Getting f***** by my brother-in-law? PLEASE HELP!

[Anonymous]

I am very much depressed as last week I was f***ed by my brother in law when I was along at home. he came over for a short drop and no one was home that time. my husband was away to work and I had taken leave from work to sort out things at home. How unfortunate I am that on this particular day I had to stay home. I came out of shower and my brother-in-law was at the door. I went to open the door in a towel wrapped around my body. When I saw my brother-in-law, I invited him inside and told him to wait till I get myself dressed-up. while climbing the stairs up I accidentally dropped my towel and stood all naked in front of my brother-in-law. he kept staring at me while I quickly knelt down to pick my towel. I bent down and before I for 5 minutes I kept bending down to pick the towel and there was it! my brother-n-law came up to me, help me tight and started unzipping his jeans. he then took me to my room and f***ed me so badly! I don't know what to do? Should I report to police or even tell my husband?

[ArtistBboy]

You should have left him at the door while you went and got dressed, plain and simple.

If I were a judge, overlooking the facts of the case, I would not consider this rape. I would consider it as you cheating on your husband. You knew that you were in a towel and without clothes; furthermore, a respectable woman would have left the towel and rushed upstairs to get dressed behind a locked door. They wouldn't sit around looking for a towel with another man present. Then further into the case, if you still disagreed, I would identify that you could have left the scenario when he started unzipping his pants by either:

1) Asking him to leave

2) Saying "wait here for a second" and then went upstairs in a calm manor, where you phoned the police and locked the door.

And ultimately, you never called your husband (which will probably show on the phone records)... So no... it's not rape.. It's negligently being carried out in the situation.

Rape is when you were forcefully submitting to his every wish and demand |OR| where you submitted to certain actions to prevent harm upon yourself or others (I.e. at gun point, or due to a threat)... You didn't speak about those in this question, so I can only assume that it was your own reckless behavior.

What's done is done.. But learn your lesson.

~ ArtistBBoy

[AlanHB]

If he raped you tell the police.

But if you wanted to have sex with him, that's cheating pure and simple.

[Anonymous]

"I bent down and before I for 5 minutes I kept bending down to pick the towel and there was it! my brother-n-law came up to me, help me tight and started unzipping his jeans. he then took me to my room and f***ed me so badly! I don't know what to do? Should I report to police or even tell my husband?"

Was it rape, or did you engage in sexual activity with him and he was the dominant partner? Your story needs more clarification?

Were you an unwilling participant?

Did he force you?

Did you at any point say "stop" or "no"?

Did you try to get away?

If you can answer yes to any of these questions then report it to the police.

No matter what you need to tell your husband. Either you cheated on him or you got raped. Either way he should know

[greeneyedgal]

Did you "want" to sleep with him? Were you maybe caught up in the moment and now regret what happened? If I am wrong and he did force himself on you then you were raped and violated. This MUST be reported to the police. In addition, if he did rape you then you need to tell your husband because he will want to know and you will need support. Please don't delay because if this was recent then the police might be able to retrieve some physical evidence.

[ty-lady]

During the entire explaination as to what happened, you never mentioned rape but at the end of the story, you then ask...should you call the police. What you wanna do him too! Your entire story makes no sense, not lyk you are 16 years old...you are old enough to know whether you just wanted to f*** him! Don't ask silly questions cause you will get real answers... Best of luck!

[1214125]

sounds like a rape .. report him its you and maybe does that to others

[Screamsgutter]

Bullshit.

[gravygirl]

This didn't happen.

[katiesmuff]

Never Happened

[Screamsgutter]

Another convenient victim.

[simran0703]

In fact you liked it.

[Zygum]

If you were interested in sex and he forced you then this :rape :which is crime, so you tell your husband and report to police, if you were also in favor of sex with him, then keep quite

[John109]

It wasn't rape, it was you who wanted sex because you didn't stopped him or kicked his balls.

[Tip-of-the-spear]

I just explained this type of situation to people talking about cheating.

Women are fully capable of telling someone off. It is their job to say “no” if they are in a committed relationship. They shouldn’t be flirting or leading men on either. Yet when a man goes for it they are so overwhelmed they can’t say “no” or “stop”. They blow the guy. Have sex for hours. At no point saying we shouldn’t do this or I’m telling my husband and your wife.

They are always the perpetual victim. It is always someone else’s fault they behaved like a whore.

“My husband works all the time to provide a nice life for me but I’m lonely because he works so much so I had sex with every dick that I could get” So it’s the husband’s fault?

[poppy80]

HAHA it's not rape. You wanted this to happen.

[hondacom]

Did he have a big d### ? Enjoy it ,

[Anonymous]

sounds like you let him. that's not rape its you being nasty

[Anonymous]

If he raped you, you should tell the police and your husband.

I was a little confused by this line: "I bent down and before I for 5 minutes I kept bending down to pick the towel and there was it!" So it took you 5 minutes to get the towel?