It's more likely your hymen. My suggestion would be to stimulate your body before attempting penetration by your finger. Here is some good advice that works for me and the step with your vagina through your undies is optional. the big key is constant stimulation and fore play. First I would recommend starting out in the fallowing outfit: T-shirt, bra, and panties, first you start rubbing the top of your pussy over your undies while playing with your boobs over your bra and shirt for about a 3 mins, then while sticking your hand down your panties and rubbing your pussy start taking off your shirts (the key to this is to to switch hands), then take your panties and bra off, then start rubbing your clit for a good 8-10mins , while one hand is still busy with your boobs (I can show you a pic of of a diagram so u can find your clit). Then stick your finger inside your pussy and point it upward and start rubbing there and play with your boobs (of course), do this for about 10-30mins or until you orgasm (wich is a sensation feeling you are building up this whole time) , the stronger the intensity is the stronger the orgasm will be. Make sure to be thinking dirty thoughts through out this process.
0 0 0 0That's definitely your hymen, nothing to worry about. My friend recently had sex for the first time and when her boyfriend entered her for the first time, he told her he could feel her hymen (he was experienced). Also it depends on how fertile you are. Some men don't have to enter a woman for her to get pregnant as she's so fertile. Some people try for months, ejaculating inside her with no results. A friend got pregnant with precum but he was inside her. Apparently you can get pregnant if he doesn't enter and he's covered in pre ejaculate. I spoke to a pharmacist.
0 0 0 0It is possible your hymen is still intact and that's why you couldn't penetrate deep enough. The only other explanation is, you weren't aroused enough for your vagina to sufficiently dilate. As for pregnancy you cannot get pregnant unless he has ejaculated in you or in rare cases if your vagina was in contact with semen or precum.
The average depth of the vagina is 3 to 4 inches when not sexually aroused, during sex it can easily expand or elongate to accommodate larger objects or penises.0 1 0 0No, it's possible but rare for sperm to make its way into the vagina form the vulva. EverY girls vagina is different some are deep and some are shallow. Hope this helps.
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Well, for the first: your vagina is blocked by your muscles inside the vagina. it is much deeper then you think you. I think your first time will be much pain then :( but you can talk with your gynecologist about it.
Your hymen isn't really strong. Maybe you can feel when it will break, but it won't be the pain. The pain will come from the muscles that will be stretched.
The next question: Can you get pregnant when the penis isn't inside your vagina:
Yes, thats possible. But the chance isn't really big, because then there will be only a little bit of the semen inside it.0 0 0 0No, it doesn't HAVE to be in the vagina. It's easier to get pregnant the more semen gets deeper inside, but it can find its way up the vagina.
As for your own experiment, sounds like you weren't aroused when you put your finger in. Being un-aroused and unlubricated will prevent much penetration. When you're turned on, your vagina loosens up and expands to allow room for a penis.
Also, it takes time for your vagina to get used to penetration. It's a muscle, and muscles that you don't use need time to get limber. The more often you have penetration, the easier it gets.0 0 0 0So, does this mean that the man and woman can literally be sleeping side by side, male behind the female, and somehow the penis will become erect and touch the vulva, which causes stimulation of ejaculation? I am not sure if what I said made any sense, but can one have sex during sleep? Funny how some people say that sex must begin, maintain, and end with consent. Does sleeping count as consent?
A unconscious guy's penis resting against the outside of your vulva isn't sex. A guy's penis gets hard several times a night, but it's not going to get inside you.
I did lubricate myself with saliva. And I tried to stimulate my nipples for arousal. But then I guess I had to tighten my leg muscles, because I was using my feet to hold a mirror. A flashlight was placed on the bed, and I used my other feet to balance the flashlight so that it'd aim at my vagina, allowing me to see it better. I also took off my nightgown and was briefly naked, so I would be more flexible and not worry about clothes occluding my vision. I have never been penetrated by anything before, but I think I may try inserting a clean tampon. Then again, I find pads more convenient to wear, because they, like glasses, are outside the body. I've always been afraid that contacts would get lost in my eyeball or dissolve chemicals due to my frequent presence in a laboratory setting. And I've always been afraid that tampons or menstrual cups would get stuck in there, and I'd have to arouse myself and reach in.
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2 7Maybe hitting your hymen? Probably hitting your hymen.
Clearly you should post a picture for us :p Actually, you could prop a mirror up and get a view of yourself. Make sure you're hitting the right place, etc.
Vaginas are much deeper than 1 knuckle, and they stretch during sex, too. Don't worry about it.
And no, technically you don't need to be penetrated *at all* to conceive. Those little spermies swim for everything they're worth, and sometimes they can get a fair distance.0 1 0 0Not at all. The semen just needs to get inside the vagina or in your fluids somehow.
0 0 0 0The sperm has to be in the vagina to cause pregnancy
2 0 1 0No it doesn't it's possible but rare for sperm to make its way into the vagina from the vulva
@babygirl1112 yeah I already knew that
nope, it has to be close though otherwise the sperm can't swim up inside
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