A current p*rnstar or retired? I don't knock people over sexual stuff. It's just sex, and people really unnecessarily put it on this crazy pedestal it shouldn't be on. This will sound funny, but people have WAYYYY too much respect for themselves. Like an inordinate amount, as if we're not all a dime a dozen in this world. Life is short, and then they probably just cut the lights out on you when it's done, so I recommend leaving it all out on the field, as they say in sports.
But for pornstars, I mean, it's a job like anything else. I go to work every day and get fucked too, haha. So if a gal had worked in that industry before I wouldn't rule her out based solely on that. That's not to say I wouldn't have concerns though. Obviously I'd want to know she was STD-free, but that's something I'd demand of anyone I dated. And I think the whole "psychologically damaged pornstar" thing is overplayed. I'm sure there are some who are in the business for the wrong reasons, but I don't think that everyone that is sexually liberated or an exhibitionist has to be a victim of some sort of abuse. That business is LUCRATIVE if you're a girl, and if I was a hot chick, I'd probably consider it. Have sex for like an hour and make $1500? Uhhh, where do I sign? Uptight idiots might have a problem with me, but I don't need their love in the first place. Work is work. Some people go home with a sore back, others go home with a sore 'gina... what the hell is the difference?
However, I think I'd have a problem with dating an active pornstar. I respect what they do just fine, but I'm not sure I can handle knowing that my gf is off getting railed even if no emotions are involved. I'd like to say I could handle it, but if push came to shove, probably not. But if it's in her past, whatever. I think the most common misconceptions about sex is that it somehow taints you, as if every additional partner you have decreases your value as a human being, and that's flat out absurd. If you...
... come out of it with no permanent STDs, then you are in no way tainted. You could tell me you slept with one guy and I'd be none the wiser. Now if the girl does have some kind of emotional baggage that led to her career choice, that's one thing. But even then, it's the baggage I don't want to deal with, the amount of previous sexual partners is pretty inconsequential to me. As long as you can commit now, that's all that matters.
LOL@ sore 'gina... oh WhiteSteve... thou art so eloquent :p You know, I'm one of those people who kind of feel that every additional person you bang taints you. I just think it's so gross to sit there and think... "Wow... I've had 10 penises inside of me so far." Eeek. I also think that as human beings who are supposed to be more intelligent than the rest, we should be able to control some of our more basic urges... I'm not saying everyone needs to stay a virgin for life or til marriage... but it doesn't hurt to be more discerning about partners, about waiting it out a bit. Less chance of regret, imo. I think being more thoughtful about who you have sex with, at the end of the day, is better in all respects.
What I lack in basic urge control, I TOTALLY make up for in eloquence :-P
Well, I guess we agree to disagree there, although it's entirely possible that I'm just a savage animal, haha. I don't know, I just don't feel any different after sex with a new partner, I don't feel less valuable, you know? And I mean, ideally, you hit on the first try and find your soulmate, but I just think it's unrealistic. And live a day in a man's shoes and get back to me about urge control. Not our forte, hahaha. But i get what you're saying. As one of the greatest TV themes in history told us: "Now the world don't move to the beat of just one drum, what might be right for you may not be right for some... it takes Diff'rent Strokes to move the worrrrllllld!" Guaranteed I'll listen to that a minimum of 10 times today now) And a very wise man once said "No Ragrets, tha's ma creedo."
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But it's all good, buddy. You're a better woman than I. Wait... what?
If she's clean and she dropped the business and I felt that she respected my wants and vice versa, yeah, love is blind but not stupid. People change. People have their reasons and if I wasn't in their shoes I only have so much room to judge.
I wishI had more grace like you. But I just couldn't do it.
Hah, I'm flattered. We all have our preferences and past experiences and train of thoughts that will make us who we are. None the wiser.
First all I don't think she would date you either because of all the stereotypes you just put out there. It's the same as prostitutes everyone like no, no and no. But you don't even know then or why they did it. Maybe she just likes sex and was like "I like sex I'm good at it, why not do it as a career". Also maybe she got a point in her life where she was really desperate and needed the money. And that doesn't mean she has lower self esteem, it mean he has sex. and not every p*rnstar is on drugs that's really stupid. They can be People just like anyone else. I would date pornstar, because I new a friend who was a prostitute and she explained to me how the lifestyle is
Shame me all you want. I'd rather masturbate than date a p*rnstar or an ex-pornstar.
I think something like that you should do once in your life. Dating a pornstar can really expand your view on life. More people should do it. Though dating an adult star can end up being pretty expensive.
Mostly people safe for a couple of months just to see their favourite adult star once. And yes, maybe they might have STD's. Therefore it's best to only practice safe sex with these girls so there will be no risk for you at all. Good luck :)!
Pornstars, prostitutes and any of the sort are all so broken inside, emotionally, and they might not acknowledge this, but they carry a lot of baggage. A girl who sexually exploits herself is a ticking time bomb.
NO... I would not date a pornstar... no matter what good explanation or reasons to give to like or date him, I just don't and I won't...
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Sure. There's nothing wrong with having sex with guys – get it girl! That other stuff about STDs, drugs and self-respect (lol?) sounds like a bunch of crap you just made up. :P
fcxk no, id actually rather die.
Yes.
I would love to date my favorite pornstars. I would enjoy watching them have sex and would enjoy re-enacting some of their scenes. Maybe she would be able to get me a job in one of her videos!!
No. I am not a fan of bad girls at the first place. Dating a p*rnstar won't make things any better.
i dont know. Smetimes, shit happens, maybe i could date an eX-pornstar and Everyone deserve second chances.
Yes I could
What would my dick do to them..
I wouldn't date a pornstar, because I have a 4" penis, and there's no way in hell a woman who has sex with huge guys for a living would ever find that attractive or pleasurable.
Ewww...gods no.
She has been fucked by so many men it's.. ugh...
No, just no.
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