Does the fact that I've had a female circumcision put you guys off me?

[samanthaDty]

So I'm half Indonesian and half English, I spent the first 6 years of my life in Indonesia which is a Muslim country, all girls and boys get circumcised if they want to be accepted within their community. Shouldn't really be calling it circumcision Because in reality it's fgm (female genital mutilation) its not the same as a male circumcision. I've had half of my clit cut off to 'stabilize my libido' basically I have no sex drive, sex is like a chore for me now. it's supposed to make me not cheat on my future husband, Because if I'm not really into sex why would I go looking for it. But I now live in England and no one I've had sex with has noticed that I'm different but neither did I, I just recently found out myself. I just wanna know how a guy would feel about being in a relationship with someone who can't be satisfied sexually and has no sex drive, also would they still expect things from me (sex, bjs ect.)

[Anonymous]

So sex is like a chore for you and you've had sex with several partners and only 16? Clearly, the intended purpose didn't work anyway. I wonder why they do it then.

[Anonymous]

So its not called male genital mutilation when guys have it done? I'm not circumcised and my penis works just fine. But to answer the question no it wouldn't matter.

[Anonymous]

:( that's so sad I feel so bad for you I'm sorry that that happens in the world... even male circumcision is messed up that is just... so not cool >.< I like to make my girl come and I like to pleasure her I think that's half the fun of it but I don't know I wouldn't turn you down just because you were circumcised I just feel so bad that you don't get to experience one of the greatest experiences life has to offer. Muslim religion makes me upset especially since I believe in the freedom of beliefs but when it harms people like that its very confusing for my morals.

[Anonymous]

Thats terrible : / You don't feel any pleasure at all hardly?