Yeah I always said that size mattered, and also learnt through experience that width helps too. As a male with an average penis in length a bit wider in diameter than average, I was able to perform ok most of the times but with ladies who had met big penises it required some "technique".
Men with small penises can't achieve the techniques I'm going to mention, so if your wigglie is small, forget it and stick to oral sex and your other charms.
I. E. my brother is not only good looking but has a big dick, and best of all, is well experienced and talks to me a lot. Add to that I had a lot of sex in my life with different women, including sex professionals (prostitues). Add to that, that I had a bunch of female co-workers (and co-students in the past) who talked to me about every topic regarding sex. I was a bit of the gay friend both at work and at school, except for the part in which I love pussy. I was also involved inswingers clubs and had threesomes and foursomes and so on.
So. I hope my experience has helped me learn about women liking big cocks. I might still be wrong. Nobody is perfect.
My take in this matter is that wome DO like big dicks, but the reasons vary:
- The looks. A big, long, thick dick is visually appealing, although it might not necessarily mean it is best for penetration. Most women I've met agree that it is more of a visual input, and only some agree that they prefer them for copulation.
- The feeling. As many agree that they prefer them for penetration, it has to do with the fact that there's more skin contact. However the visual appeal plays a role (as I mentioned in point #1) to enhance the desire. NOW here I come: (1) not all women prefer big as not all vaginas sizes are the same, but overmore, not all women get the same pleasure from penetration. As a matter of fact, a lot of women can only reach orgasms from clit stimuli. (2) those women might prefer big as we men prefer big boobs, or a tight ass, it is a plus for our sexual arousal but plays no physical role during intercourse. (3) Most women I met (and with many I had sex with) agree that big might be a disadvantage. Many agree that sex was painful. Only a few agree that they prefered penetration with bigger dicks. (4). For vaginal pleasure, I got some very valuable information (again, unless your dick is very small, we talk about averages) from my promiscuous life of orgies, prostitutes and swinger clubs. Most women prefer the dick to stay inside (continue...)0 0 0 0and the way it moves around. That's why postures are so important in the sex world, as we average dick sized males can achieve a better performance score when we know how to move our stuff inside and around. Let me add something here, my actual life has had quite a sex life (not born yesterday) and I know she likes big dicks, but she likes sex the most. Big is a plus. As with my actual wife, I proved wrong a size queen (an ex-coworker who had sex with different guys every week). Hey!! I know I can't compete with them in size, so the looks department is out of the question. Also I know I play in disadvantage, if I had a huge rod my effort on giving pleasure would render easier. But I also know big dicks don't necessarily come attached to good looking guys, neither to talented ones. And about talent, I also mean kinky and creative in bed (again, forget about small ones), not only the technique I mentined above. Anyway, we average men should not care less, as we do.
my wife agrees with you 100 percent
1 3 0 0thank you
Most Helpful Girls
Obviously to some size does matter, but I'm tired of people thinking that a "thick" penis is what everyone prefers, after all some don't actually prefer that at all and some do. But also yes it has to do with experience just because a male can stretch you out doesn't mean it's gonna feel good, I prefer guys to know what they're doing in the bedroom and if a hung guy vs an average guy doesn't match up in physical activity then I could care less for the hung. I want to have fun in bed, I'm not just talking about the literal act of sex, but whats before it to. Perhaps your mates partner is a good guy, and yes maybe ideal for marriage however he's not satisfying her in the bedroom, there's heaps of positions that can target the spot good, and maybe they're not communicating enough in the bedroom, who knows maybe she's seeking someone who she won't have to tell what to do, and just knows how to please her without her even saying, but also.. she could just be that person who likes the thrill of cheating you never know x
1 2 0 0You need to get out there more.
What do you mean? I've had good and bad experiences, and I suppose I just know what I like. Everyone is infact different.
have you asked this same question on a different profile? And if women cheat on a man once she meets anothe dude that is hung. That man , women would be cheating 10 times more thane men. GTFO , most women won't waste time getting in a relationship to cheat. You seem to forget women get hit on many times a day so she has many suitors who are taller, better looking, more succesful, better bodies.. etc If she is in a relationship with you i highly doubt she is going to go out to find a guy with a bigger dick. If she couldnt handle small penises she wouldn't have been in a relationship with you.
