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Bareback Sex, your thoughts?

I love bareback sex. I can definitely feel the difference and I love knowing that the man can feel everything, I also love feeing a man come inside me. I never do this with the casual guys I have sex with but like to have a f*** buddy so that we can enjoy sex without condoms. Does anyone here have CASUAL bareback sex. Are you afraid of the risks? and do you have a reason why you do this (other than the obvious). Is there anyone who has NEVER had bareback sex? You can answer anon so you don't get flamed for your answer!
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  • I have never had anything BUT bareback sex, and hate the feeling of a condom...a prior girlfriend said that she loved the feeling of skin-on-skin penetration and hated the feeling of latex between my penis and her vagina. Some women have said they CAN feel the penis 'squirt" and that adds to their enjoyment of the session.

    I have never brought someone home from a club and had sex with them...I had to know them a little bit before. My 'casual' sex was with someone I met once who may have called me to come over for sex (one occasion of oral sex) or on a first date...with someone .that I did not know, and had been introduced to by a third party...again...bareback sex was alright with me. That being said...not particularly smart on my part.

    The risks are still there from STD's with me being particularly afraid of the risk of contracting Herpes...and much to my regret, I did develop a "fungal' infection...that my doctor said looked like my partner had been having sex with an 'uncircumcised' man...

    All that being said...I don't know if being discrete is any protection from STD's and women have ASKED me if I had any kind of transmittable sexual disease and I, of course told them "NO" ...I would never lie about that...but people lie to a prospective partner to get laid, and we all know that.

    A long answer to your question...I hope there is an answer in there for you somewhere.

    Regards,

    Bruce

  • Ive never done bareback but one of my biggest fantasies is to come in a girl balls deep with no protection from pregnancy.

    • Mmm, its totally hot! you have a lot to look forward to. But stay safe (where possible)

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  • I had bareback sex with my longterm boyfriend, after we had been together for a couple of years. And I do admit it is much better. You feel everything. You can feel him pulse just before he comes. I love the feeling when he comes inside you. So yes amazing.

    But we were both STD tested. Had been together for a few years. Fully committed to each other. And I am on the implant. And we knew that if I got pregnant anyway, we could both afford to raise the child. So yes, security was in place.

    I wouldn't have bareback sex casually. Ever.

    • Even if you had the same security?

  • i will ONLY have unprotected sex with someone I'm dating whom I trust and who has been tested otherwise I will NEVER have casual or even f*** buddy sex. the risks are not worth it

    • yawn

  • Ive never had it because at the time I was not on birth control. Now I totally want to do it.

    • What are you waiting for let's go seriously find a friends with benefits

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  • I don't think I'd ever have casual bareback sex. The reason is I don't want an STD. I went bareback a couple of times with my ex because I knew she had no STDs.

    I realize that most people don't have STDs, even if someone does, I wouldn't be guaranteed to catch it by having unprotected sex, and many are treatable, but I still wouldn't take the risk because the consequences to my life, my sex life, and the lives of any future sexual partners could all be affected if I got an STD.

    Oddly I don't use protection at all when giving or receiving oral sex. You can still get some STDs that way, but I never have used protection for oral. I think there are 2 reasons: the risk is lower, and it's not normal to use protection for oral. I'd feel very weird suggesting it to someone whereas I feel perfectly fine telling someone that I'm going to wear a condom. The risk is still there though, so it's a bit contradictory really.

  • I never had bareback sex. But I would LOVE to. there are just too many variables. Don't need to ruin my life just because a girl isn't a birth control or forgets to take a pill. I've heard WAY to many stories of people getting knocked up from one night stands.

    but man... in a perfect world, right?

    too bad they can't make birth control for guys... aside from a vasectomy.

    • They are actually working on it. Not too much longer.

      link

    • ooohhhh... but that was a little over a year ago... where is it now? Christ if we got out hand on that stuff, there no stopping anyone! but seems like it might make man boobs bigger... can't trust hormones...

  • I'd love to have bareback sex but no I wouldn't do it, I'm too afraid of catching STDs. I would only go bareback if I was in a comfortable long term relationship and knew the girl really well. As for someone I barely know then no, never.

  • Bareback for me for well over a decade... no need to pull out either

    • Bareback is best @LaurenGrace

  • I have done it with women as soon as on the second date. Feels great but of course there are all kinds of risks. I was with a woman in the Dominican Republic on vacation. We were both drinking and when I asked her if she wanted me to finish inside her she just kept on riding. I did not know at the time but even if a guy tried to evade responsibility for getting a woman pregnant in another country, the US has legal agreements with countries including the Dominican Republic that allow the woman to locate and secure support. There are lawyers happy to help them with this for a cut of the 18 year payout. That got my attention. Part of it is not getting into a situation where your common sense gets lost.

    • So if you got somebody pregnant in Mexico they could come after you in the US seriously

  • Condoms make me feel like a sex doll. Hate the feelimg but would hate the feeling of an std more.

  • My first time was bareback

    • After the initial twinge, it was amazing to feel him inside, then to have him cum inside with no protection.

    • Now that's a privilege first time bareback were you on the pill

  • Yes I have had casual bareback sex and I've always worried about it afterward. Despite my urges, it's something I now try not to do. I have a female f buddy and we always use a condom. But I do always give oral because I love giving and she loves receiving. I do like to take the condom off before I come -- she likes to watch me come and I like being watched and the feeling of spurting freely over her stomach and breasts.

  • My third date with my second child's mama I came inside her and for some reason I was able to keep going the look on her face her eyes was priceless a couple months later we lost health insurance and birth control we kept going anyway not even Thanksgiving and her nipples are already sore

  • I only have bare sex. I can't abide condoms and won't use them.

  • Sounds great. I'm a virgin but are you on the pill when you go condomless and do you get tested for disease?

    • I only go condomless with my regular f*** buddy. I have a contraceptive coil fitted

    • Yea I would then if a girl used contraceptives and was clean. But normally it wouldn't be worth the risk to me.

  • I've f****d bareback many times with casual partners/f**k buddies as well as in long term monogamous relationships and never caught an STI/STD. None of these women were on any form of birth control either. With each woman I used the pullout method and never had any pregnancy scares however on the odd occasion I'd spurt my babybatter deep inside them ;-)

    Once you go bareback you'll never look back hehe ;-)

  • I would love to try it but every girlfriend i've ever had always says no, implying that its just to risky although i've always made the statement that i'll cover the costs of any morning after pills or anything else needed to make it possible.

    But No hence the single status i still have, lol well i'm 40 now so no chances left to find love for me.

    • don't take no for an answer walk out get them so turned on and wet and wild what you got they cannot say no to you

  • I have bareback sex.. I hate comdoms and love feeling a man filling me with his seed.

    • Can you fuck me

  • I've never been able to use condoms, they are too tight and they kill my boner, so I've always gone bareback. Never had any problems.

    • Try Magnum condoms the Gold Label

  • The best fucking kind of sex!!! Casual bareback sex is risky though. I am currently on a mission to wipe out all stds lol

  • I've had casual bareback sex. Condoms kind of ruin sex for me so I've rarely used them. I've never gotten a woman pregnant either.

  • bareback is the best

  • Condoms feel like you are washing your feet with your socks on,

  • I've had casual bareback sex quite a few times. I'm afraid of the risks but I'm also weak. There's no reason I like it other than the obvious lol.

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