Hm.
I've never been attracted to celebrities. I find the "celebrity mania" quite disturbing and depressing, and hence have never really appreciated the sight of an extremely famous and middle-aged actor.
I've been attracted to the occasional male peer, however my attraction to these teenagers has never compared with my attraction to particular middle-aged men. I developed my first major crush at the age of 14. The man I desired was somewhere in his fifties, and bipolar. It was frustrating and intense. I recall constantly attempting to attract his attention, but those attempts were always failures.
Now, at 18, I am intensely attracted to a man 30+ years my senior. I'm quite sure that this is 95% because of his excellent personality, intelligence, subtle confidence and way with words.
I think that part of the reason I enjoy the idea of older men is the prospect of a challenge and chase. Older men usually don't want to "give in" to girls decades their junior, and this makes it both fun and taboo to pursue such relationships. Waha. Gosh, I sound like such an evil villain. "Come here. Come on, middle-aged man, I have some candy for you..."
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Yes I'm a 16 year old girl and I find older men very very attractive. Actually I have since I was 12. I'm not really sure what makes them so attractive but I just love the way they look. Not only the famous actors I'm attracted to your average every day guy. I think the laws are stupid, society's view on it is really screwed up. Who are they to say how old or young you have to be to be with someone. The first guy I was in love with was a lot older than me. As long as its not forced I don't see what the problem is.
Cuz ur still a kid and in the eyes of the law its statutory rape if a guy has sex with u, and even as a boyfriend....... guys who are older who get a young girlfriend whos 15-18 years old are 90% of the time gonna use them. USE them. use being the keyword there.so :S and I've seen this happen several times, I don't know if what you had was legit, but there are ALOT of guys who would f*** a 16 year old and then dump him. they are called players(who like kids pretty much) :S
Since the beginning of time an older man has gone with younger girl and boy with older women because to young kids would never survive.....that the way education was passed on....that way the younger could help the older with physical stuff and the older could use knowledge gained to keep them alive, its also proven that the species is better on the whole with that age difference than being the same age. plus I think older women treat younger better, same with older men, on the whole. it usen
I know right! I completely agree with you.
YES! well at least I am...i don't know why...but I think it is just because they seem like they treat you a whole lot better then teenage guys do because the older men seem to know more and their not childish...and as for them being very fit that's just an added bonus for me...i just love older men like tom cruise and brad pitt...but leonardo decaprio is the ABSOLUTE BEST looking one EVER! and he seems very nice
Yes, I have been attracted to an older man before... I think the oldest was like, 36ish?
I'm mostlly attracted to them because either they are good looking, or their lives are developed to a point where I see myself being at that time... Business men to me for some reason are sexy.. always have been! I guess its cause they seem to have their shit together and have done well for themselves..
Girls like Brad Pitt because he's FAMOUS, wealthy and good-looking. If you're famous or wealthy, a different set of rules govern your life. Good looks alone don't cut it.
Wealthy 40 year old guys can score with hot 20 year olds. Famous 40 year olds can rent apartments on the French Riveriera with their 19 year old mistress. Good looking 40 year olds who work at Circuit City and try picking up on 20 year olds a a joke.
Aint fair, but it's life.
Plus, men who go for far younger girls are usually hugely insecure. They're commonly terrified of mature women.
But keep trying! You're good enough, you're smart enough, and dog-gone it, people like you!
Haha, no, this isn't me, you guys. See? If I was the poster, I wouldn't be identified in this response. Anyhow, I'm attracted to 20 and 30 somethings, not teens.
You obviously confused curiosity with intention. But keep trying to read minds! You're good enough, you're smart enough, and dog-gone it, someday you will actually do it!
Well why don't we kill the wealthy and famous. Let the gun govern their lives and the most brutal take all from our society that allows money to keep the weak in power! I'm a One man revolution!
Well we are both in the same bracket so I ask, don't you remember having a crush on older women like elizabeth taylor, Raquel Welch , Betty Grable , Doris Day , Marylynn Monroe..your moms friend...your teacher ...etc?
I would have to think teens still get crushes on older folks as well, I sure did when I was a teeny -bopper. :-)
Oh Mrs.Wigdor, my 5th grade teacher... :-) oh and my pre-school teacher..whatever her name was..she looked like mary taylor moore with a 70's bra-less tight t-shirt look and the scarf around her neck...MMmmmmMM .."memories, like the corners of my mind"
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!hell no for me. when I was a teenaged girl I liked the guys whom were around my age or a little older. I wouldn't go out with someone who's old enough to be my dad or lacked the maturity to be with some girl his age.
EVERY ONE IS DIFFERENT......You want to hear something shocking ?? I have a friend who is a 63 year old man here in Florida, and he has two teen girls who fight for possession of him ! YOU want more shocking ?? One is 17, and one is 14......I have told him that he is NUTS and that he might go to jail, but it has gone on for over a year, and the girls don't want him to leave him ! He may be sick to some of you, but the girls BEG him for intimacy...They are a couple of hot B.....s.
isn't katie holmes like years younger than tom
Who gives a f*** about celebrities? lol
@Whoknows87 He made a valid observation. It's an actual case of younger and older.
Yes! I'm 18.. So 45 is kinda pushin it! Lol. But I think nice looking guys around 20-35 are really hott! I don't know why tho but I just really like them! But once you hit like 45 && 50... that's just kinda gross!
Well when I was like 14 or so I sat in class fantasizing about brad pit and tom cruise and christain slater in interview with a vampire. I wasn't aloud to see the movie but from the previews with kirsten dunst who is about my age kissing Brad Pitt, yes I remember going to the bathroom in school and wondering why my cotton hanes were so wet.
That is sexy, I wish I knew you. I am a great older guy (33)
You need to go back to school if you are out of school, or if you are still in school, you need to pay attention. Your spelling is terrible. "I wasn't ALOUD to see..." should have been "I wasn't ALLOWED to see..." Get your head out from between your legs and start paying attention to things that will truly help you in life, like education. If you are a dummy, which you already sound like you are, it doesn't matter how pretty you are. Good guys don't like dummies. Grow up.
Jeeem sounds jealous. What's wrong never had an orgasm?
TEENS? Are you insane? A teen is a young person whose age falls within the range from 12/13 to18. So no, i dont think a teen girl would really consider a guy in his 30's, let alone 40's. I understant when a woman in her mid 20s fall in love with a man in his 30's or even 40's (which its not very common i would say), but a TEEN, hell no.
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