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Has anyone else got over depression from circumcision?

I was cut a s baby but only recently realized how awful it is and how much pleasure I will lose in any future sex ill have (still have my V card btw)...i have an inferiority complex because any woman I sleep with will be intact and feel more pleasure than me...i can't stand that feeling...has anyone else been able to cope with this? I hate my body and feel like id be better off dead whenever I think about my mutilated manhood.
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  • People here are real assholes, especially women. Fuck you and I hope you all get cut and lose something of your body. You sociopathic sick fucks.

    What you are feeling is normal. I can relate to some degree. But You probably shouldn't post this on the internet becasue women will feel that you are bringing their double standard in gender mutilation in front of them. Rather than be compassionate try to help you. So they will get defensive and butthurt and this will only drive them to mutilate their children to compensate for the offense they read on the internet.

    However. Remember that it's not women who are mainly responsible for circumcision. It's mostly jews keeping it legal and doctors voluntry misleading them to earn money from the procedure.

    Just remember that you can always orgasm in the sex while women can't. When you have sex try to finish fast so they won't get the chance to orgasm. That way you are in an advantage because you got off and she didn't.

    Also remeber that women have periods and endure childbirth while you don't. Buy manhood or senslips fake foreskin and use it for a month and you'll get back a lot of the sensation of an uncut man. That coupled with not stimulating you partner during sex and finishing fast will get you the advantage of the ex. Since she will be left with no pleasure and you'll get like 70 percent of the normal male pleasure.

    You don't have any mental problems and need no help. I don't recomment seeking help from any professional, it's just a little depression However all the people here do because they are clearly sociopaths and are assholes. Don't worry they all will get divorced, kicked out of their jobs and live miserable lives.

    Remember that women don't really care about you or your problems. Only seek help from guys who are your friends. And always seek sex only and hook ups. Insert fast Orgasm fast and leave fast. you will be superior in sex.

    Believe me. It'll work. And your parents didn't mean to do it. They were misled by doctors and culture to think it is better. If your mom apologised for the mistake. Don't be mad at her.

    I don't need any replies from anyone except OP. This is my advice to him and you are not welcome to comment.

  • This is such an interesting topic, especially since so many people ply their arguments with such dangerously outdated notions (I wonder if these people would endorse trepanning for such frivolous reasons?) and should concede that it's cultural bias that enforces such superfluous practices.

    I remember this girl who declined to sleep with me at the very last second because she saw I was uncircumcised, but she was willing to wait for me to have the surgery (as you do) and then have sex once I healed. I simply broke out in laughter and told her that she could take the couch or a taxi home, but the foreskin is staying.

    Thank goodness I've never had to move to the US.

    • yea f*** America...i hate this country and the the abrahamic faiths that demand gnetial mutilation...

    • Then move out of our country damn. Don't hate America for something that gets done in other parts of the world too.

    • i hate all of it.

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  • You cannot really say these things when you haven't experienced sex.

    Circumcised or uncircumcised, there is a whole world of pleasure before you.

    It sounds like you read up on a lot of information,

    and other peoples experiences which caused you to form these opinions.

    I like to say,

    To each their own.

    Everyone feels differently about the topic of circumcision.

    There are guys that are uncircumcised that wish they were.

    There are guys that are circumcised that wish they were not.

    Everyone is different.

    No matter the topic in life there will always be people on the opposite end

    hoping for something different.

    Your perspective would only count if you were to experience sex.

    Right now you have an opinion, which holds no truth behind it because

    you haven't yet had any experience.

    • but I KNOW that I'm missing nerve endings, etc..its a fact...and I know I'm desentiized because there are ways to tell..an uncut guy can reach orgams by storking only the head of his penis with his thumb with no lubrication...i can't do that...most cut guys cant..its tell tale sign of the damage...i don't need to have intercourse to feel the damage.

  • It seems like the real problem for you is feeling inferior to the woman in the bedroom. Really? That's a whole other psychological problem. You're mad because you think she get's more pleasue than you? You're mad because your mom thought she was saving you from germs and diseases? Grow up.

