Sexual Relationships 
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Are blowjobs necessary in a relaionship?
MiaChan Xper 5
OK before all the guys start giving me raised eyebrows, please just answer the question straight up, are blowjobs really important? I mean I know guys just simply love it but what if you are in love and your girlfriend doesn't like that, would you be willing to sacrifice that? after all you can have tons of p***y instead and other positions etc, and can you just substitute it with a blowjob sex toy? I know it can't beat the real deal but still, so guys give in your 2 cents on this.
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i don't expect to be eaten either because I know its not fair so stop giving smart alec-y answers of "how would you feel if you don't get head" I can live without em loll
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What Girls & Guys Said
13 40you don't need to give a guy a blowjob. but its really pleasuring for the guy and would be nice. don't be forced to do it
i think you dnt have to have it
my guy said his ex of 3 years did it once and didn't like it so she never did it again.
I've been with him 1.5 years and I did it 3 times only. I think it's kind of gross... but some times I just want him to get turned on a bit so I do it... but it is kind of gross for me. I dont' ask hiim to go down on me, he has very thin lips and it's does not turn me on so he does it on his own terms.
ok um look, it should be necessary, this is a way of showing him that you are into him and you love every part of him...as he should be doing with you down there...its just a connection thing and I personally love watching girls do it...what a turn on...as far as this guy ephram thinking that it'd be boring not doing anything, well you're WRONG and I've never in my life heard a guy say something like that...thats just silly lmao
you shouldnt be pressured into doing it you should do it because you want to show him that you love every part of him is all I'm saying...but if you don't want to then sh*t don't do it, his loss
I don't know if they're totally necessary, but they sure do help. It might seem silly to you, but blowjobs really do make guys feel special and loved. I don't see how eliminating them could do anything but hurt your chances of having a good relationship. Like I'm sure it's possible without them, but it's going to be more difficult.
Yea it can be difficult for someone who is with a guy who can't live without them, and there are other ways to make a guy feel special and loved as well, apart from a bj
yes
I have asked this before only a little different. But mostly what I got was it is enough if you put your mouth on your man. The licking, kissing, and sucking do count. You don't have to make them come from it . I personally don't mind putting my mouth on my man I just don't want him to come in my mouth or on me. So maybe that could be a compromise if you had a guy that really did like them.
Yea I know but I just find the whole idea of taking my mouth near a d*** real disgusting, regardless if the guy comes or not
Depends on the guy, maybe it is maybe it isnt, to him. Who cares what I or anyone else thinks if its a deal breaker for you or him then their is no relationship.