Do all men cum that fast?

[Anonymous]

I have had sex with 3 guys in my life and all of them just went slow. Its lame. If they went fast they would cum within a minute. Are all guys like that? Because in porn they seem to go really hard and fast and last for ages. Am I unlucky and just hook up with lame guys or are they all quick cummers like that?

[rkf_helps_247]

it's not your problem love Most guys when they grow up Watching porn would jerk off so fast while they masturbate, and so their body is used to cumming early when jerked faster. This also leads to premature ejaculation.

And NO, all guys aren't like that. Only the ones that have trained their bodies via masturbation are the ones that cums early.

I never cum early during sex with my partner.

[rkf_helps_247]

Also, guys who aren't use to real life sex cum early too. like virgins or guys who have had just 1 or 2 partners

[Najoub]

porn is not always shot continuously, and to actually become a porn star most men are subject to a "training" that helps them cum on demand, like they can choose when to cum and when not to, every single male porn actor has to pass that test or they are kicked out right away

[Anonymous]

nope. in all of my experience (8 guys) only two have come really quick. the others last at least 10 minutes - long enough for me to enjoy it, but not too long that its starts hurting.

[Yes-Man]

Either you're some magical being or they just don't know how to edge and not to cum too fast.

[summiter]

Everyone is different. If you want it fast then have a lot of foreplay and get them ready to blast off just before sex. If you want them to last longer give them a handjob first that way they can last longer. Your thoughts?

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Well, biologically speaking, fast ejaculation is the most optimal to avoid predators sneaking up on you and you can move to another woman in a quick fashion I believe. Also, porn is pretty deceptive. The camera takes cuts and pans to different angles to give the "smoke and mirrors" illusion. Meaning, you might have the illusion that one thing is smaller or larger based on the camera placement. Some of these actors also take performance enhancing drugs and multiple takes.

[Mitch6192]

2 mins is average.

[GingerGuy]

Well, guys certainly aren't like in porn. My friends and I always call those guy Superman lol. But I'm assuming also your guys are young and inexperienced as well which will make them cum faster. If you're with them again, or others, just get the first one over with right away but don't let it be the end of your sex. While they are recovering, they can work on you (do other things) until they are hard again. Then have intercourse. They will last much longer the second time.

[qman110]

I'm actually on the other end of the spectrum I can't cum fast. never have. so I can say that no not all guys do that.

[alovingboyfriend]

If it's one of first times, he'll be fast as hell
He'll probably last longer the more times you do it

[TheStaleMarshmellow]

You know porn is fake right?

right?

[MermaidMotel]

Exactly... and most of them are practically snorting Viagra, pills and other drugs through their asses. They literally have to stay hard for hours to shoot scenes from different angles, reshoot scenes, act out scenes and to get the "perfect" cumshot. They get pretty desensitized from the whole thing and probably have erectile dysfunction issues in real life.

[SeVBooM]

ur guy should jack off before having sex. I do before going on any date that I anticipate having sex on because that can drastically increase the length I last. then if I finish again during sex after I recharge in a few mins it's almost impossible for me to finish again, if it even comes to that phase. me and my girlfriend are pretty good at finishing at the same time

[WeirdoWerdo]

"In porn" Porn isn't really 'realistic'...

[OlderGuy965]

I go an hour usually. Too long for some, as she dries up sometimes

[Dragan]

Not all but many.

[JustCallMeLeon]

The more the guy has the more he will last. Also the more he ages the more he lasts. Comparing porn dudes with normal folks is like complaining about your guy not being muscular as Shaw, fast as Bolt and badass as Tyson. Thats why they are pros. They are good at it.

[kenjaminslutton]

No i take forever i gotta force my nit out i hate it

[YAZ55]

Fuck him 2times and he will come late

[YAZ55]

So much supplements and delay cream they use in pornos

[Asker]

what supplemants? what creams?

[YAZ55]

Coming delay cream men apply on pines head. Or couple of glasses of alcohol sometimes work

[Regular1]

In porno, one of the main qualifying criteria for guys is that they can last a LONG time. You can look up interviews with male porn stars and they usually mention that as being the most important thing for getting work in the business. So, right off the bat, comparing lasting power of an average guy with a porn guy is like comparing purchasing power of a regular guy with a Rockefeller. As far as supplements and delay creams, you can buy lidocaine cream that will delay ejaculation. But the guy usually can't feel anything during sex. An over the counter supplement that delays ejaculation and is also good for you is L-Arginine.

[YAZ55]

My girl will kill me if I get that... She waits for me to come when I'm horny as if I am having sex every day

[Asker]

@Regular1 L arginine and lidocaine. where can i get those for my bf? how much should he take? are they safe?

[Regular1]

I think lidocaine can be found on Amazon. Or Adam and Eve or some other type of sex shop. Arginine you can buy at Walmart or any drug store

[disgustingweebtrash]

Trust girls to say "guys get unrealistic standards from porn" yet then this happens hehe

[TallAnon]

I usually take 2 to 3 hours to cum with someone else, masturbation is a lot quicker.

[bababooya]

Haha. hard no

[indie11]

porn is not always real. perfect sex takes time. it is touching , kissing and then u get arousal and so on... best sex is not just jerking and stroking

[CT_CD]

I only need 30 seconds. Srs

[DylanDimock98765]

15/20 mins

[daddysir77]

of course it lasts for ages. they can edit the scene to make him last all day.

once he cums, get him hard again and finish.

[pratyushuchiha]

in porn they take a pill , that stops the ejaculation for a hour or sth , in real life while masturbating guys can take around 10 mins while having sex its max upto 2 mins so its ok :-)

[Tkwizard]

The longest I've ever went was an hour before getting off, but 15-20 minutes is average.

[pratyushuchiha]

that would be like with Viagra right?

[Tkwizard]

No, just having sex. I had a head cold when I lasted an hour. Actually I never got off

[pratyushuchiha]

stamina

[Tkwizard]

I've always liked to make it last. The fun part is getting there not finishing.

[mattyhaych]

that definitely isn't every guy, although it would be quite common. perhaps its a compliment to you being attractive or good at what you do. I myself can last a while before cumming, but on the other side some times i may not cum at all

[hadijut]

No some guy come speedily and blast v

[happpyyynes]

hmmmmm its cool, i had like 5 minute but have 33 you know hahahaha

[Anonymous]

You're unlucky I guess
I came thrice simultaneously and I was still hard lmao

[Anonymous]

Nah, you were just unlucky I think. A lot of guys will cum pretty fast, my current boyfriend has been the only one I've had who has been able to hold himself back for a good amount of time and be pretty rough/fast too.

[Anonymous]

I do cum that fast, sorry. My penis gets very excited when it feels the pleasure of a warm, soft, and wet vagina. As I'm not used to this like a porn star who gets it every day and as a job, the excitement is always there.

[Anonymous]

Porn isn't real life. And, yes, all guys will finish fast if they go at max speed.