Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health +1 y
Do men get turned off by a big labia?
Anonymous
So i search the internet on a regular basis about this and never find a clear answer. What do men prefer? I read a lot that a man will just be happy to gain "entry" to the vagina no matter what it looks like. I find it very hard to believe this and sometimes just wonder if its the weird guys who like this? I have heard lots of people make jokes about large inner labias and considering I have one i makes me very insecure. I have been split up with my long term boyfriend for 13 months now and have found it very difficult to move on because of how i look. I never let him go down on me and touch me too much when we were together. Oral was just something that would frighten me that he might reject me.. even though he had seen me millions of times dur in sex. He once asked me "why is your labia bigger than girls on porn or his previous ex".. I then had to explain to him everyone is different an a lot of porn stars had cosmetic surgery. This was really humilating for me and I could never let him "play" with me again. I have pushed everyone away all because of this and i often feel stupid and tell myself whats the worst thats going to happen? I have met an amazing guy and he treats me so well! I haven't let anything happen because of how insecure i am down there and he will start to question why soon even though he told me he is willing to wait however long. He is a man and soon he will go else where for pleasure if he thinks im not going to give it to him, I completely understand this. I dont want to make a big deal out of it and tell him how I feel because this might make him pay extra attention to my large inner labia? Do I tell him how insecure I feel or is this weird to a man?
Updates:
+1 y
Thank you all for the positive comments! Going to his tonight and brought myself some nice new underwear to boost confidence!! Hopefully things go well and i dont end up backing out or leaving in embarassment! Got some wine to keep my confidence up! Thank you
0 0
What Girls & Guys Said
3 28i like labia ofany size
Yes tell him. If he loves you like he says then it won't matter. Get yourself out of the rate and enjoy your relationship
In my tribe, a woman with larger labia and who squirt will have 100 men chasing her! His husband will always claim to be the happiest married man on earth! Don't be ashamed by that! You're beautiful as you're!
If I got down there and started up, ain't no turning back, so long as everything is normal. Later on I'd feel like "damn, I just gave myself blueballs" if I reject it. If everyone let their outward appearance dictate their happiness we'd be in a terrible place.
It doesn't bother me either way... hey, more to suck on.
I like a gash between her legs. Like a deep cut. Like Porn Chicks I guess. Don't know why I guess I grew up thinking all girls had that. Don't like fat pussy