Girls... Would you go skinny dipping?

[Anonymous]

Hello all. So I have an annual tradition where I go skinny dipping every summer at a local lake. I've gone alone and with others before, so it doesn't really bother me either way. That said, some of my female friends (just platonic friends that were comfortable with it) have moved away, so now I couldn't invite them to go again even if I wanted to. I've got some other female friends though, who know that I do it, and don't seem judgmental or anything like that. If I invited one of them to come along, is there anything I could say to improve the likelihood of her coming along? Now, this is just a casual nudity thing for me. It's not sexual, and I have no sexual intentions. I don't mind being nude even if others are not, and I never pressure my friends to take their swimsuits off. If they want to, great, they're going to enjoy it, and I don't do anything inappropriate like touch, grab, or stare. So I guess the question is, girls, would you accept an invitation to go swimming with a good guy friend knowing that he'd be skinny dipping, and you could do whatever you felt like (full bathing suit, topless, nude... whatever) with no pressure or inappropriate behavior? Is there anything that he could say to make it more interesting for you?

[Jennifer2048]

I would, but not with a big group of people around. Probably with a small group of close friends.

[jpinka]

i would and my boyfriend wouldn't care. just stupid fun

[britannny]

If I had a boyfriend, definitely not. I understand it's just casual nudity and nothing more. But I wouldn't do anything like that if I were in a relationship.

If I were single.. Still probably not.

[blondebeauty27]

yea I'd go skinnydipping with friends don't bother me. there's nothing to get them to do that just explain the way you explained in the q.

[Asker]

So it'd be acceptable to just invite you as if it were the same as getting a drink or coffee?It doesn't need to be some special arrangement?

[blondebeauty27]

no. ya see the more you stress how it's different from other casual get-togethers the more likely your friends will feel uncomfortable and refuse. just be cool about it.

[Asker]

That makes a lot of sense. It's just dicey, you might think someone's cool with it, then they freak out stop talking to you.

[blondebeauty27]

well if they start to show some signs of being uneasy then mention that you wouldn't be alone...that there would be other people with you.

[calialltheway1993]

I'm not the type to go skinnydipping with. The only time I would do it is with SO.

[katkaintkwit]

I would in a pool. Not a lake or river.

[Asker]

Well that completely removes the back to nature aspect of it. I guess I get it, but it's so nice to hear the frogs and crickets, floating around looking up at the trees and stars. My spot is amazing and secluded. Been using it for 4 summers and haven't even come close to being caught.

[katkaintkwit]

lol I love nature. I'll do anything in nature. Just not naked lol germs other microorganisms scare me.

[Asker]

That's too bad. I think you're missing out, but I do understand where you're coming from.

[Libarena]

Yeah.

[jacquesvol]

Been there, done that, with my S. O.

[RebeccaSJ]

I have.

[JennieF]

Done that a bunch.

[Anonymous]

I would if I didn't have a boyfriend but for me it all depends on how many people and who are there. If I had a man no way. If I didn't maybe.

[Red_Arrow]

Would you go if you had a man AND he went with you?

[Opinion Owner]

If he went with me then yes.