Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I've seen too many posts on here about guys being insecure about their excessively hairy bodies. I'm talking chest, back, arms, and legs. Either it's between a handful of guys or this is a more serious problem than women realize.
So men, are you insecure that women won't find you attractive or sleep with you because of your body hair? Are you insecure about your body hair?
Don't send me any weird pics, please. I want to know this for the psychological aspect it plays in a man's confidence with women.
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Guys, Are You Insecure About Your Body Hair?
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What Guys Said
(23)not insecure at all about my body hair. I just dont like excess amounts of hair for hygienic purposes
When you sweat and have a lot of pubic hair it can stink really bad and sometimes body hair can grow uncomfortably long.
The only parts i trim are my legs and pubic hairs. I keep my arm and chest hair.
Maybe you don't have to worry and be insecure about body hair because you don't have it in excess amount?
@notsoromantic I grow it pretty much all over. My hair just gets really long if i let it grow, nothing too excessive. It's very uncomfortable though.
@notsoromantic but it really depends on the guy it's being presented on. I think my body hair suits me and gives me a more masculine appearance
And what about female opinion?
@notsoromantic what do you mean?
I'm not insecure about it , not in the least bit.
hairs are all over my body except my penis and balls. I go to wax salon where girls wax it out.
Your penis and balls are naturally without hair?
@coolguyshere no they are hairy if girls dont wax them
Girls wax your penis and balls Ahan lucky man
@coolguyshere you can easily do that too. A lot of wax salons that do men's brazilian.
i have hair in all the right places.. plus i manscape
i just wish my bear wasn't so thick.
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I used to be so insecure of my body hair I would shave all my hair off except my head cause I liked how it felt, nice and smooth. I would never go out in public before shaving, that was when I was a skinny 135lbs. but since getting so fat and so lazy and passing 230lb. I'm now 353 lbs +, I don't care what anybody else thinks about me and I look how I look.
I guess at 353 lbs... Body hair would be kind of a non-issue
I am very insecure because I am excessively hairy.
You are a young woman, what do you have to say about us and our insecurity and mental suffering?
Isn't it bad to be a excess hairy man?
I'm not going to voice my opinion on this thread. I created this question because I've seen a lot of other questions on it and I've had three different guys personally ask me questions about it because they're insecure. I wanted to know if their insecurity was felt throughout the dating world because of this. I also have a friend who is excessively hairy and wears baggy long sleeves to cover it because he's insecure about it himself
Oh so does he have girlfriend in his life?
Not that I know of. I know he had a thing for me for a while, but he's just not smart enough for me to feel compatible with him, so I never thought of him in that way. He tells me he's gotten over me, but I don't think he has. He doesn't have a whole lot going for him in the dating world in general, look or personality wise
He needs lot of porn and masturbates a lot , I guess because he is sexless and woman less the way I am
I am extremely hairy everywhere neck to toe and obviously I am insecure as hell.
I have tried shaving waxing trimming
It does help me reduce visible hairs but it leaves me stubbly and prickly and I still am not baby smooth skinned and the fact that I am able to grow hell loke hair even in places meant to be bare naturally makes me feel hell more insecure and inferior and worthless of women and relationship.
I feel lesser than women due to it.
Excessive body hair, among many other natural things about your body, shouldn't make you feel inferior to women. This is the kind of stuff I created the question for. If it affects you so much, you can get laser treatments. They've gotten much cheaper and having one or two will permanently thin out the hair rather than get rid of it entirely
Laser doesn't guarantee that hair will be reduced in a uniform manner. It might end up patchy reduced and it won't be as good as it's naturally for women and other men. I hate having all of those. It's CURSE. If I get naked next to a woman I will look like a beast next to her baby smooth skin
Nah. I don't really do anything with it other than occasionally trim the pubes.
Yes I'm so hairy so intense and busy hairs
That's sad So , ever hampered relationship with women?
@notsoromantic I've never asked a girl out and I've been single for 8 years
How hairy are you to begin with?
@notsoromantic queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com/.../...80x600.jpg something like that but not me in the picture only my back isn't hairy
Even this hairy on the shoulders and neck?
@notsoromantic my shoulders neck arms legs are so hairy only my back is not hairy
That's unfortunate. Why don't you shave it, it seems it has caused you to be seen as repulsive by women. You have Female friends?
@notsoromantic no I don't have female friends I shave my neck but if I shave other places they will grow even more bushy
It seems it has caused a lot of insecurity to you. Are you short or skinny by chance because you seem insecure as hell. Do you shave pits and groin as part of hygeiene?
@notsoromantic I'm 5 foot 11 and 165 lbs I don't wear revealing clothes I cover the hairy places I shave the neck and while bathing I shave armpits of course
Damn... Don't be insecure like hell. Try wearing shorts and short sleeves in public and see how women react to it. Do you have sister? Ask her views evee
@notsoromantic thank you my friend for your advices but I don't have a sister we're three brothers thank you so much for that interest and advices
Are your brother and dad all very hairy?
@notsoromantic my dad is hairy and my big brother is hairy but my second brother isn't hairy