What should I do?
Dump him. Also ignore the guys who will tell you that you deserved it.
but what if he doesn't?
then you get raped
what if I pushed it too far?
yeah because asking for one moreday of no sex is pushing it.
if he felt you were pushing it he could have exited the room instead he wrestled you down, held you by the wrists, forced kisses on you, held you down, and then after stopping when you started crying he still doesn't let you go.
Was this wrong of me?
yeah you should have better taste in men. It's wrong to expect a guy who hasn't had sex in 2 weeks to go one more day without trying to rape his gf.
Also wrong to offer to caress each other after he wrestled you down and tried to force kiss you despite your resistance. Dumb move to trust him to control himself after that display. Also you're expecting too much from a guy to think he'll remove himself from a situation that test his self control.
Should I still trust him?
if you want to. just don't cry victim if it turns out you can't.1 0 1 2@And what can I do to help him get though this? Counseling for him since you made him go through this.
Well, even though him attempting to do that was terrible and he should have had more control over his horniness, he did stop when you told him to and he seems really regretful for putting you in that situation. This is a tough one... I think you should talk to him more about it, express how you're feeling. Tell him that you don't want to feel scared about it, but you can't help it. Encourage him to talk about how he's feeling, knowing his side of it might make it easier for you to decide what to do.
Don't listen to the people who are severely judging you... Some people suck at putting themselves in another's shoes.1 0 0 0Thanks, but what can I do to help him get through this? This morning he made me promise me we wouldn't do it anymore till marriage.. in a way I'm glad but another, I'm feel so guilty for making him go through that situation
Just tell him that there's no need to call off sex altogether, he just needs to be a bit more respectful about listening to you when you say you don't want to do it. There's nothing wrong with him having sex with you when you DO want it.
He's closed off a lot and is a very sensitive guy but I'll see what we can do. Thank you
I've known guys like this ... they want to remind you that they CAN easily rape you. It's a power trip. Dump him, he was trying to show you that if you dont' do whatever he wants, he can just force you.
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I think that you are both to blame , I would probably dump you right away I would not even think of raping you , you want to experiment , get a f***ing lab mouse ..
1 0 0 0I'm not saying that he was anything close to right to make a move on you while you did not want it , I say that you obviously find it nice to play with him and he is not doing the right thing ..
If I go and swim in the sea with some white sharks , then they eat me people will just say .. What Did You Expect ? Stupid actions , most of the time end in bad news ..
We usually take turns on what we wanna do with each other, this isn't the worst we've done but I think it really got to him. Even tho we do dumb things we love each other very much, We've gone through disasters and BS all the time we used to it.
What kind of experiment is this? Is that for your own pleasure or something? I don't get it.
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1 3Do you think you deserve it?
0 0 0 0wtf?
1 0 0 0Getting in bed naked with a guy is kinda asking for sex, what's wrong with you?
0 1 3 0well first off I think you should have sex with your boyfriend of 1.5 years. I also think you should find a more masculine guy with a reasonable amount of control over his emotions
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