I'm not really into hand jobs anyway because a woman can't feel what it feels like so it's always clumsy and not gentle enough in some areas and it doesn't feel like she's trying to pleasure a living being but more like she's cleaning a metal pipe or something I don't know. I just wanna do other things instead.
LMAOOO it did feel like a metal pipe
Don't take it personally I think hand jobs are just not meant to be XD
I would understand and teach. There is actually an art to a good hand job. From the other comments in here I can tell some guys never had a good one. I’ve had handjobs that were better than blowjobs and sex. There’s technique to it for sure. If your idea of a hand job looks anything like using a shake weight I would say you have lots of work. One day you will find someone who knows and will teach you. He will likely appreciate that you suck at it because it would mean you weren’t out there jerking of the entire planet.
A regular handjob isn't gonna do it for 99% of guys. You gotta eat his ass or something while giving him a handy
Lube helps too.
@stratford yes lube too
Most guys know the feeling of their own hand too well so any other person's hand isn't going to stack up.
I love it when a guy's penis is so big it makes my arm hurt to jack him off.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Well, not at first, unless she'd lied about her proficiency. After enough time, however, I might get impatient and suggest we try something else.
Sexual skills are like any other kind; they take practice to do well. Odds are that even most porn stars lack my experience with penile manipulation (and certainly that of mine); not everything works, and even things that DO work don't always work the first time.
You arm hurt?
If I had been that guy I would have asked you if your mouth hurt too , anyone in their right mind would be incredibly pissed off.
Hell, MY arm gets tired if I'm going at it for a while/taking forever to cum. In those cases I would take over for a bit while she rests her arm and eventually takes back over.
Hand jobs suck as a way to get off because most women don't do them very well.
Every guy is different but to me you are doing a nice thing so if I would get impatient just grab me by the balls and squeeze hard and tell me you're arm is tired
I touched his balls and he giggled
Don't just touch grab and squeeze
I cupped it a little because I was curious, never touched balls before but they seemed delicate
it is hard to beleive because male arms do not get tired. is she telling the truth or just bored. but i would interpret she lied as an excuse and that she does not want so i say stop but be annoyed that she lied.
Use your mouth in combination, it's faster
Why not Switch to other hand?
Nonetheless, I'd never get pissed at any woman during sex
I wouldn't be pissed but I'd hope that she'd use her pussy for a while while her arms were getting a rest.
I would understand. Going forward try to find a way to rest your arm so you are only moving your hand and wrist.
it's so sad that this is even a question. if anyone ever did anything to make me feel good, I would be grateful. however, some men are way more interested in control and power and getting what they want, which probably doesn't include you being happy, unless you like not being happy...
You just need practice. Part of it is the fact that a guy knows how to pleasure himself with his hand so another hand just isn't the same. So you need to bring other things into it, like letting him know it's really turning you on, using lube, tickling his butt hole, pushing your boobs in his face, etc.
Have you let him finger you yet?
He asked me if I wanted him to touch me and I said no
How do you feel about the rest of my suggestions?
He was sucking my boobs and nipples for a bit and he kept saying how amazing they were, I didn’t say much I didn’t wanna come off as cringey
My wife has the same problem but I don’t get mad. She asks me to take over which I do.
First ones are always tricky. Practice makes perfect.
Seems like he just needs to chill and be patient.
If he knew it was your first he's gotta cut you a break. What did you use for lubricant?
I didn’t use anything lmaooo
Ouch. Well I guess there's the consolation of big and needing two hands! On his behalf I ask you to spit on your hands or his cock next time!! 🍆👍🏻
Depends on the circumstances. Did she say she had experience?
I would understand and offer to continue it and get close to an orgasm then let her finish me off. I love a great handjob like all guys. Have u tried using some lube when giving them... it feels so much better. Has this happened to u and if so what did the guy do?
No, I too get tired when fingering a woman.
If I cared about you, I would be understanding and want to help you experience and help me so that I could also experience you.
to be honest it's kinda frustrating
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