



From reading through some of the answers, people have not had good sex health education.
As @agape93 said something can be there with zero sexual contact.
Then there are things related to the question, it’s about a virgin.
i know when we used to go on Air Force exercise in the states we had a lot of anal sex with girls, as they were saving their virginity, this is the same in some other countries.
Then there is the fact a guy does not know if a girl is a virgin or not, ditto for the girl knowing if guy is a virgin or not.
in both cases you are trusting someone with not getting a life changing STD.
She may have shared sex toys with a friend, a friend with an STD…
https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/sexual-health/sex-activities-and-risk/
the rule is every new partner get an Sex health checkup.
After every partner, have a sex health checkup.
after x months get a repeat and keep it regular, every 6 months or a year. A lot of this depends on trust and it’s a lot of trust with both not cheating etc.
Damn people share sex toys. Thats just nasty
Hell yes, I would! Everybody's gettin' tested. I ain't playing around with that sheeit.
I agree!
Your partner could go and cheat on you right after getting tested and catch something. You aren’t paranoid about that, but you’re paranoid a virgin would have catched something from being cut by something. It’s so much more likely somebody would cheat on you and catch something.
No I've thought about both but yes the first bothers me more
Yeap absolutely. Some diseases can be inherited, like HIV, some can be passed on accidentally like getting herpes by drinking after someone or by a blood transfusion.
Omg yes i forgot about how all of that is too! people need to pay attention
Agreed.
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That seems silly. If you don't trust that they are a virgin, or haven't disclosed any possibilities of being infected with something, then why are you having sex with them?
I would trust theyre a Virgin. I was just saying in general that you can't trust everyone who says that
Generally no. Is the virgin shooting up? Dirty needle does it more than dirty dick. If that's a worry, go ahead and have it done.
Shit they definitely need to get tested
Haha shiiit yeah you better, then
No im not with anyone who does that. I was saying if u were lmao
Yeah, I respect people and give tested facts I expect facts. Not going on anyones word or what they feel is sex or not. You get just as many STDs with your mouth. And “pulling out” and “five seconds rules” don’t work with anything. ; )
Sex shouldn’t really come with a complex pop quiz. As long as they have a clean bill of health, we should be okay.
i am one, meaning done nothing with anyone. but if the person i choose to be with asked me, i totally would without hesitation.
Its for the best
i have nothing to hide so it wouldn't bother me in the slightest
Can't see why.
Yea but people can even be born with diseases and stuff that they may not be aware of
I could consent to getting tested on the same date. This reassures her.
Yes because sometimes people lie about shit like that and the chance of non sexual infection. Years ago before we had are youngest and we were already married like 4 years I went and got tested because I used a buddies razor one time and found out later he had hepatitis years ago. Just so everybody knows the doctor said it’s not very likely to catch something from someone’s razor especially if it’s dry is what I was told I had her test me anyways since before I got married I was with a lot of girls and didn’t start using condoms religiously until I was almost 18 but even when using condoms they sometimes break. Thankfully all was well
Damn yea never share razors. My fam does but i dont. Stay safe
You’re right about that
Both of us need to be tested
I agree
Yes, getting tested would be the best for them to do, My first ex-girlfriend was in Mayview State Hospital now it's closed but she caught genital warts or she developed I don't know much about it but we never had sex, just fingering and I sucked her nipples she was a big girl, I've learned where to find my ladies and make sure they are disease-free as well if they want me to get tested I will do so, In them, States Hospitals them mentally ill people get away with having sex just about anywhere or whatever sex acts they do but yes I would require a virgin to get tested.
Oh woow
@dizzydesii Yes i was lucky
I mean, I think it is less of a risk for women as men usually do not lie about having fewer sexual partners. Being a virgin guy isn't exactly seen as attractive. Being a virgin girl on the other hand is a different story.
It's a tricky topic. Yes, getting tested is the safe move. That being said - demanding a test from your partner that claims to be a virgin essentially means "I do not trust you enough".
Then i wouldn't trust em cause im doing what i have to to keep myself healthy so the mf gettin a test
Yup, you can get stds without having sex.
I don't think so as I'd trust that they're telling me truth.
I’d trust its true too but some people may not realize they have a disease like agape93 said
They'd have to be rather irresponsible to share sex toys lol.
People lie. I would insist on us both getting tested regardless of if she was a virgin.
I agree
Both of us will get tested. She and I never had sex but we’re going to get tested to see if we’re both fertile and clean.
Oh nice
Both tested, just in case. And when we both cum back clean, let the rodeo begin.
Cum back for more!!
Always.
D. Both should get tested, that will make the sex way more enjoyable.
I never really thought about that when I would have sex with a virgin but I still don't think the girl needs to get tested I feel the guy should be tested if he is a virgin but you got to watch out there is some fake virgins out there.
Both need to be tested
I used to feel the same way when I first started having sex. That every little thing had AIDS or Herpes on it.
No...
Dang
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