Guys: Why are big boobs "hotter"?

[Anonymous]

It seems that girls who're slim and busty are hotter than us who are slim and well, small chested. I have wide hips. I'd be a perfect hourglass if I had big boobs, but I don't have them. I rarely get told I'm hot, and I don't dress nor do I act like a nun. Nor like a slut. I get told I'm a really nice, fun and smart girl. Yet girls with big boobs (who are slim) get told they're hot all the time. You see the same thing happening with actresses. Sofia Vergara, for instance, is always the "hot" one, all guys think she's hot and desirable and sexy and they drool and whatever. Yet, say, Kate Hudson doesn't incite the same feelings in guys. I want to be hot, but it seems I can't unless I magically grow big boobs (because implants are a turn off apparently). Oh and about penis size, it's not the same because you don't see huge penises on TV like you see breasts, and also, only the first 2 or 3 inches of the vagina are sensitive anyway. I always get told that its' the same as penis size, and it is not! Maybe if you had your d*** on display all the time it would be the same, but it's not. So that's not a valid argument. Plus technique IS more important, and I have never given much importance to size anyway. About height, most girls are shorter than the majority of guys (there will always be a shorter girl than you), about hair bald guys can be hot (see Bruce Willis, Taye Diggs, Donald Faison and many others). And about muscles, you can grow them naturally. You can't grow boobs.

[Anonymous]

It's a fact: people in America, and not just men, idolize big breasts. Every year, American women spend millions of dollars on breast implants, cosmetic procedures to improve their breasts, breast enlargement pills, pumps and creams.

Considering the role that big breasts play in our culture and society, the amount time, energy, money and emotion that goes into breast enlargement seems justified.

But why do men like big breasts? You may be surprised to learn that not all men like big breasts (and we're not talking about gay men) - that the male fascination with massive mammaries is relatively recent, and is a localized phenomenon.

Not all men like big breasts

"Beauty" and standards of what is attractive and what isn't is defined by culture. American culture and society currently idolize big breasts on tall, slender figures (a combination almost never found in nature).

Did you know that in Brazil, breasts take a backseat to a woman's butt? In this South American culture, pert and round buttocks are far more attractive to men than breasts.

But during the 16th century, big breasts were considered low-class. The kinds of knockers men drool over today would only be found on a wet-nurse back then. The standard belle in the 1700s would be considered overweight today - but back then, carrying a few extra pounds was a sign of wealth (that you got enough to eat). And these neoclassical beauties had relatively small breasts - a modest B cup at most.

Have you ever seen ancient Greek or Roman sculptures at the museum? You may recall that even the goddess of love, Aphrodite/Venus, wasn't burdened with cleavage. These ancient beauties were instead well-proportioned with breasts that fit their frames.

And it's not just breast size standards that change over time. Remember Michaelangelo's famous sculpture David? The reason the statue doesn't have a larger penis is because, in Renaissance Italy, having a big penis was a cause for embarrassment. In that time and place, being over-generously hung was about as attractive as wearing a red clown nose.

Is it all just marketing?

The theory is that American male fascination with big breasts is driven by the advertising and media machine. Their explanation goes like this: children are exposed to seductive, sensual sexy advertising featuring busty female models. Children are taught to associate these images with arousal.

Fast forward: children are now adults. Marketers use the same types of images to attract their attention - and it works. So TV commercials, billboards and magazine ads perpetuate this big-breasted, sexy iconography. And children see it, too. Thus the cycle perpetuates itself.

Whether or not one agrees with any of these explanations of why men like big breasts, it's important to realize that the male fascination is real. People perceived as beautiful, on average, are promoted faster at work, where they make more money. They get better service. And they marry more attractive partners.

[blahblahblah12]

Big boobs are NOT hotter. That's like saying why are big butts hotter. All the guys I've been with love my breasts (34B). Big boobs however, do make an impression, but it's mostly psychological. Just like a huge penis, it makes an impression (when naked), but doesn't mean it's hotter. All breasts have their beauty. Guys love perky and symmetrical t*ts, just know that.

I do understand that breasts are commercialized and put on display everyday and everywhere we turn, but so are big lips, tiny noses, big eyes, long hair, big ass, long legs, high cheekbones, tiny waist and big hips. You can't grow or correct any of these features unless you do so unnaturally (like breast implants), and some you can't even "correct" at all. You will see gorgeous women everywhere with a few to none of these "requirements". Big breasts in general are linked to sex (aka good time) in today's media. That's why women with larger breasts are viewed as sex symbols, because every time a guy stares at their chest, they can't help but think of sex. Same thing with big asses, but generally the front part of thebody is what people tend to look at first.

Megan Fox is a sex symbol, so is Jessica Alba, Kylie Minogue, Eva Mendes, and Britney Spears (for a while), none of them have huge or even just big t*ts. It's not about what's on your chest, it's all about the energy you exude. You mentioned that Katy Perry is a sex symbol, to me she's more like a classic beauty like Audrey Hepburn, except with big t*ts, but she doesn't exude more sex than say, Olivia Wilde (who by the way, doesn't have big t*ts).

This is a huge misconception and it's sad to see so many people misled on what true sex appeal is all about.

[Red_Head_Em]

I would rather be beautiful and elegant, any day over hot and sexy.

I have 34F-sized breast's it does not make me any more sexy than any other girl. Also from my point of view it has never been a positive thing, I've been bullied because of them, I have had trouble finding clothes that fit my body properly, had boys talk to my chest rather than my face (trust me this does happen in real life not just movies) and the guy that dates you not because he loves you but because he wants a girl with big breast's so he looks cool in front of his mates.

I've learned to live with what I have and I know I should be happy I have a bust so don't start having go at me saying I’m gloating because I’m not. All I’m saying is everyone’s different and the grass always looks better on the other side until you get there and see there are downs to every side.

Look at Audrey Hepburn she is classed as one of the most beautiful people who's ever lived, I do anything to look like her and she didn't have a huge bust.

Why would you want a man who's with you for your breast size, you want a man that loves you for you and your brains and beauty.

Trust me love your body for what it is and don't change it for any man and don't listen to papers they slag off everyone, they are never happy!

Love who you are, not what people want you to be :) xx

[Killfest400]

Well, there's a lot of stuff in this one question, I'll try to do what I can.

First, why are big boobs considered attractive? The automatic answer seems to be that it's a sign of fertility. As most girls hit puberty, their boobs start growing, so boobs are associated with fertility and sexuality. Yes, some girls get basically no boobage, and some girls get more boobage than they can handle, but the fact of the matter is boobs are correlated with physical maturity.

Being a nice, fun, and smart girl sounds like a pretty good combination to me. I'd much rather date that combination with a decently attractive girl than some knockout girl that's a bitch and a moron. Not everyone fits the media's standard of hot- that's just how the world works.

Of course you can be hot with small boobs, just not a playboy model. There are actually guys who like flatter chests. Your actions determine "hot" just as much as your body does. If you had a stunning body but dressed/acted like a nun, you wouldn't be hot. If you chose to dress provocatively and act sexual, then you would be seen as a sex symbol even without big boobs.

