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24 year old guy who's still a virgin, should I just get a prostitute?
Anonymous
I already looked around here on GAG and see that girls don't go for nice guys and they don't care about their virginity or a guys for that matter but are quite happy to deflower guys then toss them aside. So I want to get over this inability to find someone but it seems that today the only way you get a girlfriend is by having sex with them first and seeing if it goes anywhere. I always thought I'd find someone special but as I got older I realized that girls don't wait when it comes to sex and that they want an experienced guy. So I'm stuck. I see here on GAG girls here go on and on about confidence and that you should fake it and pretend to be confident to get a girl to pay interest in you. So I've come to the conclusion that I need confidence and to be detached when using women. I've felt quite lost after I found out that a guys virginity is laughed at these days and that it isn't valued by anyone. So I've been thinking since most girls aren't virgins anywhere near my age and a guys virginity is just something to laugh at and means absolutely nothing to them maybe I should just get a prostitute. It's legal where I am they have to be clean and tested weekly. I'd get sexual experience and confidence out of it, and I'd feel human again instead of some freak. So should I just get a prostitute?
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Answers from girls all seem to say "wait indefinitely like a doormat" in one way or another. No thanks ladies I've had enough of waiting, if I'm not good enough for you now as I am then I'll never be. Thanks to archer86 and another guy that said I should look into escorts who offer GFE. I found 2, both charge $160 and hour which I'll say right now is a lot cheaper then what I've been paying on dating sites over the years, where girls never reply. I'll look around some more.
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I suppose I should update this for other guys who are virgins and like myself are tired of all the BS and have come looking for an answer just like I did. I did go through with it and I am very glad I did. The whole event was nice and afterward I felt relieved and human again. I am so happy to be human again and not some doll for women to say I must be like this and that to be good enough person to have sex. It was far from emotionless sex to me, there was talking and intimacy involved.
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I also felt the bitterness that had been building up in for years ease and I felt more content with my life. Anonymous User, MercZilla, jennibheag and the troll girl whose answers were deleted showed me that girls are two faced liars and complete hypocrites and that I don't want a relationship with someone like them ever. They made me lose a great deal of respect in women and relationships.
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I hired an escort with GFE for 2 hours, she had an apartment for clients, she didn't quite match her pictures but I was fine with that. Everything was clean and well made. She lit the bedroom with romantic red candles which really added to the atmosphere. I was upfront with her and told her I was a virgin and that it was my first time, she was utterly shocked and proceeded to tell me how most people would have at least had a few sexual partners by my age, things were very awkward after that.
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Sorry for the delay but gag limits updates to 3 per week on a question. She was very nice but awkward about it and she really did make me feel at ease being with her. I will always remember this girl as the one girl who made me feel special, when to all other girls I wasn't good enough even for a first date.
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She was the first girl I ever saw naked, The first girl who touched me, The first girl I ever touched, My first kiss, The first girl that I ever had sex with. And the first person I ever shared intimacy with.
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To other guys who are in the situation I was in all I can say is stop listening to women and do what you feel you need. Women are not going to wait for you or treasure that you saved your virginity for them and you will realize this just as I have. So stop wasting your life waiting for someone special because you're not going to find her. I will treasure this event for the rest of my life and if I don't get dates or if I feel like I want sex or intimacy, now I know how and where to find it.
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12 16sure go for it
I thought about the exact same thoughts before.
And you know what? None other than Benjamin Franklin used to frequent brothels to get laid (lol I think I got this out of his autobiography). Or have I got this mixed up with love in the time of cholera.
Anyhow, NAWWWW... straight up I work in healthcare and had a rotation through psychiatry and A+OD. Our client list consisted of some prostitutes who come in for their 3 monthly done reviews. And I kid you not man, HepC, HepC, HepC. Ex-IV drug users you see. That stuff is sexually transmittable. Not to mention an HIV scare I had from one girl who used to work in the red light district; on the done now, and comes in: 40kg weight loss in 3 months, L pleural effusion, ?tuberculosis ?HIV.
Now, do you want to be banging those hookers?
No one wants to bang those hookers. But I think you'd find that in areas where it's legal, like Canada for example, or the Netherlands, laws, mandatory health checks and universal health care tends to ensure that the girls are in better condition. He's already said he lives somewhere it's legal. I don't think he's planning on visiting any Atlantic City crack whores.
are you a doctor?
I don't think you should get a prostitute, If you do and then end up finding the girl of your dreams you may regret your decision. Personally in my opinion a guy who is 24 and still a virgin isn't something to make fun of or laugh at. I would respect and probably like him even more because it shows how he values that aspect of himself and not just fool around with anybody. And I'm 18 and still a virgin. And there are some girls out there that wait for the right guy to come along and not just someone who is experienced. Good Luck in making your decision.
Some being very very very few at my age. I'm tired of feeling inhuman and women lying about it to my face but rejecting me because of it.
Well there may be very very very few your age bit that would make you even more special in my opinion.But ultimately its up to you so I respect whatever decision you make in the end. All I suggest is that you really think this through carefully.
And I just saying but you're not the only one out there who has never had a kiss, or been asked out, or have been on a date or have someone care about them or been rejected. I have not experienced any of these things and I don't know if I ever will so I know exactly what you're going through.