a lot of guys would like to get sex without having to ask, but there are plenty of guys who would feel very uncomfortable in those situations. Like how most women don't want to be sexually harassed, but there are some women who fantasized about being raped.

    • @ImJustCurious13 You are right. I will not argue. My point is just that more guys than girls statistically would not mind it. I don't see where that could really be denied? Am I wrong again?

    • Show All

  • I stood up and testified for decent man who was harassed and then falsely accused by a devious woman in the building where I worked.

    • did the woman receive ANY punishment.

    • @shephardjhon: Apparently, we opened a can of worms that revealed past offenses that flew under the radar 'til I blew the whistle on her. The cases are now being filed against her one by one. We'll see soon enough.

    • YOU ARE A HERO.

    • Show All

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

How to make a guy last longer?
Do you believe virgins glow differently?
Am I wrong for leaving my girlfriend of two years, because she did not disclose to me that she had been a stripper and prostitute in her past?
Have you ever touched something or someone or let something or someone touch you in an inappropriate way? What happened? You can be anonymous?

What Girls & Guys Said

21 54

  • I would help ANYBODY that is sexually harassed. It is not a question of sexes. There are boys too that are gentlemen and girls that are taking advantage of somebody that may be too shy to defend himself verbally and even less to go for physical force against the offender

  • Yes, But If I'm honest I wouldn't know the difference between messing around and harassment,
    I've never seen it. But It happens, although society never focuses on men when It comes to harassment, so I wouldn't know how to tell unless It was like extreme.

    But of course If I knew he was being harassed I'd help him!

  • I would and do help anyone I see in a unwanted situation. Crazy lady hitting on you excessively and following you around. I have no problem walking up and putting on an act to help.

  • It depends, like if he's dealing with her on his own okay. But if he looks like he's struggling I'd help. I'd probably say something like "Damn, calm down and go rub one off somewhere. He doesn't want you so go knock your cobwebs off somewhere else."

  • I'd say it depends on the situation. If it looks like they'd be just fooling around (like the guy in the first video was smiling half of the time) I won't get involved but if it looks more serious (like in the second video) I would get inbetween.

  • Yes, of course, it doesn't matter the gender, if someone is being treated wrongly, someone needs to step up and help. There should never be an assumption that someone can take care of themselves, people should always do the right thing and not be mere bystanders.

  • Would I "... take one for the team"? Hell yes! LOL ;-)

    Seriously, I don't like getting involved with other people's drama. I would simply say I hope it works out for you. But seek help If you can't handle it alone.

  • Sure...

  • Lmao, is he five? Unless it's a child, no. Girls can't rape sober men.

    • But a woman can bully a man.

    • So you're afraid to get your ass beat by a tiny little girl, do you want your mommy?

    • It is that man hater again, runt.

    • Show All

  • Absolutely I would help.

  • Yes, although I rarely see this? Not trying to start anything, just stating a fact.

  • No one from either gender deserves to be sexually harassed

  • In both situations, I probably would have used an old cliche’ and told them to “get a room”. (take that somewhere private)
    But, it is weird how some reacted and some didn’t. I would have liked to see how the last group would have reacted if she was harassing him instead!

    • None of these videos are real. It's all an act. Have people seriously not noticed that you can see their faces, meaning they're not like blurred out/censored or whatever? Which means they signed a waiver? Which means they're in on it? Which means the vids are all an act. So the @ImJustCurious13 is getting mad about nothing.

  • If I see a guy who seems to actually need help, sure.

  • Honestly depends on how serious the situation is. I'm not particularly one to get involved. But if the situation seems serious enough, I would at least wanna ask what's going on or get someone else involved. It would probably have to go beyond being a minor nuisance. This honestly applies both ways. Regardless, it is a dumb double standard that it's taken more seriously (on average) with one gender and not the other. You should probably assess the situation based on whether the person is positively or negatively receptive towards it, and if negative, whether it continues to be a problem from there.

  • If he dislikes it i'd stick up for him, i know many guys that wouldn't mind it that much and see it as flirting.

  • Yes, I would. All the guys on here are talking about how a guy should be able to defend himself against a woman. That is true. Physically. But what about emotional damage?

  • I would have screamed leave him alone. Jeez, but some scenarios looked like they were a couple fighting. Not sure if its our place to intervene.

  • If it's into my capacity I surely will.

  • I laughed lol.. Obviously these videos are trolling hahahhah

    • No shit, it was a social experiment

    • @Choloswag i know that, they explained it in the very beginning.

    • Prepare to get harassed. I'll be there eating popcorn watching you.

    • Show All
  • Show More (55)

Latest Questions

Guys, Is life a paradox?
Will you consider Transwoman as a woman or no?
Finger in my ass?
Would you hook up with a person who had sex on that day and didn't take a shower?
Home >  Sexual Relationships  > Would you help a man who is being sexually harassed?