    You're mad because you have deep psycholocigal issus, not because you lost your foreskin. Most men without it are just fine btw..in fact I prefer it. If cutting off my clit was to maximize cleanliness, then so be it. I would not be so angry and depressed.

    Of course without a clit I would feel about as minimal pleasure possible...while a man without foreskin can still get off in like 2 minutes.

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    • its easy for you to say that because your a woman and no one is allowed to cut up your genitals...if you knew you were robbed of sexual pelasure and all boys were prtected and respected how would you feel? and by the way it doesn't maximize cleanliness any more than cutting off your toes would prevent athletes foot...its stupid...we shower regualrly these days and NOT ONE SINGLE medical assocaition recommends circumcision any longer... and getting off and plesre aren't the same thing at all.

    • You were not robbed of sexual pleasure. End of story.

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  • I've taken anatomy classes and I can say that you will be more sensitive not having a foreskin typically than a man who does still have his foreskin. I don't get why its such an issue though since its not a huge difference in pleasure and what makes sex pleasurable is both people enjoying each others' bodies. If you're too concerned about the sensation your penis is getting and not about that fact you are with someone that you find amazing and love, then the sex will suck no matter what.

    • thats jsut not true...the gland become dried out over years and years of exposure because they are suppsoed to be protected...and the foreskin contains THOUSANDS of nerve endings that are lost...im not sure how many but I think its ever more than is in the rest of the penis...and I care aobut loved but being unequal in bedroom...cant do it...itll never work.

    • He hates that you are smarter than him. I was "cut" and I am happy with sensation, cleanliness and looks of it

    • that fine for you but I'm out...and she's not smarter...like I said NOT ONE SINGLE medical assocaitions reccommends cirucmcison...and many European courts are considering banning it.

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  • Yea man, sucks to be you. As an uncut man, I'm having the time of my life, and the women bow to me in all my superiority. Also, I find black women to be the most pleasurable for my large, uncut jackhammer to work on as they erupt in glass-shattering orgasm after glass-shattering orgasm.

    If you want I can write weekly essays for you so you know what it's like to be a man with a manly appendage.

    What's your email address?

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    • Why don't you go tell some girls who hads her clit clisce dup how worthless she is...ud get a really kick out of that you sick f***.

    • Hahahahahaha! You're officially a troll. I'm not paying your bridge toll, Mr. Troll so quit your barking and crawl back under your rock so you can reunite with the rest of your species.

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  • You should actually be glad your circumcised. Studies actualy show you feel more pleasure when circumcised. And you don't have to clean out the under part of the excess skin. And again don't worry about not feeling the pleasure I'm circumcised and get plenty of pleasure out of sex.

    • what studies? most studies are either inconclusive or show that circ men feel much less pleasure...its obvious to me...an uncut guy can reach orgasm by simply sytroking his head with his thumb wiuthotu any lubrication...cut guys can't do that...or at least I cant.

    • Studies I seen on a medical show. And yeah it may be easier to masturbate uncircumcised but when it comes to sex being circumcised you get more feel ot of it because that exess skin doesn't get in the way of feeling a woman. Plus guys that are uncircumcised get problems with their d*** because it's harder to keeap underneath the uncircumcised skin unless you take a good amount of time cleaning it. I know that cause I knew some uncircumcised guys who said that and that they wanted to get circumci

    • And reading all the complaining you do to people telling you it's OK to be uncircumcised... Stop complaining go grt laid and find out for yourself. It's not the end of the world cause you are missing a skin flap. And more girls I've talked to like circumcised better because the head gives them more pleasure than some strait weird looking d***. And like I said its cleaner not having the damn flap.

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  • Stop asking this and get over it

    Seriously, if lack of pleasure were a problem guys wouldn't be known as horn dogs.

    I can tell it's the same person asking this by your spelling

    • it has ntohign to do wtih desire..all guys want sex...even if they were mising their entire glans they be "horn dogs" its about being equal...and I am not...i live in society that doesn't rpotect young boys nad screwed me over and frnakly it makes me more than P***** when women like yourself think you are in any position tell me to "get over it" you wouldn't aska and fgm viticm to "get over it"...it is the same in principle..ur a liar if you deny that.

