2 guys want to tag team me? Any experiences with that?

[Anonymous]

Well I don't know if I want to.. I do, but I don't. Lol is it better than just one guy? I feel like a slut if I do, I've never done it

[Anonymous]

Judging from BA, it's the support you wanted to hear, so good for you, you got what you wanted.

However, I might point out that BA really isn't about what YOU want to hear, even IF it's your question, the rest of those who spent time supporting you didn't get THE consideration for the most comprehensive, thoughtful, all-encompassing holistic answer = BEST.

parkway has a point, made it well but there are SO many other answers passed over that most justly deserve BEST - I am not alone, consider the parkway ratings! Very controversial your selection & even perhaps premature ... not enough answers had arrived & trigger pulled too soon?

No, it appears you found what you wanted, then BA, then update, update = answerers waste more time checking in on your question.

Thinking out loud, it may be a pattern to learn from & avoid. Answerers below, let's consider NOT giving time to answers from Anons anymore as a salute to past time wasted. Let's consider Anon as a sign that we will be dealing with a me, myself & I, a one way street will certainly be the result. As a final tribute, I send my answer Anon to offer the same lack of respect & selfish interests.

[Olivia9]

Agreed

[parkway]

For the time of your life. Every woman dreams of being ravaged.

Sad but who benefits?

In everybody's mind you are the girl who will do anything and the bonus is you are free. You loose all your friends if you call them that. Who can respect a woman who does the team. None of them will take you home to meet mother or bring their girlfriends around you.

A true man who cared about you would never want, desire or permit another man to sleep with his woman. With that said, we all know what he thinks of you. The same type of guy that if you were pulled over with drugs in the car, you are the one they all blame, because you have done anything for them, so doing time is nothing but a thing. Think about where their mind is.

The question is would this same man let his friends have sex with his mother? This is how gross the picture is to a man. Do they get turned on by hurting you, turning you on, humiliation you, or just want to see what happens.

Do you respect yourself or are you lost in lust?

Good luck,

[Toxicproblem]

wow finally a great answer

[Asker]

Not going to lie.. This comment made me think ALOT.

[teapot1]

Couldn't have said it better. This kind of advice comes across better from a male than a female to a lot of women.

[Olivia9]

Great answer, it's really sad that a girl thinks this is okay or normal.

[Olivia9]

My friend is very sexually adventurous and she said that she tried doing a mmf threesome. She told me when she started it was okay and then it got scary and overwhelming and she stopped. It kind of sounds like your current boyfriend is trying to pimp you out and that is really sad to use you like that.

[Betwyn]

MFM is the best...

Being spit roasted... and when one guy finishes or gets tired...

Switch!

Slut is just a word to hold us down..

To make us feel inferior...

If you like it and its fun, why should't we do it?

Guys don't get shamed like this for the same things...

[Asker]

I love this! By far the best answer!

[Asker]

Why are girls getting the bad reputation, but when guys do it.. They get looked up to by there friends?! Lol! I wish I was a guy!

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

slut is just a word that describes a person who has a lot of casual sex. The context in which its used determines if it's meant to hold you down or so. Nothing wrong with a girl or a guy being a slut in general.

[madhatters4]

"Slut is just a word to hold us down.. To make us feel inferior... If you like it and its fun, why should't we do it? Guys don't get shamed like this for the same things" Agree with all this. slut is a term used by girls or guys to place judgement on someone. Just like nerd or prude. most people place a negative connotation on the definition. but we should embrace the definition rather than the judgmental connotation someone associates it with

[Alex85]

A woman should be able to express herself sexually without being judged. I adore my wife, I cherish her and would do anything to bring her joy. My wife loves having sex with multiple guys at once. She loves being the center of attention in the bedroom and I am totally honored to share this beautiful woman. We both look at this as wonderful exciting sex and nothing more. There is no intimacy or connection once they leave the room. During, it is passionate, intimate and personal but as soon as it's over, It's back to her being my wife and the guys involved know our boundaries in and out of the bedroom. I suggest you have a strong relationship before you start this journey but it has been amazing for my wife and I. I have shared my wife with friends and co workers. She always has a say in the guys we select. People assume the man is making this happen. On the contrary, my wife is the one in control. This is her fantasy. She loves it and I only love her more for her fearless honesty.

