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Do you have any tips for losing your virginity?
desperatelyhungry Explorer
I'm losing my virginity later today. I'm excited to do this and feel I'm ready, but I'm still very nervous, any tips? Also, this guy is 13 inches taller than me so I'm sure positions like missionary wouldn't work, what are good positions for our height difference?
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The deed has been done!
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I don't wanna close this question, but thanks anyways!
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35 68Actually, go with missionary, unless you're very athletic. It's much easier for a nervous virgin to relax lying prone. But if you're comfortable with it, Cowgirl gives the female control over depth, angle, and speed.
Well congratulations
You should have closoe this question then lol
I'm jelous
Why?
I'm still Virgin and probably always will be :(
That's what I used to think and it happened to me. Believe me if it happened for me it can happen for you
But you probably leave the house and have guys pay attention to you.. you also probably have some confidence and aren't shy as fuck
You probably aren't socially retarded like me too
I'm so fucking socially weird and awkward and don't know how to talk to people. The only reason I know the guy I had sex with is because my friend is sleeping with his best friend and they introduced us lol. That's how I usually meet people; through people my friend knows. I really don't get a lot of attention from guys as far them coming up and approaching me
But u r a girl.. it's easy for a girl cos all guys are sexually attracted to you lol... girls always wanna take things "slow" and I'm only average looking
Trust me I jus know il have "virgin" written on my tomb stone.. but it's ok. . I've accepted it now lol
Believe me when I say not all guys are attracted to me I've had my fair share of guys who rejected me. Also I'd only hung out with the guy once before we had sex so I definitely didn't take things slow with him. If you're willing to pleasure a girl and not just worry about being pleasured then thatll help you because a lot of girls don't get their needs met and if you're willing to do that that'll make you more attractive to them.
I'm jus really socially retarded.. I don't know how to go from.. "hi.. how are you. ? What's ur name? Where u from?" To.. "u wanna hop in bed with me?" So usually I jus randomly jump straight to that question. . Which 99.9 perent if the time results to me being slapped in the face and spat on like some disgusting perv lol :( .. I don't think il ever have the social knowledge of how other guys manage to get their self in the position a girl is willing to have sex with him... maybe I jus have a fuckin low IQ lol
That's probably it.. I'm jus dumb as hell lol
I always say " a blade of grass tickles harder that a log"
Size does not matter a lot to most women. Its how you use it.
And if your not sure if you are doing it good or satisfy her, try to talk about it if you are doing good. But also ask for advice to satisfy her more. Every woman is different so the the woman herself knows best what she likes, so she can help you if you just ask
Oops sorry nevermind. New here haha think that i entered the wrong topic with my answer 😅
Foreplay is important for this. Also whoever guy you're doing it with, hopefully you trust this dude and feel special to him. And isn't just seeing you for sex or shit.
Relax and use a condom!
just fuck there is no logic in that how you do it :P
congrats for your first time, just relax and your be fine... maybe try this for a sex position... you kneeing on end of bed with ass in the air and him standing behind you...
Make sure you use a condoms and bring lube and bunch if foreplay, enjoy
The best posittion is cowgirl so the girl can control the penetration. So how was your first time did it hurt?
Have him go really slow and a tonnnnnnn of lube.. when you think you have enough add more you can't use to much. Good luck
my tip is don't trap the guy or he'll get mad at you.
we didn't need to know that
Take it slow. I would wait until you loved them so much that you know with all your heart you want to marry him. I’m waiting until after I get married.
Update: Well, I hope you choose wisely and have a good relationship with him.
Your a virgin?
@BobDaRulaBDR I said I’m waiting, so I guess so.
@BobDaRulaBDR You're*
Sex= marriage. Wait until you become stable independent and able to take care of their health and just be more responsible. So i guess waiting is the best option. Losing virginity at 18 is just too foolish.
How was it? I suggest you on top.
How was said deed?
It was fine. Not too painful and everything went well 👍
Good deal. Are you going to continue seeing the guy? You didn’t say if he was a boy friend or not.
We're just friends but were gonna keep having sex
I said the same thang and now he’s my boyfriend and I can’t live without him. We even stopped having sex for 6 months and I still love him
I don't see anything coming from this. He does some things that make me think he may want a relationship but I tend to overthink things. Ultimately I think he only wants sex
@asisterneedshelp That's what I was going to say. You think you are friends, but that could change.
Man, you two are together. lol
@GreatnessBack do you mean my and the guy I slept with?
Yup.
I mean that could change with everybody, sex or not. If they have no interest in each other romantically, sex won't magically change that. It can fan a flame but it won't cause a spark where there isn't one.
@bloopaholic Very true, but the sex is a MAJOR part of relationships. Relationship have DIED because of the lack of it.
Hopefully he is uncircumcised so for you it feels easier going in your vagina. Make sure you are good and wet. Lots of foreplay is always good.
Well just go slow with being a virgin you will have some pain. but whatever position it will be great
Birth control
*golf clap* 👏
I can assure you there was and always will be
Next time. Try using a dildo aead of time start small cuz you can work your way up or calibrator stick they gelp to break your hymen in if you just start out with it sliw
I appreciate the advice but most people typically only lose their virginity once 😂
I realise that I saw post an answered befire realising you list virginity already hope you were comfortable an it was what you wanted
Cuz lots of people have regrets like dint feel good or I dint love guy or I just did it to get it over
I did it with him on top.