It's not the same as penis size, true. Penis size isn't prominently on display, but it's more important, so it has its own place. Height, however, IS the same. It's directly related to hotness, you can't change it, and some people are pickier about it than others. Yeah, I'll always have girls shorter than I am, but that doesn't necessarily mean they're okay with just 5'9. Likewise, there will always be girls who have smaller boobs than you, and there will always be guys who are perfectly happy to have a flat-chested girl. Same with other features like broad shoulders, chiseled jawlines, and general body shape (skeletal, not muscular). Bald guys can be hot, but still not as much as those with a full head of hair. Muscles can be enhanced with effort, same as being slim (which is another factor that affects hotness).

The media doesn't reflect absolute male opinion. The media, lingerie ads, and "fashion" don't serve to accurately reflect opinions, just to exploit your insecurity and sell you products. The exception would be stuff specifically aimed at men, like Playboy, Maxim, Girls Gone Wild, and that sort of thing. While I haven't seen any Playboy models that are small chested, there are plenty of girls in Maxim and GGW that aren't well-endowed, so bust size obviously isn't the be all and end all of hotness. There's a LOT more than just boob size that affects hotness.

Yeah, a lot of guys like big boobs. If you're looking to be the next Playboy model, you'll probably have to get implants for it. However, hotness (and ESPECIALLY attraction in general) is determined by a LOT more than boob size. Nobody is perfect, and there is no specific model of what "perfect" is. That's just something you're going to have to accept.

[Asker]

It just seems like guys tend to salivate a lot over big boobs you know. Much more than over small. And I wanna be hot, I wanna be the whole package, since I already have the personality, it'd be great to be considered a knockout and not just decently attractive. But it seems boobs are part of being a 10. At least that's what I've got from guy speak I've overheard or actually participated in. My friends aren't PC about it, even if I'm around.

[Killfest400]

True, the majority of guys would want you to have more boobage to be a 10 in their book. However, there's just some things you can change, and some you can't. I'd personally love to be 6'0-6'2, but I just work with what I've got. That's about all you can do.

[Mesonfielde]

Why are big boobs hotter, you ask? Because many people believe that that is the woman ideal that they are meant to look for. They learn this from the people around them, and the media. Because just like you, many guys watch TV when they are young, and the parents say "wow, that's such a hot woman" and that's what they'll consider "hot". It's all learned, and many people seem to learn the same thing from their parents and their surroundings.

Ignore all posts that say "it's biology" and "the cavemen did the same thing" and "it's the sign of fertiility" and all this stupid stuff. Do YOU look at guys saying "wow, that guy is so hot, if we had children together, then they'll be just as healthy"? I doubt that THAT is your primary concern.

Stop comparing yourself to the "media ideals". Just because they say they are hot, it doesn't necessarily mean they are. Each people learn their own attractive base "a woman must be pretty, must have big boobs, must be this and this and shy and whatever" and you link these to your own perception (you might find some women "pretty" while others don't, and you check for this trait in places where you think you are meant to find it) and you get a response if the girl is attractive or unattractive.

To sum it up: People care about big breasts because they believe this cavemen bs. I don't believe it, I hadn't heard of it until now, and as long as even the A-cup girl has a minimal curve, I still consider that feminine and attractive. And I personally don't even like bigger breasts, because it's a fun thought that "her breasts are bigger than her head" or "her breasts in her clothing is a better sight than her face", hahah xD

In terms of physical attraction, the only things that affect me are height, face, hairstyle - straight hair - (and also voice). Sidenote, makeup is usually a turn-off.

(p.s.: guys aren't insecure about their penis length until they learn that they are supposed to have 8 inches while the average people have like 6 inches. then they believe it's a big deal, while it's not. penis size is also a big deal merely because everyone is talking about it.)

[Asker]

Thank you!

[bobair]

Guys don't choose girls based JUST on how they look. Being "hot" will get you noticed but it won't land you the guy of your dreams.

Stop being so superficial. Stop being like the media.

Reality is that men choose to be with women based on how they make him FEEL. If you're sexy and smart then you're in. And being sexy isn't about how you look, it's about how you move, how you talk, and how you FEEL.

Choose to feel sexy and everyone around you will automatically feel it too. Notice how quiet girls suddenly get more attention when they've had a few drinks? It's because they're suddenly more social and they FEEL more confident.

It's this inner FEELING you have about yourself that will dictate how others will FEEL when around you. Choose to feel sexy and the boys will too.

I speak from many years of dating many women. The "hot and sexy" ones are the women with the most inner confidence and self assurance. The pretty ones with big t*ts get old real fast when they're insecure and needy.

~ Robby

My blog ( link )

[Asker]

But being hot doesn't mean I won't get the guy of my dreams either. And if I get the guy of my dreams, then I want him to have the BEST, which means, the whole package: fun, confident, good in bed, smart, sweet and HOOOOOOOOOOT. That's the thing. It's part of the package. I already had a guy settle for my body, and it SUCKED!!!!

[bobair]

What do you mean you "had a guy settle for your body"? And "HOT" is a judgment of attraction, and our human attraction for someone else is based more on who that person is BEING then how they look or what they say. Ask any woman who falls in love with any man.. she'll call him HOT no matter how he looks. P.S. The man of your dreams isn't as superficial as you're making him sound.. he' the guy who doesn't care about your looks, he cares about YOU.

[Asker]

My ex, he complained that my boobs were small in a couple occasions, when I asked him if he preferred big boobs he said yes, etc. Which means I wasn't his ideal type physically, and that sucks. Sure the perfect guy might not be superficial, but he'll be a guy, ridden with testosterone. He'd be WAY happier to have a HOT girlfriend who was ideal physically, than just an average Plain Jane. And my ex told me all guys prefer big boobs over small.

[bobair]

You can either live your life trying to be what other guys want you to be, or you can live your life being awesome as you are. Besides... girls prefer guys with six-packs and who star in hollywood blockbusters, but who gives a sh*t about what they "prefer." What really matters is what women actually choose,which is why I do so well. I hope you realize that when a guy is dating YOU that means he CHOSE you over some other big boobed girl. Which means you've got something men like! :D

[Asker]

But if men want a six pack, they can simply go to the gym! Plus women aren't as shallow as guys. We're not as 'visual' or whatever. And sometimes guys settle, like my ex did. so I don't think just because a guy dates you it means he's that into you. He can just be waiting until something better comes along.

[bobair]

That's a horrible way to see yourself. Just because a guy says he prefers big boobs doesn't mean he thinks you're less then he deserves. Think about how sh*tty it'd be for a guy to be super happy dating you only to discover that you think he's settling, and that you think so poorly of yourself. Thinking like that is going to keep you too guarded for any real man to find and love the real you.

[Asker]

The guy above you said big breasts are seen as trophies, That means smaller breasts aren't worthy of being considered trophies or being bragged about. With that in mind, it's hard to think a guy is not settling for small breasts if they're not worthy of being considered as good as big ones.

