Girls - My girlfriend started shaking, is she OK?

[rconnelly]

So I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 8months now, and I've been fingering her for a while now (sorry to be so crude). Anyway we were fooling around the other night and she seemed to be really enjoying it, she was really wet and grabbing my hair and moaning. She's done that before which was OK, but after I kept going for a bit her legs started shaking quite a lot and actually started pulling my hair, and then said to stop. I don't know if she was just really enjoying it or if I actually hurt her? Please help

[Inthemightyjungle]

I promise you did not hurt her. A lot of different things happen when being sexual. Guys pretty much just get hard, sweat then come.. But woman go through different stages of arousal and their legs sometimes shake uncontrollably. Sorry to be graphic, but sometimes mine would not stop shaking severely until an hour after sex. Don't worry you did not hurt her. Just be sure that you DON'T HAVE FINGER NAILS! when doing what you do..

[rconnelly]

Thanks. I know about the finger nails thing, but what actually happened to her then? Was that an orgasm I gave her?

[Inthemightyjungle]

It could have been, especially if she told you to stop after. In my experience shaking can happen way before an orgasm; but again if she told you to stop right after, it was the O. Way to go!

[missymoo]

That happens if a girl has an intense orgasm, her legs get all weak and shake, and if she tries to stand she probably will fall over because they are too weak to support her weight. It doesn't happen to all girls but I know to some it does. She probably orgasmed, and asked you to stop cause it was overly sensitive afterwards.

[selfishstars]

Likely she had an orgasm. When I have one, I start shaking and after a bit I become very sensitive and have to ask my partner to stop.

That said, like Inthemightyjungle said, the only way to know for sure if she was really enjoying it or if you hurt her would be to ask her.

[devonpt96]

Yesterday was New Years and me and my girlfriend were together and I fingered her, her whole body was shaking uncontrollably.. I think this might be the same thing?

[pandaninja]

That is what is usually called an orgasm, some girls get scared the first time they get it, from what I hear its pretty intense for the other gender.

[Inthemightyjungle]

Also: the right thing to do would be to ask her and talk to HER about. If your to the point of sexuality, your to the point of open conversation about it.

[cutekid]

I think you should ask her yourself how she felt when you were doing all diz 2 her..but I personally think she was really enjoying d moment and carried away...

[christian86]

Its normal some girls twitch or spasm when they orgasm. Don't worry your doing it right. If you still not sure ask her.

[Anonymous]

I really doubt you hurt her. My legs get really shaky when there's too much pleasure or I'm trying to hold off an orgasm. She probably asked you to stop because she felt like it was too much. But You should probably ask her about it.

Otherwise, nice work ;)