Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health In my opinion, virgin or not, you have to teach your partner how to tend to your body. Anyways, i choose D and much rather an inexperienced partner so that we can learn together and teach eachother. Only thing they need to know before hand is foreplay like how to kiss, suck dese tits, and finger me. Some things porn just can't teach ya. But forreal tho, dont let virginity fool ya. I know some virgins who you wouldve thought were pornstars in disguise. Shit my virgin ex was better in bed than my so-called experienced ex. I think its because one was a selfish lover who lacked romance/passion.
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Would you rather teach a virgin what to do in bed or get with someone with previous experience?
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21 70Makes zero difference to me.
I'd rather get with a man who has experience
Just be careful
I don't want to get with a man who's had over 3 or 4 girlfriend's, but a little experience would be nice.
Okay yea i consider that inexperienced. To me it means he knows enough but can still learn mroe with you. Thats the kinda guy i prefer
It really doesn't make much difference to me. However I prefer someone who is not a virgin.
Trying to have sex with a woman for the first time is hard enough work. Getting with a virgin is too much of a hustle.
If I have known the virgin for a long time before hand, then yes. May be but if not, I prefer a none virgin. They can emotionally handle themselves better.
To me it is more about comfort levels when it comes to having sex for the first time. Girls/ women who are not vitgins know themselves better and are easier to get comfortable with than virgins. With virgins one almost has to babysit. The emotional fragility high. Luckily for me I lost my virginity to some one I trusted with my life. That is perhaps why it didn't bother me.
I see. I have the same emotional attachment as a nonvirgin as i did when a virgin
It means you lost your virginity to some one you trusted
Yea well i was pressured the first time around and the second time injust shouldn't have. but i’d forever regret both
Sorry to hear that. I suppose I guessed wrong. What I implied in my reply was that if the first time was with some one you trusted, you would not really. Notice much of a change y your emotional attachment regardless of how much you had changed. But if the first time was had, you would notice a change after you met the right person (by right person here I don't mean one you would marry, but the one that just felt right to do it with) I guess the first time was also with an inexperienced guy or perhaps a guy who just didn't know how to treat women?
I would ONLY have sex with someone i legit was IN LOVE with and thought i was about to marry. The first ex claimed to be experienced but wasn't and was a selfish lover at that. One of my other exes was a virgin
Hence that is why I said, "by the right person, I don't mean one you would marry. But one that just felt right to do it with.") It is all just an opinion based decision. We never truly know for certain if the one we think we will marry, will be the one we will marry. My statement wasn't to take away how you would choose a sexual partner but constructed to reflect reality. Any way to make my point clear, based on my experience, I would say the way I treat women is based on my first three sexual partners. They taught me true friendship with a sexual partner. They were the ones who seduced me. Obviously my first was with my babysitter. Obviously I was not a baby anymore but still needed being looked after. So an older girl than me looked after me. We developed a strong bond of friendship based on trust and when she seduced me, everything could not have been more normal. Second time round was with another girl. A neighbour. She was again older than me but we used to play together. She seduced me. And third was with a friend who was very fond of me. I would hang out with her every time I came back from boarding school. She was very romantic. And at the time we didn't even know what romance was and yet everything was so natural. So I treat my sexual partners the same way. And even in the pressure of a competition when another guy happens to want the same girl I want, I never change. Win or lose, I think the friendship is vital and comes above just getting in the girl's pants.
Luckily I shot blanks during those three times. I would not risk what I was doing then, now
Yea we went raw too
teaching a virgin is a great thing to do. I love it
I agree
Definitely. That way, I can train them in what I like
I'm assuming by experience it means "good at what they do because experience is hard to find. The worst sex I ever had was still sex but I always prefer mind blowing sex.
I've had mind blowing sex with a virgin
A, B or C
Impartial.
Great pic. Got ya lookin all angelic
Lol thank you. First time someone's ever said I look angelic lmao lol.
I told you i thought you were for he longest 😂 fooled me
Lol you've never said I was angelic looking before -_- not that I can remember anyway /=
No but i thought you were an angelic person (personality wise). This time i just thought you LOOKED angelic as well lol
Oooooooooooooooo ok I gotcha that's where I got confused.
Either or
I agree that experience doesn't always make you good in bed but in most cases it helps. It especially helps her to be able to tell me her likes and dislikes beforehand. Also I would assume most virgins are going to be nervous which will effect both of our performances and they tend to fall in love hard and fast. Sometimes when they shouldn't
Yes true
Been with a couple of virgins, not bad or laborious but definitely prefer an experienced woman
I see
at least some experience is my prefference. teaching it all takes the fun out of teaching any of it. her having some experience will also highlight my skills for sex.
Ahh ok
i've always thought that virginity is best taken with a vibe in the comfort & privacy of their own place where they feel most comfortable. that way they can control the pace of it, the pain of it in a well lit, sanitary and however fast they want to bust their cherry. it allows and wounds to heal. I also encourage them to explore how, where, how much, when they enjoy pleasure which makes them feel a little more knowledgeable about how their bodies respond
Thats very aweet
I have been with both, I personally dislike virgins because they often have unrealistic expectations of what their first time should be.