[scar1]

"so I don't think just because a guy dates you it means he's that into you. He can just be waiting until something better comes along" this does happen, by the way most guys prefer big boobs but not all do. I have a friend who usually doesn't like more than a B or C

[bobair]

I'd prefer to be able to kill assholes driving around with loud bass in their trucks, and be sleeping on a bed made of horny naked virgins, but this doesn't mean I'm going to turn down the love of my life simply because her boobs aren't as big as I'd hoped. If you're highest ambition is to become a trophy wife then you're doomed for disappointment no matter how hot you are. The reality of your situation is likely that you simply want to be loved and cherished exactly how you are....

[bobair]

I'm not you, but I can guarantee that you'll sleep better when you base your VALUE as a woman/girlfriend/lover on how YOU see yourself, not how random men see you. A real woman's value comes from her self esteem and what she brings to a relationship... not her body/looks/ What's REALLY more important... what some random guys want ( who you don't even know ) OR what YOU want?! Don't seek approval for being yourself. Stop that. Give approval to yourself and everyone else can f*** off. ;)

[Angantyr]

So, asker, it is OK for you to want ''HOOOOOOOOOOT'' men, yet men aren't allowed to like ''HOOOOOOOOOOT'' women? I hope you are beginning to realize how shallow and hypocritical you sound. I have said my peace for now.

[Asker]

Ok, Angantyr, what the hell is your problem with me? Don't like my attitude, fine, walk off, but don't come and insult me in every answer here. Where did I state that I wanted "HOOOOOOOOOOT" men. I don't, I never have, I'm not a shallow bitch, you know? I know for a fact guys want a HOOOOOOOOT girl. I never said I wanted a guy with abs or anything, matter of fact I don't have physical preferences and have fallen and wanted all kinds of guys, usually they have been underdogs, so there.

[bobair]

The problem is that you think guys only care about a woman for superficial reasons, and that "hot" only means physical appearance. If brad pit had down syndrome there's no way you'd label him as "hot." Seriously, find a mature older woman as a mentor and she might open your mind up to some healthier and happier mindsets about yourself. Life doesn't have to be all about worrying you're going to be dumped for the next hotter girl.

[Sekret]

Its the same as asking, "why 97% of the white people just can't love black people" (I mean as a strong relationship followed with marriage. Its just who we are.

There are many Black & White marriages, and many people who don't really care about breast size.

The majority does - live with it.

[143ilalalaluvu]

Hey black guys are f***ing hottt I am obsessed with them and I'm white

[Sekret]

You are just an example of what I said "There are many Black & White marriages".

[jessthatgirl]

I think it is just the media and yea. have you heard guys say that 'no more than a handful is a waste?' stick to that :) The media chooses big boobs because they are good for p*rn and 'out there' for guys to see. I think what makes a person hot isn't the size of their boobs but their personality. I mean I've seen more overweight people with big boobs than really slim girls with big boobs. So I don't know if you could say the larger girl with the large breasts is hot. Anyway it's the person not the boobs!

[grassdi]

Big boobs are considered hot typically among males because on a subconscious level they show a representation of a womens fertility. Naturally bigger breasted woman are typically more fertile than those not. And it seems like you have a misconception about growing boobs. (not to be mean) But you can grow boobs and they typically keep growing throught your life time, just more and less for some people. Drinking beer or anything that has hopps in it causes women to grow bigger breasts, no matter the age. Hopps contain a chemical calledc phyto estrogen which mimics real estrogen and causes the body to kick in boob production so to speak. Unlike men's penises though, there literally is a pill that can make your breasts bigger and its basically just a lot of compact phyto estrogen. I believe I answered all of your questions but if not let me know if you care to.

[Asker]

Those pills almost never work, they just make you retain water and can be harmful, since phyto estrogens (despite coming from plants and being natural) are still hormones which can mess up with a woman's system. Plus, if the pills really did work, don't you think boob jobs would be eliminated? Those pills are way cheaper, they're just too good to be true. And like I told azzhole, those "it's fertility" things, please, stop using that excuse and just say it like it is. I don't think...

[Asker]

I mean when guys want to get laid or are checking out women and commenting with their buddies, I doubt they go like "Look at that rack, bet she's really fertile and young and can raise healthy children". So just say it like it is, even if it's crude. Like there's more to grab, you can tit f***, whatever. But don't mix it with "science" or whatever. I have large hips, which are an indicator of fertility too, yet I get less attention than busty chicks.

[grassdi]

Like I already once said, its on a subconscious level, I'd be worried if some guy said she looks fertile to me . . And as far as pills go if you don't want to take their labelled risks then just drink beer if that's your thing, its the exact same affect just a lot less of it but yet a lot safer too. Boob jobs have yet to be eliminated cause unlike with pills they're not permanent and you get them immediatly, there's no waiting period.

[grassdi]

I see what your looking for as an answer here, like the kind you said they're easier to grab or have better bouncing physics are whatever but sadly I don't think your going to get such an answer, at least from a majority here. Guys are going to cite different why they like boobs, whether they're big or small or whatever, but nearly all guys are going to like them regarldess.

[SomebodyToldMeh]

Well, where can one buy 'hopps'. Yeah, I saw this off of Manswers too, love. I'm not killing my liver to make some random man happy.

[Tamikaze]

Just because bigger breasts get you more attention, it doesn't mean it is the attention you are looking for. Great, so bigger breasts will get you called "hot" and have a lot of guys staring at you, but that does not translate into getting a boyfriend. I have guys staring at my chest regularly but they are not asking me out for dates. Luckily I like how I look and am happy with my figure for myself, but it is definitely not getting me the guy and, if anything, getting me unwanted attention from idiots that just want to see if they can score.

[azzhole725]

Not all Big boobs are hot. If the boobs sag a lot, it is not hot. The love of big boobs is instinctive in a human male. Males want to reproduce with young female. One sign of telling a female's age is by her boobs. Women with smaller boobs are hard to gauge; thus, they are less attractive. Men can gauge the age of a woman with big boobs. Younger women's boobs tend to sag a little or not at all. That is why men love big, perky boobs.

[Asker]

So small boobs are unttractive? Is that what your saying? And that theory is sh*t, I've seen 13 year olds with big saggy t*ts.

[azzhole725]

There are always exceptions, but for the majority, young women have boobs that sag less than their older counter parts. Was that 13 year old fat and chubby? If she was, then that doesn't qualify. You can't say a theory is sh*t just based on one account, anyway. This theory is based on a survey from thousands of people across a variety of races.

[Asker]

No, she wasn't fat at all. Plus surveys never take into account all people, if you think about the big picture, samples used in surveys are usually quite small and not representative of all people. Plus I said 13 year OLDS, plural. I don't think justifying men's likes for big breasts as "evolutionary" things or whatever is that good. I mean, most men may prefer big breasts, OK, but be honest and just say things straight. More to grab, whatever, but not "it's an indicator of age"...

[Asker]

... or it shows fertility or none of that because when men want to get laid I think the last thing in their mind is "oh she looks like she will be able to feed my children" or "she looks like she's young enough to survive childbearing". Just say it like it is, no science involved.