[teapot1]

They just want to act out a scene from a p*rn movie. I don't know about slutty but it defo won't be cos they care about you.

Tbh its a matter of choice. Only you are going to have to deal with the consequences if there are any. I would just feel used.

[Married-in-PA]

Defintely do this. LOL.

The worst thing that can happen is that you never speak to either of them again... big deal?

Be brave, so few girls have the courage to do this. It's not gonna make you a slut, it's going to make you a Babe.

[Asker]

Nah. I will speak to both of them after.. That would be a HUGE deal. They're my best friends!

[jmowen]

If you're scared or uncomfortable, don't do it. Like someone said, it's like something from a p*rn site and one of them probably saw it and decided they wanted to do it. P*rn is much different than reality. Those in that business are used to that kind of thing. It's not really meant to be used by normal people unless they are really sexually adventurous. And doing the three some would definitely impact the relationship/friendship you have with them. Everyone might say that it won't, feelings won't get in the way, etc. but it will.

[katiesmuff]

Hard to beat a good night with two adventurous guys who are happy to ravage that little pussie between your legs.

[kheserthorpe]

I would vote both A and B.

I suspect this will impact the friendship, but who knows.

If its something you really want to do, well, probably go for it. If not, don't do it.

Beyond impacting this friendship, I do suspect a lot of guys in the future, if they know, it will impact how they see you, and beyond any moral judgement, how they feel about their ability to satisfy you in a monogamous relationship.

It seems to me a MMF is different from a FFM. I think some guys (its not really a big fantasy for me) think a FFM would be hot, but not 'overwhelming' the way the girls describe a MMF.

I think that 'overwhelming' aspect is what people who find a MMF hot like about it - that the woman is being -f***ed- in ways that aren't possible by just one guy. While a future boyfriend may find that idea hot, it may also weigh on him that he can never overwhelm you like that.

Just something to consider.

[Arrowdynamics]

YOLO... If this is something you want to try then go for it, but everybody has to comfortable with it. I've only had one MMF experience and she loved it so did I but my friend not so much. He had the short end of the stick she didn't ignore him but she tilted more one way then the other. Since I was invited to join them he didn't like the attention I was getting. He didn't say anything but I sensed it. Now when they come around there's a little tension.

[madhatters4]

you should do it if you want to. not concerning yourself so much with appearing like a slut.

I do think that many guys do kinda look down on girls who have had a mmf threesome btu if you are really into you should just do it

[skinandbones]

er...i don't think you should if you aren't 100% certain... eeeeek :/ I think sometimes those things are better as fantasies then things you act out in real life if you aren't a p*rn star.

[Asker]

Haha. Yeah definitely not a p*rn star!

[Toxicproblem]

yeah make sure you're comfortable

[skinandbones]

lol :p I really do think that if you do that...they might see you differently... I would think it's a very slutty thing to do :/ I'm sorry to say that, but it's how I feel

[Asker]

Yeah that's what I'm thinking.. Like it sounds fun and everything, because I've never done it with 2 guys.. but I don't want that reputation. They both said they wouldn't tell anyone, but I don't know.. lol

[skinandbones]

yea... I don't know about that either LOL. I mean..how would you feel afterwards? I really think it's a hottt fantasy...but in reality...idk

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

It's technically slutty, but if you wanna do it, it's your life. Do with it as you please. But don't hide your experiences from future mates because it wouldn't be fair to them to be lied to.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

If you want to be used like a real-life sex toy, go for it. Because right now those guys are high-fiving themselves for being so cool they could get a chick to do that.

[MissDashwood]

My MMF experiences have been fantastic. Sensory overload. Crazy orgasms. But if the idea of it makes you uncomfortable, don't do it. Your friends will understand. Do what feels right to you.

[MikeK]

Sounds wild :)

[Married-in-PA]

Someone should be kissing your feet, Mlle. You're a Goddess.

[MissDashwood]

Lips should be put to better use elsewhere, but thank you Monsieur.

[theblondeguy]

ive done it and you have to be pretty hardcore and like hardcore sex if your gonna do DP are they bi by chance? because tht opens up a whole new realm of possibilities...

and I think its hot but I like both sooooooo...

it definitely a fun time for everyone,especially you ;P

id go for it...

