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Are you keeping your virginity, why or why not?
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if virginity a big deal to you or just something that you can just get rid of
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23 11I've kept my virginity and I'm 18. I almost lost it to a guy I thought I was in love with though.. :/
I'm nearly 18 and a virgin. It's not exactly out of choice, I do want to lose it but not for the sake of it. I want it to be with someone special, not just any old guy.
Ive kept mine because I don't want to just throw it away to some random guy I want it to mean something too me I don't think its a huge deal but I think it nice to loose it to someone I love.
yes you have to love them them, then f*** them BEFORE the marriage cause everyone needs alittle test run before you make the purchase.
i was keeping mine till I meet that special someone and I lost it a month a go to that special someome.
i'm waiting until the right guy
i am 16 and still a virgin..i've kept it even though some guys already offered...one of the reasons is because I want to find a good person to lose it to...well at least be in a good loving relationship then maybe I'll consider it but mostly what I'm looking for to not be pressured in that good loving relationship
I am keeping mine because I value it, when I have sex I want it to mean something to both me and my partner. This can't be achieved with multiple partners, if sex is something you have had with many people. It is going to lose the value that I want to have, nowadays this is next to impossible to find. Few people seem to care or want to save themselves for marriage and see a guy who is a virgin as a bad thing which is devestating to me considering I don't want sex with more than one person in my life and that will be my wife.
However, I noticed even girls who are virgins woud actually prefer the guy to have experience, a guy who is saving himself isn't a good thing anymore :( which does kind off make me want to reconsider it.
well if you do reconsider or not its up to you. but yeah sex is amazing! and once you have it you will enjoy it and see why people want so much of it. just most go about it the wrong way and do multiple partners
Believe me, I want sex BAD and I would go crazy horny on my wife so it isn't because I wouldn't find sex amazing. But I don't want to go sleeping around and I would not feel like it was special to have sex with a girl who been with multiple people and I wouldn't feel special giving her mine
way I see it is when your in a relationship with someone its not concidered sleeping around. cause you get to know them, everythign about them then you do it
That's not true! There are some of us who really value a guy who hasn't had sex. I'm waiting until marriage and have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now. I knew he had different girlfriends in the past, but I was too afraid to ask him if he had sex before because I didn't want to feel differently about him. I finally decided to ask him and he hadn't. You can't imagine how happy I was! It is something that's special and sharing it with your wife will be amazing. Hold on, it's worth it :)
bubble, I'm not so sure about that. I have heard it many times that they prefer someone to "know what they are doing" so at least one off them knows what to do and they view guys who have had experience as ones who would know how to least hurt her... I personally know enough, I don't see the logic in that I mean its not advanced to learn. I am glad you are willing to wait but I don't think the majority do :(. you are rarer
its your natural instinct as a male to know how to f*** a female. but yes its true men who have has sex more are better in bed cause they have had practive with more than just their hand. so mean when you get that girl you have to meet up to them or your goign to dissapoint the girl. cause naturally girls as stupid as we are tend to think men who everythgin we want and just will do it. so yeah she will want you to know everythign about what your doign
I would prefer a guy who hasn't had sex. There is less of a chance of diseases or other problems. I also find the idea of giving a guy oral when you aren't really sure about where his penis has been absolutely disgusting. I also would rather have sex with a guy who had never had sex because it would make it feel more special. Because it would be something he had done only with me.
thanks coffee, I am actually planning to keep mine for marriage because I only want sex with one person in my life and that will be my wife, hopefully my wife is the same. I am glad there are girls like you who also value it :)
I value you. If you value yourself other people will begin to see the value in you. :)
Yes it's a big deal! I see it as a gift to my future husband. I just simply cannot see myself being naked around or sharing my body with a perfect stranger. It's disgusting how some people can be so dirty. I have to make sure the person is clean in and out. I have a beautiful body and you best believe my future husband will be one lucky bastard because I'll be his and only his. It's one of the few things we truly own upon birth, so it's very valuable.
yeah some how you saying sex is beautiful and calling your future hisband a bastard don't add up. like if you think that less of him why you with him why have sex with him bastard. an yes its a gifte to give and I gave it and I'm not ashamed I gave it and its not dirty to give it because now that man is my fiance. and I'm best he has and ever will have.
Lol, I apologize, but I'm going to assume that English is not your native language? "Lucky bastard" is a figure of speech, to be taken humorously not literally. You need to read in context next time, now your ruined the effect of my post.
Thats awesome! do you also want your husband to be a virgin or not and why
Ideally I would want him to be a virgin. It would bother me a little bit if he wasn't but I'm pretty understanding so I wouldn't hold it against him..just as long as he didn't sleep around with more than 5 women, and that number is pushing it. What matters to me the most is that he's clean and committed and he will value my body just as I do myself. Trust me I have turned down so many guys, but I'm dead on about saving it for my one guy :).
Yes :)) So valuable to me that I have to lose it to someone valuable & worth it ;)
thats great