[azzhole725]

Yes, there is science involved. Just because you want to remain ignorant is not my problem. The evolution is inherent and in the subconscious. You don't consciously tell your heart to keep beating. It just does. This is similar to that. You are wrong. Furthermore, if you will read what I stated, men like big, uplifted boobs, boobs that don't sag a lot. Not all big boobs are attractive. A lot of sag is unattractive.

[Asker]

I'm not ignorant, thanks a lot. Whatever, so big boobs are better, if they're perky, yeah OK, so I'm gonna stop being ignorant. I'm unattractive, yeah, is that less ignorant of me? Because I have really perky t*ts, but they're small so I must be unattractive by your theory, right?

[azzhole725]

The conclusion is not that women with small t*ts are ugly. Are they less desirable? They probably are; however, men will look at other characterstics. If they had two girls who had similar characterstics besides the breast, the one with the bigger boobs would be chosen. Overall, you are too emotional to handle the truth. Because I give a different perspective, I am somehow threatening and wrong. Nevertheless, this is America. You can believe whatever you want.

[Asker]

I never said you were wrong, actually you told me I was wrong. And of course this is an emotional subject, women have a lot of pressure to look great, sadly things such as breast size are random and we don't choose them, I'm discussing a part of MY body, of course it's emotional, and of course it's tough to handle if I'm being told my particular characteristic is less than desirable. No woman want's to be told she's less desirable, you know?

[azzhole725]

Actually, you did say that I was wrong, indirectly. If you look at your second comment, "I don't think...," you stated that the theory is not good. If it's not good, then it is bad. If it is bad, then it is wrong. The pressure is natural. Both sexes are pressured to be at their best. Reproduction is not about emotions. The best genes are supposed to move forward, and undesirable genes are supposed to be pushed out. I understand your perspective, but sometimes the truth hurts.

[Elcristoph]

Hello,

as long as they have them I'm not to fussed, if I find you atrective Ill ask you out.. if your interesting Ill keep asking you out..

Ill stop asking you out if you have to many emotional issues..

its that simple

- Chris

[NotQuiteNormal]

My best counter argument would be Mila Jovovich. Small breasts, but still a huge sex symbol.

For me, sexiness has less to do with looks and more to do with "sex appeal".

[stargazerlili]

your a bit warped chica love yourself for who you are if you only knew what it was like to be like one of the women you are so desperatlty seeking to be it ain't all peaches and cream I have been told I am gorgeous my whole life and I would trade it so fast not once has any one ever looked past how I am on the outside to see that inside is so much better than outside I'm jealous of the girls like you who can actually find someone to love them for who they are and not what they look like

[Enuflogic]

Just date a guy who is a butt guy. I rarely look at womens chests anyway cause here's the secret. 90% of women who have a big chest only look good while wearing a bra. Once that comes off, they fall, and stretch, and sag, and generally do not look appealing anymore. Hence the reason I like a nice backside on women. I check them out walking away more than I do when they are walking towards me.

[Funkster76]

To me the sexiest woman in Hollywood in years and to me the sexiest singer (also both the hottest to me) are actress Cathering Zeta Jones and singer Shakira - both not big in the boob department

But I can garrantee there are a few million men in the world who would agree

Also you are looking at American magazines not magazines from other countries aournd the world.

Also preferences change with the times -

in the 1960s Twiggy was the most popular model in the world and was a bean pole with no boobs - also popular was Audrey Hepburn famous actress in the movie Breakfast at Tiffany's

Like I'd said earlier - there is someone for everyone

[Funkster76]

ok - first off - physical attraction is what makes us talk to a person - mental attracktion is what keeps us there.

As for big or small or medium boobs, I know you don't like penis comparisons but in reality there are people who like big boobs and others who like small just like there are women who like big penis and small.

I think the problem is you as well as many women and men just just like you, worry about it too much. Just be yourself and ignore the superficial idiots in the world.

Frankly I always thought normal to slightly larger boobs were a visual attraction but in reality I fell for a woman who facially was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen and flat as a board in the breast department. So what does it tell you? just remember you are more than the sum of your parts.

Just be yourself and love what god gave you, you will find someone who feels the same about you one day.

PS the statue of David and the Venus Dammilo are the most loved and gaucked at art peices in the world and neither are carrying large body parts.

[polyglotmom]

Maybe it's a good thing to not have huge boobs. It eliminates the drooling idiots. I'm not saying that every guy who likes them big is an idiot because it is biological and people have their preferences. I'm just saying that women with large boobs would attract a larger proportion of those men with small brains that can't see more than big boobs. That's a good thing!

[Enickols12]

The answer resides in prehistoric times. In the time of cavemen it was important when choosing a mate that she would be able to bare children. This led to man chasing after the women with larger breasts, wider hips, and with "some meat on their bones" because, to be blunt, they would have a better chance at living through childbirth and being able to reproduce again. That is the answer to your question. As to questions about why people are considered beautiful that is because of the media. If a child was raised in a world with no media and was told from a young age that 700 pound people were attractive that's what they would believe. I personally like them from the b-c range, but if I like the person for who they are they could have those concave boobs that people get after breast cancer and I would still like them for being attached to a person I truly care about. I hope I was able to help.

[Mesonfielde]

Except we are not cavemen, and the only reason why this affects you in your attraction base is because you believe that this is true.

[Enickols12]

It is true because we still have those ideas embedded into our brains. i.e. If you try to lose weight by not eating meals you will more than likely end up gaining weight because your metabolism slows down, so when you do eat your body turns it all to fat because it thinks there is a lack of food.

[Asker]

Then if men go for girls with big breasts, why do some men get turned on by sizes F+? Does your theory mean that men who are with smaller chested women (i.e. most definitely NOT a C cup!) are settling?

[Asker]

GAH! What I meant was: "Then if men go for girls with big breasts, why do some men get turned *OFF* by sizes F+? " The point is, according to your theory, shouldn't bigger always be better?

[Enickols12]

No because there is still a variability we are starting to get to the point where it is more of a preference, but there will always be that knowledge ingrained in mens heads. It is kind of like the appendix, it is just kinda there. It has no real use any more, but sometimes it affects peoples lives as in the case of appendicitis. Do you kinda see what I am saying?

[peace-love-couture]

Boob guys focus on size

Butt guys focus on butt

Leg guys focus on legs

Not all guys like big breasts

The whole pity party thing is getting old

[peace-love-couture]

Enough with the pity party.I've lost sympathy for girls who complain about small boobs and for guys who complain about an average penis.Stop throwing yourself a pity party

[Asker]

Then don't read/answer the questions. It's good that you have self confidence, but not all of us are that lucky. Cheers.

[peace-love-couture]

I actually dislike my breasts,but I think you girls with small boobs should stop complaining and acting like the world is against you

[Asker]

Well, if you look at what the media portrays, hell, even lingerie stores, what would you say is the ideal? Small breasts? Definitely not. It's not that the world is against us, I have never acted that way, I'm just curious about what makes big breasts superior. Because there is enough evidence to support that yes, big breasts are ideal. But why? Slim and busty girls receive more attention than slim and small breasted girls. I want to know why. That is all. No pity party here!