[Asker]

LMAO they aren't bi... AT ALL. I know forsure they're straight. I've done them both my whole life.. It's not like I'm having intercourse at the same time, they're switching. Nothing is going up the other hole! lol F***that!

[Asker]

known*

[theblondeguy]

oh well tht ain't sh*t then lol I'm might ruin your guys friendship tho O.o and WHY ANAL IS FUN XD

[Asker]

Um have you had anal.. Not you f***ing some girl. You getting it in the ass? Didn't think so. Lol I have once and the guy was probably had the smallest d*** I've seen and it still hurt.. My boyfriend right now... Is HUGE. How could it ruin the guy's friendship?

[theblondeguy]

yes I hav had anal actually and it could ruin your guys's friendship because personally I never once had sex with a friend and remained friends and the guys might get jealous as well I don't know if you want to do it thts your call but all I'm sayin is be wary and the guys on here think its so hot and are pressuring you to do it because theyre trying to help fellow bros out because a lot of girls won't do this...

[Kris85]

See in my mind there would be d***s going up both holes. Isn't that part of MMF ? I know there is more to it but usually anal is right in there with it , girl gets f***ed by one guy in one hole and one guy is in the other. Hell if your gonna do it might as well go all out and do that too. I have toyed with idea as well but don't know if I could ever do it

[theblondeguy]

yea you could do one in each or two in one or suck one and get f***edby one if you're not into anal it is pretty hardcore but its fun like bi three sums are wayy more fun like having a f*** train is the hottest thing ever haha

[bigboi38]

Shit if you are down then why not. If 2 girls wanted to have their way with me I wouldn't think twice. I hav heard Crome girls that they love it! Have sun and don't worry what people call u. All that matters is what you feel inside!

[MikeK]

No, I have no experience with this...

but I really think you should go for it :)

It's hot because satisfying a woman is great :)

[TwiztedTD]

I would like to do it someday. I don't know if I will ever get the chance, and if I do get the change I don't know if id man up lol.

But I'd say go for it, you only live once. And I have read a lot of people post on here saying they enjoyed it.

[user453878]

Not a bid thing what so ever! F*** what anyone hating has to say! Im trying to convince my girlfriend to let me and my best friend tag team her, but she's a little hesitant. How was it for you? Maybe your insight will give her some confidence?

[tiredofwaiting]

Well I am a firm believer in trying anything at least once so go for it girl!

[xXxAx3LxXx]

I don't like sharing so no thanks jeff

[flex78er]

Getting a girl to do a 3some with another dude, means she’s just sextoy to us guys. No successful man wants a relationship with girls he shares.

[Anonymous]

You changed BA from parkway to Betwyn? WTH?

Anyone like that SHOULD be split roasted, a real switch hitter ... perhaps tag team DOES fit this relationship of yours.

Since there's no marriage vows afoot, think this an ideal fun idea - all the best

I think I have a crystal ball on how all this will turn out in the long run but - not knowing this trio relationship well enough, will reserve that for another day ... perhaps when you report back in after a few months to teach us the pros/cons of tag teaming?

[Asker]

Yes I did. F***everyone's opinion on me. Already over with, my boyfriend is completely cool with it. Him, me, and are friend were completely trashed. Guess what? You can't always be scared to do something. There's nothing wrong with taking chances and risks. I trust both of them.. I know they won't think differently of me. You have no idea what they're like. I've known both of them for almost 19 years. So f*** off! I know my boyfriend won't leave me.

[Asker]

Nothings different between us. I made sure that they both know it was a one time thing. Not happening again. They agreed..It happened last night and we all hung out today and are hanging out again tonight later on... Nothing was different. He was only getting his friend laid, because he just got out of a one year relationship with his first everything and she cheated multiple times on him.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the after roasting story update! WOW - to be the needy friend! Kudos to you for being so giving; hope you got something out of this, sexually, hot memories, etc.? Caring & sharing Boyfriend - amazing Hope the wasted effects begin to eclipse after hydration sometime today. Would love to read more real life stories like this ...

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I would never participate in any kind of threesome myself. I can't really tell you what to do in this case, it's up to you.