0 2 0 0I see shit like that happening everyday yet some people find it so hard to believe lol. Maybe I do need new friends...
"Why is it that a girl will be in a serious committed relationship with a guy whom she loves but as soon as she meets a hung dude she cheats. "
Oh yeah like that happens ALL the time to everyone. Seriously.. either you chill with a bunch of female cheaters or you're just making a very bad generalization.
Sorry if you can't accept the truth which is that not all girls are so superficial to leave a great guy over his dick size. If that's the type you are and the type you surround yourself with then great good for you but please don't speak on behalf of all females.5 9 0 1I did say most. As in most girls I've come into contact with. I even did a survey at a few malls with strangers but I asked if they would ever tell their bfs how they felt. They all said no.
@Asker Yeah I'm sure you did.
A survey she said ahahahahahahaha xD
Most people don't like to hurt other peoples feelings with the truth about certain stuff.
2 0 0 0Girls don't care about that
Not isolating you But that would completely defeat the purpose of this site
@TripleAce You really believe anyone on here tells the truth about what they truly think? I mean sure some do since you can tell due to their bluntness. Though majority of people I doubt they are.
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!What Girls & Guys Said
12 31Huh, that's funny. If what you say is true for 100% of the female population (it isn't), then why have I been turned down for being too thick?
In some situations, having a big dick is great, but it can also great problems, so it's not always better. Some women can handle larger ones, and may agree with you. Some girls are smaller, and a big one is uncomfortable, or even painful for them. They are more likely to prefer a less endowed guy.0 3 0 0I said most women not all. I would turn down a guy if his penis is too long. But of its about 8-9 inches and really thick then he's okay in my book.
Guttered mate, I'm pretty sure if she turned you down for being too thick after having a look, it's for other reasons entirely. At least she was polite.
@hellmuth You have no idea what you're talking about, so your post was completely unnecessary. Get a life.
What kind of wife goes around finding out the size of other guys' penises?
Anyway, I think you're moreso speaking for yourself more than anyone... and you need to find better people to hang out with. I've heard numerous claims about the pain women go through from a really big penis. If it is that small and she don't feel it, it sure is a problem but having a really big cock hurts from what girls tell me so I don't see girls chasing super-sized penises like guys think they are. The guys who obsess over their size act as if she's trying to find out how big he is on the first date or something.
The guys who obsess over their size just watch way too much porn and have ridiculous ideas as to how sex is compared to the reality of they way sex actually is.0 3 0 0Sure, because you know exactly what EVERY woman wants and prefers. Why are you speaking for all women as if your opinion is the only true one? Sit your ass down.
4 1 1 0And I agree with @throwit you just sound like a bitter guy who wants to pretend to be a girl in order to make his skewed views sound more legitimate
Sit your ass down and learn to read. I've stated 'most' multiples times. I did not say 'all'. You need better reading skills.
"Most" is still a pretty big word when there are billions of women on this planet who all have different preferences. And in a lot of places you didn't even say "most". So stick to speaking for yourself unless you truly know what "most" of the female population prefers.
Wow you sound like an asshole, or a guy trying to stir shit up by pretending to be an asshole girl.
I've HAD big dicks... They HURT, it's not fun getting your cervix rammed into.7 3 1 0The guys you were with sounds like assholes. I've experienced sex with partners who were well endowed and they were always slow and gentle. Sometimes they didn't put the whole thing in. Sounds like you should pick better partners.
No it's just certain positions that hurt (doggy) they do go slow and don't even go all he way in but it still hurts being in that position with a big size penis.
You need to make up your mind. First your cervix is being rammed now they don't go all the way in. If you're aroused and they only put in two inches and not go all the way its not going to reach your cervix. I have common sense to stick to position that feels best to me.
Mine's 6.7 inches long and 5.5 inches in girth. Should be enough. But yes, it does matter.
1 0 2 0
Most Helpful Guys