[peace-love-couture]

Who says big breasts are superior? Um and I actually believe Keira Knightely is so f*cking hot and gorgeous and extremely underrated,she doesn't get enough spotlight. I think you're over thinking this Boobs are boobs,some guys don't even care about boobs

[Asker]

If big breasts were just breasts, then they wouldn't be portrayed as ideal. Plus, as women I think we have different beauty standards than men, we tend to like classy looking females, like Keira, but men don't. I haven't ever heard a guy say "Yeah, I'd prefer to f*** Keira Knightley over Salma Hayek". In comedies and such busty women are always the "hot" ones. Or how they always make jokes about small breasts being less desirable and such. Media usually portrays what the majority likes.

[peace-love-couture]

Um,no...well,I'm bisexual so I like guys and girls and can appreciate many many chicks But uh....is it such a crime for guys to have preferences?Girls have them too

[Asker]

Look, I just want to know why. I don't know why you're so against that. I am a woman, heterosexual, so I wouldn't know why big breasts would be better. They're just pieces of flesh and fat, I see nothing special in them, I just want to know why size matters. I don't have many preferences regarding guys anyways, I have more preferences about their personalities though. No abusers, no jealous and control freaks, those are my top three priorities.

[peace-love-couture]

I'm not against you knowing why but you're never going to get a clear answer.It's just a preference,it can give a girl shape,it's biological,just a preference

[-StillWater-]

Oh YES! The idea of the stores for lingerie IS small boobs! In most stores like that the biggest cup is a very small C...

[peace-love-couture]

Actually I see lingerie for D's all of the time. I go through lingerie all of the time, lingerie looking that is

[IHateMeganFox]

Totally agree!

[themastaplan]

big boobs? YUCK YUCK YUCK YUCK YUCK...im a B-C guy, SMALL C if that...no way what the heck,...i lOVEEEEEEEEEE the ass over boobs any day...youre just going off what few guys have told you, its all about personal preference...me myself, I'm an ass guy...boobs are second...its what I'm f***ing that I'm interested in lol

as far as being a 10 and not having boobs...um what kind of guys do you like...i thinkg TONSSSSSSSSSSSS of girls are gorgeous without big boobs...matter of fact if I think a girl is gorgeous with big boobs I say "yeah sehs hot, but she could get a boob reduction" ...

who wants saggy crap when they are older anyways...i think you're a little insecure and need to start hanging around guys who appreciate you and your appearance

and girls are rated on a scale from 1-11...guys are 0-10...RELAX, you're going off some bozo's OPINION! its all preference, don't let it get to you

[thegroupof7]

listen, our tag is "thegroupof7" there's a few guys answering right now.

Breasts are obvi sexually attractive to guys, but fact is its not the size that matters, its more... definition. its just that if their big, they have a definable silhoette through clothes.

and relax, some guys don't like big boobs, they think there to big to hold their own shape well.

besides when you meet "that guy "& u2 fall madly in love, it won't matter what you look like, you'll love each other so much you'll see each other as BEAUTIFUL. he'll LOVE you, and your breasts, regardless of size

[wondermist]

I have the EXACT same problem! I've never been told I'm attractive in any way besides my family (which does not count). Unlike you, I am slim, almost column with very little curves. No butt, THIGHS (oh so much thigh), and short. (Friend me some time? I'd love to be able to share some info I have in greater depth if you don't mind.)

I think the majority of guys would use the "fertility card", but science says that breasts are NOT part of any sexual function except for t*tty ****ing which was probably not around since forever. (DEBUNKED)

I would say titty f***ing, the media feeds the impressionable mind so they feel as if that's what they want and ingrain it into their little heads, more to hold, soft and squishy, MUCH more noticeable than small breasts.

[mikenice8]

I like boobs that are proportionate to the body and nothing bigger. No t*ts ain't to bad though I wouldn't mind them at all. It also goes into how you dress to

[cajundani]

I understand your issues...I have overly large boobs, 36H, and they are not exactly the "hot" size either. luckily I found a boob man so I am good. but you don't see 36H in playboy or celebs either and most of those celebs are fake! Mine are all Natural! wish I could reduce mine without surgery! LOL!

i think the perfect size is D to DDs at least they are still perky when you get to my size they just hang there!

[Asker]

Well at least you can reduce them to DD and still be natural, I'd have to get implants to be that size... and at least your guy is a boob guy... I'd love to trade places with you...

[Eyez-A-Blazin]

Oh that is such bs. Lets just call it a myth. In my world of ladies, I prefer small chested girls. enough to caress is plenty enough for me.

[mangageek]

good to hear that! I feel bad sometimes like my small chest is keeping me from getting I boyfriend :( I'm a 32B

[Eyez-A-Blazin]

im sure it has nothin to do with your chest size. trust me there is plenty of men out there who prefer small breasted girls. 32b, mm..mmm...mm...good. lol perfect size. maybe you just don't give off the right signs to the ones you like so they don't even bother with u.

[Subotai]

Well lots of men are attracted to skinny girls with smaller breasts. Those are most of the Actresses and supermodels. I personally am not into skinny. I have dated and found skinny girls pretty before but I actually find a curvier look with bigger hips and even a little bit of a stomach attractive. Big boobs are partly appealing because they are noticable and to men at least they are sexual. Men like boobs period big boobs draw your attention to the boobs. They are fun to touch and feel. I am not totally sure. For me its not a "big" deal. I like boobs of course but they don't have to be big. And yeah don't get implants, you will get attention from the wrong kind of guys. In general looking hot sexy or whatever is often a trap for both men and women it gets you attention from shallow people or people who may not always be shallow but are looking for a shallow relationship. As for your attempt to claim women don't care about mens looks they do and nobody ever calls them dogs for it, ina way women seem more picky, a lot of men will get into a relationship with a woman that isn't there ideal look and be happy. A lot of women would think that beneath them. Heighth is a big deal to a lot of women, why not date a guy shorter than you? I'm not that short but I am below average height. Being a guy who is tall you can get some immediate attention that shorter guys don't get. Being short kinda like not having the big boobs. At the end of the day confidence is important. Men fall for women who are right for them wrong for them older than them younger than them and who aren't the hottest looking girl out there because she's got a personality that draws him in

[Asker]

There are shallow women, nodoby denies that, but in my experience, the women I know at least put way more importance on personality and how a guy treats them (this mostly) than on looks. That's why a lot of us can seem like stuck up princesses most of the time, 'cause we place far too much importance on HOW we're treated, which is important but not the most important IMO. I just hate being with a guy who thinks I'm not hot or anything, I like sex and part of it is knowing he thinks I'm hot.

[Subotai]

In my experience though treating a girl nice usually kills her attraction to you. Its too bad because nice is actually the way I would like. There's this whole feminist movement but until women come to grips with the fact they encourage men to act like assholes and treat them with disrespect things won't change

[Asker]

What about us who aren't expecting guys to be "bad boys"? I don't have to pay the price just because hot but shallow girls treat guys badly... because you'll find most of the girls who act like that are the typical hot bimbos...