The girls usually go in clueless. The guys usually think its gonna be a porno
yeah never understood that. I got lucky on my first time i think. The person i was with was incredibly patient and didn't make me feel stupid for not knowing what i was doing.
Well with the first person, i was pressured. And with The second person, i was a bit bossy
Doesn't really matter as long as she's comfortable with her body and isn't afraid of sex. That's a deal breaker. Been there done that and doesn't work out good.
Afraid of it how
They tense up so bad sex hurts for them. Basically you shouldn't be in any adult relationship if you're not ready for sex. Unless you partner has the same mindset for example is also waiting for marriage.
I tense up with any new partner because im not used to their dick yet. So of course virgins will tense up
Not all virgins tense up. Also it's not just virgins that do that. Not sure why being a virgin has anything to do with it lol, I didn't even bring that aspect up.
Im not a virgin so i spoke for myself when i said even i tense up
Never said you were tho 😆, I'm confused. Imma go do something constructive now, have a good day.
It's not rocket science with time patience practise and love we can teach other, that's how people build compatibility they learn together i think most people prefer virgins for that reason bc any little sex would be good slow and steady , so doesn't matter virgin or not won't even ask that question but sure may be ask how relationships she had been how long, if 1 that is fine easy to handle
Yea i can't take someone serious if they felt the need to sleep with several people to gain experience when they couldve jus tkept practicing with one
@DizzyDesii 100
Virgin.
A lot of the sex is violent these days and women don’t know what intimacy is.
I would teach her
Well at least you're willing to teach
Either I guess, my girlfriend was a virgin before she met me so I had to teach her some stuff I guess. Although it's not that many things that you need to teach. Some stuff comes naturally
'D'efinitely 'D' i sitll remember this one time had sex with and older women.. she just surprised me in many ways in bed... i have yet to meet another woman like her. good times
Ooo nice
Well seeing as I'm not the most experienced myself... more experienced sounds fun
Haha i bet
We would learn together. But, not to sound cocky, but I may be doing most of the teaching.
Whys that lol? Porn teach you a lot lol
Yeah lol.
Porn gets a bad rap, and undeservedly so. When you say "porn," people just assume you mean rough sex. When it's not that at all.
Lol it def came in handy with my other ex. He still sucked at oral but the sex was good
@DizzyDesii See? Tell your friends.
by the way, I wouldn't suck at oral.
Lol he only sucked because i was too wet and he kept drowning 😂 when he lifted his face, he was dripping all over
Lol. That's pretty funny. So then that's not his fault!
It is his fault for not knowing how to swim with the current 😂
@DizzyDesii Lol. Oh, really
@dizzydesii he didn't know how to lick that up fast enough. You'd be clean after I was done
@Wiredone Please share your knowledge lol.
I treat women with respect and dignity. I'm a pationate lover. I don't cause them pain.
Huh? So you would just say this to pussy while down 🤔😛 and it would dry up?
@Wiredone Same here. But I meant the pussy-licking. Lol
Aakash I didn't understand your question.
I mean like he would say to the pussy, that "I treat women with respect and dignity, I am passionate lover i dont cause them pain" And thd pussy would dry up 😂, it was supposed to be a joke.. Like sweet talking to it after all they are thd hidden lips so 😁😁..
@jamie05rhs you just have to keep that tongue going and swallow. It's hard to explain what I do, I just do it. I've had women squirt like a river flowing , I never missed a drop.
@weirdone so practise is the key make you tongue sharp and keep going 👍
@Aakash_Hangargi I didn't say she would be dried up, I said she'd be clean
@Wiredone Thanks for the tip! I'll have to go on a run first so I'm good and thirsty.
Ok clean, and I was just kidding by the way lol 👍, what do I know i haven't seen even a real pussy up close 😂
@jamie05rhs basically once it starts flowing just keep swallowing.
@Aakash_Hangargi you don't know what you are missing. It's addicting once you get your first taste
Well, I think that I would have the taste only after marriage 😂 and not sure who is goung to marry me 💍🤣
@Wiredone daaaamn dont make my Mississippi river flood rn 🙌
@DizzyDesii Is this too much for you? Lol.
@dizzydesii calm down girl. You're still at work. I doubt you wore waders to work. You might get swept away with the current. Lmao 🤣
@Aakash_Hangargi Haha. Neither have I.
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won't be the first time i watched porn at work 🤣
@DizzyDesii Why do you have to watch porn? We aren't good enough for you? Lol
Lmao i can't 😂
Lol.
@dizzydesii so you make believe your working when instead your watching porn. Shame on you.
@Wiredone its called multitasking
Yeah I heard you women are good at that.
Lolol
@Wiredone depends on the task
Hahaha 🤣😂