    • get over it

    • im a circumcised male telling you to get over it your life will be better for you and every one if you do...you need medication

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  • oh god, not you again

    • HAHAHAHAHA really? you are so stupid, that honestly made me laugh so hard. Racial slurs don't offend me you moron, I'm not uneducated nor am I ignorant, you've proven yourself to be the fool several times over and somehow that makes me a n*****? hahahha oh god that really made my day, and you know what I think I will go f*** myself, and I will use my fully intact and functional clitoris to have LOTS AND LOTS of orgasms, and they will feel so good, oops I guess you wouldn't know about that

    • so then you admit I'm right?

    • I admit nothing, f*** off and die

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  • feel more pleasure than me"

    Is the issue really that she would feel MORE pleasure than you?

    Maybe a way for you to get over this would be to realize the pleasure in giving pleasure to another person. Life is not always about what you can get, but what you can give.

    • she is intact...im not...and that's total bs...i want to be equal I don't wanna be pitied or less...i resent women for protecting themselves and not their sons...i hope my mom rots in hell

    • She is a woman you are a man. There is differences. This is just another different thing about you two. I would not pitty someone for that and being less or not is only in your own mind. Your value as a human being is not placed in that location. If your mother knew this would affects you in this way she would probably not do it. Sadly this type of thing is natural in some cultures.

    • her genitals are intact..mine are not...and yes much of my value is down there...thats my manhood and what I use to mainatin relaitonship that will lead to family and children but that is taken from me by a derranged doctor and the **** who gave birth to me who doesn't deserve to be called a mother.

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  • Pal that circumcision is the least of your problems! Without stopping or passing go you need to see a head doctor, tell him that as a young child you must have been dropped on your head, because you think a circumcision has a large influence on your sexual abilities to have and enjoy sex. Not sure it is possible to revive dead brain cells but that seems to be your best option!

    • Thank you... This guys annoying

  • OMG you poor baby..

    You should sue your parents and the doctor and the hospital...

    • its not illegal and that won't regrow my forsekin...ive started doing restoration but that just repalcing the covering..doesn't fix everything...idk knwo why I'm doing it...i don't think ill ever be able to feel normal enough to have any relationship...

    • To me, a guy having a foreskin, is a deal breaker... His pants come off, and he's "wearing" a hood... I'm done... goodbye...

    • well that fine...u perfer mutilated boys...how nice...how would you like it if guys had a perefernce for you not having a clitoral hood? your brainwashed because of the society you live in...this flithy judeo-christian cesspool.

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  • I got circumcised last year.

    I found sex and blowjobs more enjoyable, masturbation without lube less so. With lube ... maybe better now.

    Hard to say how it might have been for you, but take that for what its worth.

    • why the hell would you cut aprt of your penis off?

  • I can relate, only because I'm very happy I still have mine.

    There's an excellent Penn and Teller: Bullsh*t on this topic.

    https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=vLGcqPE7xu0

    • yup...dont care though...sh*t doesn't help me now.

    • Interesting.

  • like all insecurities everybody thinks each others are just plain stupid(small d***, height, boob size, thigh gap, shyness)

    even though we can't help feeling that way

    pointing out the obvious like 'some girls prefer it'

    'sex feels just the same' aren't going to matter to you no matter how much people say it

    go see a therapist as most insecurities are mainly psychological

    • no, this isn't minor...id rather have a smaller penis and still have all the feeling.

    • to you it's 'major' and the rest couldn't really care also your assuming all people feel the same amount of sensation when that's not true people can be more sensitive than others(cut/uncut) and experience different types of orgasms You're quite reductionist as I assume you're not the most clever or athletic person there is, but you have no problem disregarding those even though those traits are beneficial and desirable

    • my point was that people have different insecurities and we don't understand each others of course you'd prefer a smaller d*** with a foreskin while I might prefer a larger one and remove my foreskin

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  • from a circumcised guy who has gotten some action...stop mopeing...women most women do not give a flip if your penis has a little extra or les skin on it 9 out of 10 times you are gonna come before the woman does any ways unless you know how to get her going...so stop being a baby...take that complex and thow it away...im circumcised and I can feel everything...what women don't like are mopy people who are total downers if she is turnd off by anything its not supposed to be your penis...if she was it was your attitude.