[Subotai]

Idk I haven't had much luck with "being myself" Women interpret me as desperate I guess. Its sorta true I suppose. Its a stereotype that women want commitment and men don't sometimes it is very much the other way around

[teardrop06]

actually every guy I have fallen for is nice to me and that is the biggest reason y I fall for them. Yet they would rather have a hotter girl.

[cut_up_story]

sorry, but there's really nothing to change about this. the truth is that guys like boobs regardless of their size. sure, the bigger the better, but whatever, there's bound to be some guy that thinks your body type is hot...

[gregg250]

The bigger the better is not really true. Look at extremely large breasts. They are not very attractive. I've liked smaller breast no larger than 38 a or b the largest. Women with smaller breasts have advantages over women with larger breasts because they don't have back, fitting size or sleeping problems that large breasted women experience.

[SuperCurious]

You ask this question then tell each guy that says they prefer smaller boobs they are lying...everyone has a different preference for body type, not all guys are programed to like boobs, some are crazy about butts and could care less about boobs. It all depends on the guy, in my opinion I think Kira Knightly is one of the most beautiful women alive and many guys will agree with me, so just learn to love yourself the way you are, as soon as you accept yourself and tell yourself your beautiful guys will see your confidence and you will be more that just cute

[SociallyInept]

I don't think you have a fair opinion of guys.

Guys are very attracted to feminine, CURVY figures.

But that doesn't mean that they always date them.

If a guy likes you, he won't care about how big or small your boobs are.

He just cares about you.

Get it?

[Asker]

Yeah I get it. I'm not stupid. But that doesn't mean he thinks I'm hot. And that sucks. I can't help having been born without curves. Curves are not the be all end all, they mean nothing. Having no curves doesn't make me unfemenine, thanks you VERY much!

[Asker]

And I guess you're curvy. I mean, I bet you have big boobs, so you don't get it either.

[SociallyInept]

It's hard wired into a guy's brain that curvy = feminine if you're really unhappy with yourself you should see a therapist someone to help you get through your problems and yeah, I'm curvy but I have things about my body that I don't like it's hard to find clothes that flatter me without getting too much male attention

[Asker]

You don't know how much I envy you. "it's hard to find clothes that flatter me without getting too much male attention" You should be happy. Really. It's harder getting no attention at all for something that I didn't choose. If I was curvy or curveless but a bitch and got no attention, fair enough. But I'm a nice girl, I'm smart, I'm not cocky or anything. I've been told I'm really cool and fun. But so? Just because I'm unfemenine I get less attention. Ugh. I wish I had attention overload.

[SociallyInept]

I am happy. My life is far from perfect. You seem to be really offended and sarcastic. If I offended you in any way, I apologize. I never directly said that being curveless meant that someone was unfeminine. Guys are attracted to curves because it's more feminine. If you really hate yourself that much, you should serious seek help. You've obviously feel burned because you're not curvy, but just be comfortable with yourself and with your body. Don't go around hating or "envying" people becaus

[Asker]

It's just so hard to accept myself when society and the media push this notion that "curves = HOT" and that "lack of curves = anorexic or man like". I'm not even skinny skinny, just normal weight! I don't feel represented at all. It's like you either are an hourglass like Sofia Vergara or stick thin like Keira Knightley. I look like neither of them. Self acceptance is really hard when society dictates that your body type is NOT hot or femenine enough =( Sorry, I'm just very frustrated.

[SociallyInept]

I think you need to cry or let out your stress somehow. Guys only look at me with their eyes, not their hearts. Some guys look at me with their hearts, but it's kinda rare. But don't hate yourself, or your body. It's not worth getting depressed about.

[tony8832]

I love a nice round butt.

[RavinJade]

Well the question becomes do what to be "Hot" and "Slutty" something most guys go for only to throw away later or elegant and beautiful who has a higher chance of commitment? (For your last update)

That being said I personally have always enjoyed wide hips and a nice backside more then big breasts. So actually your description of yourself sounds pretty close to my Ideal. Not to be crude but you may not be aware of how much attention you are receiving when your back is turned. Where as girls with only big breasts know they are receiving attention cause they can see it from the front.

[Don_Garb]

Stop obsessing about your boobs. To a guy who knows the world all boobs are beautiful, all of them. But it's an unfair world, people are shallow and they aren't getting deeper any time soon. But you still have plenty of opportunities ...

Every woman has some part of her that is the sexiest, I call it the center. You have to find out where your center is and feature that part. It could be anywhere: the small of your back, where your legs connect to your torso, arms, tapered legs, or neck. Men know where it is but right now you don't.

Do what Joan advised Peggy to do on Mad Men: cut some eye holes in a paper bag and put it over your head. Stand in front of the mirror naked and really honestly asses your stengths and weaknesses. Find your center of visual sexiness and build your look around that part of you. I am not a perv and this is well intentioned advice.

[TheDarkNoodle]

I do not know where you are pulling these stereotypes from...Have you gotten a survey of big boobed girls? Have you asked a single one if guys come up to her and call her hot...because I highly doubt they do. I have big boobs (12DD) and I don't have guys flocking to tell me I'm hot, pretty sure I never get called "hot". Also if you want to have sex appeal rather than just being attractive or cute then why do you act like you don't want to be a slut? Guys don't look at playboy for girlfriend material and if they are going for a girl because she has big boobs THEY JUST WANT IN HER PANTS. Seriously boobs don't define attractiveness.

[islands7]

Sofia Vergara DOB 1972 34-37DD/E vs. Kate Hudson 1979 32A

Yes, I agree with your impressions above - not the same reaction.

BUT

the fine art of a woman - that je any sais quoi

IS more than that ... and within your reach

Marilyn Monroe did not begin as DD cups but her curves where posted to every designer/draftsman's set of French curve templates hanging from their drawing table. Many say she could make B's look more desirable than co-star's D's ... if you know who I mean.

Not a fan of breast enhancements, I can submit evidence that athletic women from 14-64 of B or less endowments have many salivating over their curves, made at the gym, dance or sports. Simple at home pushups, situps, deep squats on a regular basis brings out the best, the art of you. This combination of curves is what creates the lust you seem to desire.

In short, the best looking breasts are the ones that have the best looking abs below them.

More ammo?

It's been my experience ... and reported on this forum ... that smaller breasts have much more sensitive nipples ... this leads to erotic adventures beyond the valley of the dolls you consider competition.

[Asker]

I don't know, we'd have to ask more women of all breast sizes whether they have very sensitive or not so sensitive nipples. I've always found it hard to believe that size can impact sensitivity.

[islands7]

I grant you that. I have years of experiences that suggest this is the truth (exception: pregnancy makes most all nipples erotic) but I'll give you this much - my "test sample" is less than a dozen. If you like the idea of "selling it", those saying it's a myth can be directed to this forum.

[IHateMeganFox]

Marilyn Monroe had Large C to D breast size.

[bersaba]

It's not "biig boobs" that guys like. It's boobs.

