Can a man be raped by a woman? Does this really existe? How can he if he have to get an erection, which means he is already excited?

[Anonymous]

Explain...

[PrinceyPru]

Getting an erection while being trapped is like getting hard nipples when it's cold. It's your body's natural reaction to being touched and fondled. You may not be enjoying it, but your body will respond. Men can be raped by women. Anyone can be raped regardless of gender or sex. It's like if your grandfather raped you but he made you orgasm. That was just your body responding to stimulation. You're still disgusted and traumatized, but you might be even MORE traumatized because your genitals reacted how they did. You know you didn't want or like it. And that's that.
Plus rape isn't about feeling good or not. It's about consent. If you tell someone no, that means no.
It's like if you buy a box of cookies. You keep them in your bedroom. Your sister asks for them and you say no. Eventually, she steals them. Everyone blames you for buying them in the first place when they were yours and she had no permission to take them.

[Sorathevilone]

You don't have a penis and if you did you would know that a penis response to stimulation weather that be from your jeans or by a hand of a girl while your knocked out excitement isn't the only way. Guys fiddle with there dick in public because of that very reason and for that reason a man can be raped there was a documentary about rape victims in the UK and a girl did in fact rape a man by knocking him out with drugs and when he came two she was bouncing on him and for male rape victims it is even harder for them than a girl because the cannot even go to the police without being mocked I mean at least a girl can get justices as guy cannot and that is sick. Anyone who claims this isn't the case are just people who obviously don't know how a cock works

[Leafpool2]

Yes men do get raped, erections =/= enjoyment they can absolutely happen in a high stress situation. Also sometimes drugs are forced into their system that might cause one. Male victims of rape have to be taken more seriously by the public because rape is bad no matter who it happens to and justice should be served.

[GreedyGiver651]

Yes. First, you can't control an erection, so if she is stimulating a guy he would probably be erect. It doesn't matter if he is already excited, no means no, consent is still necessary. Same for if a girl is wet. Also rape does not have to be the extreamly forceful idea, it can be manipulative, for example the girl who wanted me to get her pregnant. She got on top of me so that if I pushed her off she would either fall off the bed or on a laptop. I told her no multiple times and was finally able to figure out how to get away. She got irritated with me and shamed me. The fear of hurting her or upsetting her was enough for me to endure her doing what she wanted without my consent. I wasn't wearing a condom and she tried to take advantage of that

[Sethorien]

When a dogs tail is wagging it doesn't mean they're happy, it means they're excited.

When a man is erect, it isn't necessarily because he is happy and consenting, it is just because he is in a sexual situation. It's an automatic response.

My friend was drugged and raped by his ex girlfriend and has never recovered completely. He's an alcoholic now. Nothing makes him hate himself more than when people laugh or say it's impossible for men to be raped. He's 6 foot 2 and weighs 200 pounds and he was raped.

10 to 30% of men are sexually victimized by women. It's important to respect these victims.

[strangytie]

The definition of rape should be changed to unconsented, forced and or pressured sexual intercourse/penetration, wether it’s anal or vaginal and wether the perp is female or male. And the idea that one cannot be raped if they were aroused is horrifying. Sexual arousal is a response from the body, not the brain. It is not a conscious effort and will happen when stimulated or may not. Arousal is not consent. It will never be consent.

[AditiSaasha]

Check indian articles. I have seen men have their dicks chopped off by women or their won wives. I beleive that amounts to rape.

[Legendiehard]

That's sick 🤢

[Mimi1721]

Yes a man can be raped, not only by a woman but by other men. I don't feel like going into detail but it is definitely possible.

[paulbanyan]

An erection is a sign of stimulation, not feeling. You can get an erection by your duck getting caught in your pant leg. You can get an erection from someone you have no desire for touching you. Just like getting wet, it doesn't necessarily mean you're genuinely excited. It just means you're being stimulated. By that, a woman could stimulate a man and rape him with a fully erect cock

[abc3643]

Yes male rape is more common than realized and yes an erection can happen without being horny. Google morning wood.

[abc3643]

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_of_males

[bluebellxpp]

Of course a man can be raped by a woman. Some guys can’t control when they get an erection. No means no, no matter what the gender.

[GingerGuy]

It would be the same as if it was a woman. Like, you may not enjoy it or want it, but it's happening anyway (being forced) and you can't control your bodies reactions to it. Doesn't mean you like it though.

Example, I won't go into specific detail, and it wasn't rape, but I've had a woman give me a hj once and I didn't really want it from her. I wasn't attracted to her or anything at all, but I let it happen anyway. And all the normal things still occurred lol. I was still being touched and my body reacted to it.

[nickyBBB]

Yeah. You can drug the man, you can go to men who are very physically weak as a really big woman and force them

[aggle]

I get an erection if the wind blows the wrong way. We don't really control that muscle and it's more than possible for a man to be raped.

[mystery134]

Are you serious?

[Stillhot]

I've had a couple of girls lay in bed with me that I've had no intention of having sex with, if someone starts rubbing your dick believe me it'll go hard. On both occasions they just jumped on top of me even though I said no but then something just kicks in and you just let them. Whether I'd call it 'rape' or not is something people myself including have a problem with, yes I could of physically over powered her, also there's a stigma that you must be gay or be a weirdo if you don't want a woman to fuck you.
Can't say it particularly bothered me but on both occasions I was already with someone and didn't fancy them but like I said it's pretty easy to give a guy a boner.

[JDavid25]

Well, like the others have said you can't help the body's response.. We can have erections just by rubbin against ish we didn't mean to..

[GuysConfuseMeMan]

Men get raped by other men as well

[Intraluminal]

Well, It can be more of a visceral response. Women can also get excited during rape... and some. have reported orgasming during the rape although that does NOT TRANSLATE into enjoyment or desire.

[KingKoopa77]

Just cuz u get hard doesn't mean u want it to be used

[memyers13]

You can be aroused but not want to actually have sex. Also she could use a dildo or something to penetrate him.

[JLoper23]

Yep, it's possible. I just doubt any man is gonna claim he was raped. My cousin was actually raped once. A couple that went to the same gym as he did offered for him to come down to the river with them (fishing). They then got him black out drunk, and she took him in a tent and had her way with him. He remembers fighting it, but being too drunk to put up much of a fight. The boyfriend was sitting outside listening the whole time too. by the way, my cousin was 21, and they were both 30+.

[AswinJose]

Yes, sexual abuse. Mostly kids not man

[Andreas300787]

it doesn't take a lot to make a man getting an erection. That doesn't mean he would agree to having sex

[Skadouchebag]

well first, sexual arousal isn't actually the only thing that can force blood into a man's penis. second, she could easily have drugged him beforehand. like knocking him out or slipping him some Viagra. most likely both.