i did not realizenaked pics is a reqiurement. she may never want to do that. you should not be frustrated with her as tho she's not doing something 'she should'
its something YOU want, not her.
you have a need for pics, she has a need for you to stop harassing her, to do something she is clearly uncomfortable with.
youe looking at this ONLY from your own perspective.
you are trying to CHANGE her.
if its intolerable break up. of she does something she's ucomfortible with, shell feel violated, or degraded.. & you guys won't last.
shes not doing anything wrong. she just may be wrong for what you want. understand the difference.
don't make her feel like she has problems because you are not horny.
if you are bored out of the bedroom, it means you primarily interested in sex. so therefore obviously you should not be with someone, you think has a low sex drive.
stop trying to change a rock into a stick.
you shouldn't feel guilty for 'wanting' it, but you really have no choice here, either wait, or break up. don't pressure her-thats wrong. that's my opinion. I'm sure lots of guys will say just push her a little more each time, send her pics etc..
i think at this point its been 6 months,. this is who she is, for now. she may change on her own accord.
also id talk to her about this. not antagonistically, not to place blame. just to find out why she is not comfortable& if she sees it changing in the future or is this what you should expect.
depending on the talk and how you feel, you may find you guys are simply not compatible.1 0 0 0I was the exact same with my first boyfriend.I think it is because I had very low body confidence back than and sometimes I would actually take a sexy/naked pic to send to him but I'd look at it and just see a fat disgusting blob and couldn't stand the thought of him seeing it.Then that would make me think why the hell would he want sex with me so I wouldn't be in the mood at all when we were together in bed.I have been doing a lot of work on myself and my new boyfriend id brilliant,he make me feel like the sexiest woman ever and I'm very horny around him.I think it is most likely a confidence problem and if you can help her with that things should improve a lot
0 0 0 0i don't think its that, I mean she's models so I don't think she has an issue with her body, I just can't work out why?
Maybe it has something to do with trust issues.It might be best just to talk to her about it ans explain how you feel
no we both trust each other, but she is very subborn so it could be something like because I asked for it she's not doing it because I want it :S
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1 0Well you could go the nice guy route and just wait for her. I am in the same situation with my boyfriend as far as seeing each other once a week, trying to get things going, and me having a lower sex drive. If you make yourself available to her when she is in the mood she will come to you for help. I can send my boyfriend a text at any hour saying I need help "loving myself" and he will be calling me within minutes. I wouldn't push the photos and such because that is a very personal choice, but flirting is always a plus. My boyfriend makes me feel sexy which puts me in the mood. Start out with little things telling her how you miss her and the things you guys do in bed. For us a conversation about past experiences and what we look forward to in our sex life gets us started. It is really about making her comfortable enough. Start small and mean everything you say.
0 0 0 0thanks I will try but like I said as soon as I go on to a sexy route, the topic will quickly change, and I could never imagine in a million years id get a text from my girlfriend saying I need help loving myself or something on those lines, id love it but would never happen..shes almost like a born again virgin at times haha
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