Big boobs.

Small boobs.

Naked boobs.

Clothed boobs.

Boobs that are ski jumped shaped.

Boobs that are round.

Boobs that jiggle all over the place.

Cleavage.

Boobs in a corsett.

Boobs with big nipples.

Boobs boobs boobs.

Get the idea?

[thomasons]

Personally, boobs are all about shape. I don't own a subscription to Playboy or any of those p*rn magazines, but from what I've seen, there are girls in the p*rn industry with smaller breasts. I'm not going to go into detail about what I prefer in a girl, but think about it... why are you really judging your body based on Playboy models? Or for that matter, celebrities who usually have massively photoshopped pictures? I'm sure your breasts are just fine, and if you are confident in them, then you will be attractive.

Besides, wouldn't you rather be considered beautiful and elegant rather than the girl that every guy wants to have a one-night stand with? I would never take a girl like that home to my mother, but an elegant and beautiful woman? Heck yes!

Also, as far as muscles go, I work outside 8 hours a day except for on Sundays mowing grass, doing yard work, lifting heavy bags of mulch, moving furniture, pretty much anything that the people I'm working for can't do because they're not strong enough. I'll go home and do pull ups/push ups before I take my shower almost every day. However, with my metabolism and frame, I'm still only 140 pounds and 5'8" tall! What I would give for another 10 pounds and another 4 inches! So actually, it's not all about growing muslces. Even though I'm strong, I will never look buff because of my frame and metabolism.

P.S. Did you say you have wide hips? That probably means you have a butt that many girls would be jealous of (And that many guys would pine after). Be confident with what you have!

[DeepWinter]

not for me I actually perfure a normal boob size if they get to big I find them pointless and they get in the way or there fack an I not a fan of fack boobs

So about a b cup plus or minus a cup depending on the body shape

[CryingBeth]

Honestly its because guys are very shallow :P its kinda like the trophy thing, they love to show others that there girlffriend is slim and chesty..i feel your pain I'm thin but flat chested :(

[Xia90]

Not shallow .... who cares if your flat chested your hot.

[sinful1620]

Well, have you *ever* seen a male sex symbol that didn't have ultradefined chest and ab muscles?

There's a difference between some ideal and realistically preferred. Sure, girls might enjoy a 3" penis, but they'll idealize a bigger and thicker one. This shows itself often when girls can't wait to brag if their new guy has a big d***... it's not out of any realistic pleasure, but more of a trophy.

Guys can be that way with t*ts... realistically anything bigger than a B cup is gonna be the same during sex for anything other than titty f***ing, but if the girl has some 34DD chest it's a trophy for the guy to feel like he's good because of something he's "obtained".

[Asker]

Abs/pecs = GYM. And it's stupid to brag about such inane things, a big d*** can hurt you, it doesn't guarantee an orgasm and it doesn't fit completely inside the mouth. I don't get why DDs are worthy of being "trophies" but smaller cups aren't! That's idiotic! All breasts should be as great, just because some of them are bigger doesn't make them any more special!

[sinful1620]

I think you're misunderstanding my point... young, shallow, immature people care more about bragging about their partner's big d*** or big t*ts that to them, that's more important. They'll laud how their girl has 36DDs or how their guy has a 10" supercock because they think it's like a trophy that they've "won the game". It's something immature, shallow, stupid people do.

[AnonymousDude]

My ideal: b or c cup, perky

not giant

[teardrop06]

From hearing all these posts. It seems like I have not chance with guys. I am a b cup and have no ass but I have curbs. There is always gonna be a girl better than me. This must be the reason why guys never notice me.

[Xia90]

how tall are you?

[rolfen]

Big boobs are fascinating, that's why. Not huge, but big. Don't ask me why... no idea...

(PS: I'm a guy)

[SomebodyToldMeh]

Kudos. Lol. I like the way you decieve. xD Good job.

[moneyman1029]

if people tell you that you are nice, fun and smart, you are better off than the girl with big boobs that gets hit on by douchebags.

and small boobs aren't a turnoff- if I find your personality sexy, (I know this may sounds shallow)

and you're aren't the ugliest piece of sh*t on the planet, then you are sexy.

and you said so yourself, p***s size doesn't matter, breast size doesn't matter much either!

i put it this way, personality is like the cake, and things like breast size, legs etc are like icing on the cake.

i can eat lots of cake, but icing by itself gets bad fast... but icing and cake is awesome!

why do you want to be considered a sex symbol in the first place anyways?

[IWillNotBow76]

The thing with celebs and media is it ruins peoples self confidence. So don't pay too much mind to those sort of things. And I think its because the cleavage. Its a tease really. The plus side of having smaller boobs 1) they won't get super dooper saggy 2) no back trouble! :)

[missmeow]

if your a real freak in the sheets it doesn't matter if you have big boobs or not .tv people are TV people they are fake (really)

i think its all about how sexually charged the person is and the way they look over all . you can have big boobs and still be a boring bimbo .

i proved this theory with a girlfriend of mines that has huge BOOBS, we would go out and I would still have more guys approach me they would comment on what I was wearing or my hair and tell me I looked hot , but I was also way hornier and I get along well with men overall .. and never out of my fair share has anyone ever even dared to complain .. its your face , the way you talk the way you flirt that makes you SEXUAL sex appeal . also being really tall and slim has helped get lots of attention.. lol

its the way you carry your self for real! for real !

[Kerenai]

i think that what is considered "hot" today will change in a couple of years. in greece, the people believed small breasts were beautiful. that's an example that not everyone likes big breasts. don't worry.

[ryanrawrxx]

it is all about that image you see on the TV sterotyping blinds our thorts a bit but I have found if you were brest feed like me you like biger more natrel boobs with most kids were in those days but my mate who was not brestfeed and hie thinks thay get in the way so it all depends on the person and how thay were bought up... so if you can find a person who was not feed from the boob and has not seen a boob on TV then you are in :D

[Asker]

Sorry, but that's kind of dumb. And offensive. So the only way to get a guy to like me is if I find someone who has not seen breasts on TV? Um, so nobody, then?

[broiled]

I've always wondered who decided which women were sexy and which ones weren't. Breast size has never been a determining factor for me. Someone can have a slim figure, large breasts and a rotten attitude, while the small breasted female standing next to her would be more friendly and open. I might glance at the woman with the large breasts, (I'm still breathing, after all), but I'd be more attracted to the small breasted woman.

[Asker]

But that's the thing, what makes you look at the big chest and not the small one? That's what's killing me, what makes it more attractive, or at the very least hard to ignore (unlike small breasts which tend to go unnoticed most of the time).

[broiled]

The big breasts tend to be upfront and right in a mans gaze, while the smaller breasts are quite do noticeable. Then again, every female I've ever dated or even been just friends with has been small breasted.

[ap1100]

Why do you care? And why do you want to be hot? To me, "hot" is a term for guys who are still using the 1-10 rating system on girls. I'd rather have gorgeous, beautiful, pretty, and even cute.

If you want an hourglass figure, wear a padded bra. The only one who will know if your boyfriend and he certainly shouldn't be in that role if he cares.

