Guys , do you feel " anything" when you wear a condom?

So my boyfriend hates condoms and claims he " doesn't feel anything" and then goes soft... is he lying or can you really not feel much lol? Obviously I know it feels better with out one.. but he acts like its the worst thing in the world.. what do you think?
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Also he was my first and we only did it a couple times
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  • Once you go without one, you can never go back. I can't finish if I use one, and if there's any alcohol involved then I can't even stay hard.

    I don't use them anymore, even with random girls. It's surprising how many girls are cool with the pull out method, but it takes practice. I think STD's are over hyped too, otherwise I should've been dead years ago.

    • It takes a while being for stds to show up...

    • I understand that. But condoms don't really protect against the most common ones anyway. If you have a strong immune system then you won't ever (or rarely) have symptoms even if you get the viral ones. It's just like any other virus you can catch, so why does it matter? Sex is natural, a latex tube is not.

    • Thats true but that condom couldve done more protecting than not for those that do not use them. You wonna get sick, thats fine but you're also affecting others aswell. you're the reason I will always use condoms

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  • I mean, we still feel something but.. how to put this one... Men have sex with their penis. Yes? Now our penis is either inside you or inside a condom. Having sex with a condom just isn't as good. The thicker brands can completely numb you. There are also some brands with actual numbing agents inside them.

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  • He is obviously lying- my boyfriend says that yeah it's annoying to have to put it on and off and all that, but you can hardly even feel the difference.

  • I heard there is a Japanese brand that is very thin but also effective so guys can enjoy sex just as much even with a condom on...

    • The catch is they tear easier.

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  • Yes but not anything as far as any added pleasure.. it just makes me a little more secure in my mind that I will not be an father right out of the gate.. but do also realize it could still happen even tho I always wear a condom when I have sex with my lady friends.. and if it did I would man up and be there for her.. not run off like some guys would do

  • It takes some of the sensitivity away, but overall it still works. As long as she is still feelin it... well then WGAF!

  • Try Durex Real Feel or something like that, each quality brand has their own versions of these types of condoms.

  • Tell him to buy a specific type of condom that feels pretty decent.
    Take it from me, I hate condoms.
    But I use them when I have to.

  • Ya I hate condoms lol

  • Sex without a condom is more intense and intimate yet risky at the same time. Condoms do kill the sensation a bit and if they are to tight instant boner killer

  • For me is a big turn off... i prefer with out it.

  • Not much. The upside it takes me longer to cum

  • Easy cheap solution: Have him rub a lot of soap on the outside before he fucks you, it will feel much more pleasurable.

  • It depends on the brand/type. Some to deaden the feeling a lot... others feel like you aren't even wearing one. You have to find a type that work.

  • I don't care, protection is my life and I'll always wear a condom in sex, forever.

  • well, you feel something but it's much less and not really that enjoyable anymore.

    it's a bit like listening to music while wearing earplugs... you hear the music but it's no fun

  • It isn't that we feel nothing at all. So I'll describe the sensation and why we hate it.

    Put on a pair of rubber gloves. Now try to feel anything.

    You kind of, sort of can, but not really, right. Mainly, though, you just feel the awkward sensation of the gloves.

    Condoms are exactly the same, but worse.

  • we don't feel as much. but that is why i get bare-skin condoms

  • Just a little. Try putting a little lube in the inside the condom. And if he still go soft play with his penis until he gets hard again sometime it is all in his head

  • Not going to lie, going in without a condom feels like 3x better than with one, birth control pills are a thing. If he's your boyfriend for quite some time you should make the transition to birth control.

  • na i go soft the moment it goes on

  • For me the sensation is not as good, no condom is best then the girl can watch me cum...

  • He's going soft.

  • it's not too bad. it's still pleasurable and feels good

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