Sexual Health
+1 y

Gonna have sex with girlfriend we're both virgins. She's on birth control do I need a condom?

:)
0 1

Most Helpful Guys

  • Always wise to take precautions, even if she's on control unless you saw her take it you technically can't verify it, at least with a condom (preferably you provide your own) you know you have that protection.

    In my opinion the condom is the responsibility of the man and the woman deals with the protection at her end, if you only use one form of protection it's pretty stupid, especially in this world where the man has no control over the baby being kept by the mother but still has to pay child support in many cases if she does keep it.
    If you wanted to be thorough you could always both inspect the condom packet and the condom itself before putting it on, then on the man's part there's good piece of mind.

  • Maybe… there is always a chance of pregnancy.. even when she is on the pill. And you should definitely use an antibacterial penis health crème if you are going to become sexually active. A crème like this will ensure that your penis is extra clean, smooth and moisturized.. these are very important aspects of a good sexual experience for both parties. You can get one online. Hope this helps.

Most Helpful Girl

  • No you don't have to use a condom, you're both virgins so you both have no diseases. And she's on birth control, so you can even cum in her if you want. Birth control is actually more effective, because condoms can break

    • key word *more effective*. No birth control is 100% effective. So just watch yourself man. No one wants to lose their virginity and then have a baby on the way right after.

    • @booshlinux most effective, can take pills everyday for years and never an issue.

    • Lol I've had this conversation so many times with many different women. There is no absolute safe form of birth control. I know girls who have had kids while on the depo. I know girls who have had kids while on the pill. And many other forms. In my opinion, the 'strongest form' is having their tubes burnt/tied. But even then! It's possible for the tubes to find themselves and mend back together.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

Girls, do you have sex drive?
I just want to get fucked! How to get a guy to approach you/notice you at a party?
Are you mentally ill or mentally healthy, and is it difficult or easy for you to orgasm during masturbation?
If a guy told you he could cum farther than he can pee, what would be your reaction?

What Girls & Guys Said

11 16

  • Always double up

    • Do you use both ways? :D

  • Unless you want a surprise baby like me, yes.

    • Unless you don't** want you mean? :D

    • Second that on the surprise baby. Seeing that your a virgin you most likely have no control of your unit so I would slap one on just to be safe. Just bring lube though.

    • @Gramer no. I said it correctly. @booshlinux agreed you can get pregnant even if it is your first time having sex.

  • It's probably best to have one.

    • Why exactly :)?

    • Because birth control isn't 100%. The more protection, the better your chances.

  • Wait for your wife bro!

  • One should always use a condom as a second measure of protection. What would you do if she said oops my birth control didn't work and I am pregnant. Great way to start a new sexual relationship and change a friendship.

  • Wear a damn condom lol anyone who says she won't get pregnant is trying to get u to be a dad push and pray doesn't always work hell condoms sometimes break but id rather use a condom then take a chance and have to pay child support until the kids 18 box of condoms in mass quantity is 50 bucks child support is half your damn paycheck

  • It wouldn't hurt to use condoms. Ask your girlfriend how she feels about you using condoms and go from there. I think you should still use them if you want to make sure.

  • Yes.

  • There's still a chance of getting pregnant even on birth control. Wear one just to stay extra safe

  • Yes wear 1 always

    • Female condom? LOL

    • Yeah man

    • Kewl... I've always wanted to try one with a woman. You never hear of them.

    • Show All

  • No lovin' without glovin'. And to be extra safe, don't finish inside. Pull out.

    Good luck!

  • Yes. You always need a condom

  • Can't hurt. Use your fingers on her first, GENTLY.

  • Wear one just to be safe.

  • I'm gonna disagree with the other opinions, if you know she's on birth control its effective and you don't need a condom, feels better without. And because you are both virgins you know neither has STDs so yea, id go without if I were you but its your choice

    • Well actually you definitely need to know more about the girl, if she has an irregular period and/or she just started birth control she has a larger risk of getting pregnant, even on birth control.

  • Better be safe than sorry.

  • Yes dude you do!

  • Yeah. If you do not want to be a father

    • Oh ok. So the birth control won't guarantee anything?

    • No form of birth control is 100% Always have a backup

    • My mom and dad were using only birth control and I happened. 😁

  • Yes, u can't trust deez hoes

  • probably not, but it wouldn't be a bad idea to bring one anyway, just in case

  • Show More (7)

Latest Questions

If women don’t enjoy penetration then why do they like sex?
What makes someone of opposite sex good in bed for you?
Is getting a circumcision the right answer in my case?
What is the safest way to dispose a used condom that was not your husband?
Home >  Sexual Health  > Gonna have sex with girlfriend we're both virgins. She's on birth control do I need a condom?