[What-If]

Because as much as people like to think that they aren't cavemen, we still have the same insticts and urges.

I know that there's a little more to it than that, but I never bothered with the why.

[ilovecaylam]

I personally hate big boobs, I'm an E and that's all lads care about... Lads think I'm ''easy'' or ''a slut'' cause of my t*ts. When I'm talking to a lad he'd be looking at my t*ts not my face, and they tell me I should be in p*rn and ask me to show them my t*ts.. Seriously wtf is up with lads theses days? Iv been with my boyfriend almost 2 years now and lads still look at me as just t*ts! I think lads are just shallow pricks! I had a baby during the summer and I was with my daughter outside for a walk and I heard lads saying ''that was bound to happen the baps on her'' wtf like? I don't think big boobs make you sexier, I think to be sexy you have to have the confidence not the boobs, I feel very unconfident BECAUSE of my boobs I feel really ugly because of them because I always get the impression it's the only thing a guy wants...

[MandMandM]

Kiera and Kate Moss are incredibly beautiful sophisticated hot women.

I've been out with women who were absolutely stunning, who beat themselves up for not conforming to media images. Waste of their time. Being with someone like that is not settling for second best from a guy's point of view, but it can get old eventually if she doesn't realize she is beautiful as she is, and keeps self denigrating and seeking constant reassurance.

Just like girls avoid whiney clingy guys, you can make yourself unattractive by not being self confident.

Your issues boil down to being told what you should look like by others, and not so far saying, thanks for the suggestion, but I'm fine as I am. Relax you'll enjoy life more. What you say about the flexibility you have to change your shape is true. No point fighting it.

> Sadly, no woman wants to be with a guy who doesn't think she's perfect in his eyes

Nonesense. Most women are much more realistic and know that their guys are lucky to be with them, no matter what they look like.

What does perfect mean? It is much more realistic to know we are all flawed, but can all still bring other people a lot of fun. I'd hate to be with someone who didn't say and do daft things from time to time, or who was good at everything, or who thought she was physically perfect, and who didn't have some humour and could laugh about and get over my similar quirks and hers. Even assuming some notion of perfection was attainable, how on earth are you going to cope with the inevitable effects of age?

A girl who superficially looks too "perfect" can actually be a turn off, because you know that the whole appearance is pretty high maintenance. The only cover girl type I ever lived with didn't last long because her twice daily two hour beauty routines, and constant wardrobe/shoe hunting didn't leave much of a day to do anything else with. The "dream" wasn't worth the reality.

> And my ex told me all guys prefer big boobs over small.

He was wrong.

> My legs suck, my butt sucks... my boobs suck... I guess I have a problem with my whole body, not just my boobs... sigh...

You see where following the cult of media is getting you. Reject it. Enjoy yourself. Then others will. Then you'll be happier.

[suavaye]

its all prefrence. me I like a nice C cup B cup is nice too. I just want a handful of everything lol

[JackieTreehorn]

Well, it's different or every single guy. Some like teeny-tiny, some like medium, and some like large. However, I do agree that for the most part the preference is between medium and large. Why? Honestly, I don't know. Back during the renaissance, small breasted women were considered the hottest and most beautiful, while big breasted women were considered disgusting and sloppy. Maybe it's because today a lot of men like the doggy-style position, hence, a lot of men like big, rounds butts. So, big breasts are just big round butts on someone chest, and have nipples, AND are really squishy. That's all I can guess.

[Princess95]

i Do Completely Agree With You People Say That Big Boobs Are Hot and it Really Annoys Me People Who Are Saying Otheriwse Shut Up Because you Know Its True That Lads Say Girls With Big Boobs Are Hot But One Thing I Don't Agree With Is That Keira Knightely Is Actully Pretty Hot But Still =]

[Princess95]

And Kate Hudson =]

[heyheyheygirl]

If you ask any guy, they'll say they like perky boobs. I know most guys don't like big boobs simply because they think it's too much to handle, they're most likely fake if they're on a skinny girl, and because they'll sag in the future.

Most guys like anything from A-C cups that have perky nipples.

Obviously sex symbols are going to have exaggerated features. You also have to consider that now-a-days, nothing is real, most things are airbrushed...

Be proud of your boobs whatever shape/size they are. There's always gonna be a guy that loves them (everyone has different tastes!)

[KERMlT]

I won't lie, I like them round and big

36C to about 42 or 44 DD is great. :D

Oh... on a curvy or chubby woman please. :)

[Tigerlily]

Curious. Where do you get these sizes from? Ie have you looked at previous girlfriends' bras or are you just guessing?

[KERMlT]

I am comfortable talking to them about their bra size. I let them know that their figure is very attractive and there are plenty of guys out there like me who think the same thing. Since you are from the UK Tigerlily, I also know that US sizes and UK sizes are slightly different and I'd refer to a conversion chart. In the UK they don't have DD they just use E.

[Brando]

There's more to a "hot" girl than her boobs. If what you say is true, then wide hips are sexy too. As long as a guy gets to see your boobs at some point, then he's fine :)

[justjohn]

It's a matter of preference, an personally, I prefer smaller breasts!

[IHateMeganFox]

UGHHHHHH! These questions are starting to bug me! Not all guys think big boobs are hot, a lot do but not all. And I agree with evangelina this pitty party thing is getting old.

You will find a guy who likes your boobs so please please please stop complaining.

[GuyAdviceFromGuy]

I'm more of an ass and legs guy, I think I speak for a lot of men on this

[GuyAdviceFromGuy]

Provided her boobs were of medium size and medium areola, I can't stand pepperoni nipples

[Cartiphilus]

I think this little sweetie is near perfect. I love her thunder thighs.

[DoctorSex]

big boobs...small boobs...woteva, these things don't mean anything to our consious mind...its years of social programming that has tricked our subcobsious into telling us that big boobs that defy gravity are for some reason the ideal size.

when in reality their isn't much you cabn do with big breasts that you can't do with average B-C cups...apart from certain sexual acts lol

hence why I'm a butt man...cushin for the pushin ;-)

[assembledtoy]

I don't even know why, it seems stupid. I think when they're too big it's a turn off though.

[imaboy]

I disagree. In terms of visual stimulation or sexual pleasure a large penis is very important while large breasts are of little importance if not irrelevant. Most men prefer C, twice as many prefer D than B and few want larger or smaller. Most women are C cup. Men on the other hand, if I'm not mistaken, are smaller than what would feel best.

Any size is fine although when there are back problems its time to look for a solution. Surgery for anything should only be done when necessary for health reasons and I would never have a any kind of operation for cosmetic reasons if they had any risks involved.

I like athletic girls with a or b when they can run fast,

[Asker]

You know, a large penis isn't important, I think only ignorant women think so. I mean, only the first third or so of the vagina is sensitive, the rest is kind of numb (it's better that way, imagine how much it'd hurt to have kids if the whole thing was sensitive). That means that only about 3 inches of the vagina are sensitive, and nothing else. The first three inches. That's it. I think most guys are bigger than 3 in.