Does it make me a slut that I love anal?

i masturbate anally at least twice a week, I feel like I'm in heaven having anal, I always ask my boyfriend to "serve" me, but yesterday, I invited one of my friends to my room because we wanted to study for the coming exam, so she spoted one of my anal toys, and she freaked out and said I'm a slut for having such interests. does it really make a "slut" for enjoying anal?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well... Sluts an insult, not a title, if you dig. The people who came up with the word slut are the people who call people sluts, so they have every right to use it as they choose. But that just furthers my feelings against the term; I've frequently heard it extending to people who have fetishes or are kinky...

    So, don't worry about it, you're really not doing anything wrong, but it makes you a slut in her eyes. That should tell you something about her, not something about you.

    • By the way, I don't mean to be a d*** or anything, but you said it made you feel really bad when she called you a slut. Do you call or consider other people sluts yourself? 'Cos it probably makes them feel much the same way =/

  • What is wrong with girls and thinking their sluts?

    Sluts are girls who will have sex with anyone and anytime. Also sluts show as much skin as possible with the intention of being picked up for sex. And they basically have no standards.

    It does not make you a slut when you enjoy sex but also respect yourself enough not to do it with anything that moves. Sex is great, and what's the point of being able to do it, if you don't do it. Just respect yourself about it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • LOL no. Her reaction says a lot more about HER as a person than it says about you. She's just judgemental, ignore her. Friends shouldn't make you feel like s.hit, they take you as you are and build you up, not tear you down.

  • No, your friend's just conservative. I love anal too. She's obviously never tried it and is being judgmental about it. It's not like you're out having sex with anyone and everyone.

    • Thanks, this really made me feel better.

    • I'm glad :). It wasn't right of her to make you feel bad about something like this.

    • Thank you ;)

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  • You need new friends :l there's nothing wrong with enjoying yourself. It's your body. The only way your a slut is if you sleep around.

    • I Don't want to give up on my friends, but, I died a little inside when she called me that, it's like she abandoned me...

    • Well I'm sorry, I gladly accept you as you are. Your a wonderful person no matter what people say.

    • Thank you, I feel much better now ;)

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  • No. If you're with one person (or nobody, for that matter) then you're not a slut.

    Only if you indiscriminately sleep around with anyone who asks.

  • General life rule: the judgmental people are wrong, and when they're not, they're jackasses. Never, never, never worth listening to.

  • No. Getting around with lots of partners is what makes you a slut.

    But I'd be careful not to shove too many big things in there, you can wind up with some serious bowel issues. But if its small, uh, enjoy? haha.

  • No.

  • Should have had her suck on the toy...

  • No

  • no you are not >>> and don't listen to others opinion , cuz everybody have different test in life , you do love anal but some is not , if i have a girl like you i'll make her feel living in heaven

  • There's nothing wrong with that.

    A slut is someone who willingly shares their body with someone they have only just met on various occassions. For instance, I was a slut.

  • Not at all.

  • Of course not we all enjoy different things sexually.. people should respect that.

  • No, it just makes you someone who likes anal. We are not all the same... especially you ladies. I used to be the cunnilingus master but my wife doesn't like it very much. Some ladies like it some don't, whether it be anal, oral or different positions. In short, you are normal for you, so don't worry about it.

  • Not at all. It makes you awesome!

  • It doesn't make you a slut but it might be a bit too much to masturbate anally twice every day

    • It's twice a week, not even an anal queen can masturbate twice a day.

    • She said a week, not a day...

    • Oh my bad read it wrong and was thinking her assshole had to be the size of a bowling ball

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  • Nope "whatever floats your boat"

    • Ty

    • Or whatever tickles your pickle :)

  • Hell nah! I wish my girl loved anal ;P

  • not at all, ever one have their kinks. Tell her she should try it she may like it

  • No definitely not. Nothing is taboo or slutty nowadays. If anal feels good for you then of course you are going to want to satisfy your desires.

  • No hell no, can I have that ass

  • Not at all. I like anal too. Not all the time but it's fun for a change.

  • Thats so fkn hooootttt ;)

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