Sexual Relationships 
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Do you agree with my thoughts on penis size?
GenuinelyCurious Xper 4
SIZE MATTERS: There is such a thing as "too long" and "too thick", but that doesn't make all other penis sizes equally pleasurable. While there are many other ways to please a woman (which men with a larger penis can also do), how good vaginal intercourse feels with your partner is still important - it's the most common form of sex and one of the most mutually pleasurable forms of sex. Since you may be wondering, I have a small penis, so this post isn't to inflate my ego. While there is nothing a man can do to change his penis size, it is still a major factor in female sexual pleasure. If you have a smaller penis do the best with what you have, but for the sake of acknowledging the truth, I see nothing wrong with clarifying what most women prefer and why. Some common phrases about penis size: "Women don't bring a measuring tape to bed with them." - Women still know how pleasurable a man's penis feels, and their preferable size range exists even if they don't measure or know the measurements. "The vagina accommodates any size penis." - Sure it accommodates, but it feels different depending on how much the vagina has to expand. "It's not the length so much as the width of the penis that matters." - This is still bad news for many men with thin penises. "It's not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean." - A man with a larger penis using "the best" moves will likely feel better than a man with a smaller penis using "the best" moves. "It's not the size of the penis, it's the man it's attached to." - While the man it's attached to is important, there are plenty of great men who ALSO have a larger penis...which most women would prefer. "Shallow women who don't want you because of your penis size aren't worth it." - How convenient! No man would dump a shallow woman who enjoys his penis BECAUSE of it's size, so why the attitude and double standard when her shallowness doesn't work in your favor? Some more thoughts: -Even if the increased pleasure from a larger penis were purely aesthetic (looks good), it would still be more pleasurable. -There are sex methods that are much easier/only possible with a larger penis. For instance: Men with a larger penis can use longer strokes, it won't slip out as much, they can change sex positions while staying inside the vagina, and they don't have to worry about their belly/her butt getting in the way as much.
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What Girls & Guys Said
18 36my penis is 9 inches and it just gets in the way
Yep having a small dick absolutely sucks man, I have a skinny 6" dick and I fucking hate it! I will never be satisfied with it, I dgaf what "average" is, its still small.
This is basically true. But context matters, If I'm single and want a guy just for some regular sex, then I definitely prefer a thick, girthy cock. He doesn't need to be Shane Diesel but some decent girth is good. It's all about feeling full. But when I'm in a serious relationship, penis size is not important at all since the sex is great when I'm in love.
My boyfriend is about average and we have amazing passionate sex.
How big would you want a penis to be at the most when you were single?
@sandoncheeks mines 9 inches and it gets in the way
All men have the ability to pleasure a woman but the bigger ones often do more damage in my opinion
i get laughed at a lot by girls
How thick would too thick be? I only ask cause I'm 6.5in around and worry that I might hurt the girl I'm with and turn her off of it.
Well Jonah Falcon is 8 inches around and 13.5 inches long. I think you're good lol
Haha you did an awesome job on writing this all out. I completely agree with you. I've heard a lot of girls say size doesn't matter but then they constantly brag about it if they were with a guy with a big penis.
I'm just glad I'm not a man.
We concern our penis size, you girls concern boobs!
@Abbas1996 Flat girls can be freaking hot too, though. Girls can at least always achieve a nice ass by training and gaining some butt fat... lol
As a woman right now you have 10x the benefits. But I'm still happy to be a man.
@Abbas1996 but girls don't need boobs to have sex, they are just accessories, penis size on the other hand important for sex, obviously.
holy cow you put a lot of thought into this. Err it doesn't matter what I say, I'm a virgin! =) lol sorry I couldn't be of more help. Good luck though!
Yes I am a loser, but I am right.
Nah you're not a loser. This site is meant for all your questions and doubts, so it's perfectly alright to ask. I'm one of the ones where.. since I am a virgin, I am thoroughly blessed where it won't matter to me since the guy whom I decide to sleep with eventually will be the best sex of my life lol because it will be the only thing I have known =)
You’re 30 and still a virgin? What are waiting for?
@Stellargasm a good man she can love?