    • its not about climzing first (Which is atually a bad thing...less time less pelasure) its about sensation and feeling. and no..u can't fele everything...u lost thoussand of nerve endings you will never get back and like it or not.. a cut man gets more pleasure than you.

    • dude you need to take a chill pill I'm perfectly happy with my junk something you aparently aren't and secondly I don't care what you think about pleasure your so down on your self you don't know .. an also you can't tell me how my body feels...i or any of the girls I've been with sent sensation around all of my equiptment . and also I never said it was about climaxing first what I'm saying is if your parts are working stop bitching if they cut your whole pecker off then id worry...u really need to stop worring.

    • they aren't working fine..thats an illusion,..the years of karantiinzaiton ahve made iut so I don't get an sensation out of my head.

  • I'm playing the world tiniest violin in commemoration of you plight. Grow up, dude, and tear down the shrine to your lost foreskin. I don't have a foreskin either and I couldn't care less.

  • 9-11 we need a whaabulance, someone won't stop b****ing

    • Lol you said it

    • It ain't my fault I say what's on my mind

  • More than half of American men ( link ), all Muslim and all Jewish men were circumcised and enjoy sex. You too are able to enjoy it. If you don't enjoy it, the reason is between your ears, rather than between your legs. You've been reading too much anti circumcision sites. (they're financed by the aesthetic surgery industry which is searching desperate uys to sell them foreskin recontructions. Just business thus)

    The IDEA you have is much worse than the actual fact (ask any other circumcised guy if he enjoys sex):

    #-"i have an inferirotiy complex ",

    #-"i can't stand that feeling."

    #-"" I hate my body"

    #-"feel like id be better off dead whenever I thik about my mutilated manhood."

    You could try psychotherapy.

    • finely someone brought up all the anti circumcision ranters on those sights how do we know this guy is not one of them just trying to shame people into feeling bad if they decided to have this done to their children.

    • they don't know the difference...they enjoy it but they are inferior to women (except Muslims in soem countries where they cut girls...now if I was cut and girls were too it would be a different situation)

  • I'm an intactivist but most of them are LIARS, I still have my foreskin and it is not erogenous AT ALL, it's all about the glans getting less sensitive.

  • Wow the answers here are horrendous.

    Do the people advocating circumcision approve of female genital mutilation?

    Would it be ok to remove the clitoral hood... on an infant.. no, not it's abhorrent.. So why are we doing this to boys?

    I don't know if we'll ever be able to get over it, but all these people trying to invalidate your feelings are despicable.

    We can't change it though so we do have to accept who we are in the end

  • I just had the procedure done within the last 3 weeks and it feels so unbearable to walk.
    I find it hard to get in and out of bed, get in and out of the car, walking up and down stairs, walking normally and anything that a normal person can do.
    Even still using bandages, pad and a gauze still causes lots of friction.
    The only reason I got it was of phimosis and then I got referred to see a specialist plus my wife got me to have the operation or else she did not want to stay together with me.

  • its just something you have to forget about basically. it does remove around 20,000 nerves which is a ton. Just make sure you never do it to your kid

    • uim never gonna ahve a kid...i can't have sex with some bitch whos superior to me...not gonna work...ur advice was a waste of time.

    • clearly you have problems

    • yes I do..someone cut up my penis when I was young that's my problem

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  • men can still enjoy sex a lot without a foreskin... women don't get the most pleasure... I can't even orgasm having sex, I never have... and even if I masturabte I don't always orgasm.

    • but when you do you prolyl fele more than a guy...and plus pelasure means more than orgasming what about everything up to that?

    • well my vagina isn't very sensitive and sex can be boring to me.

    • it gotta be better fof you than guys newayz though..u still have ever nerve ednings and all of your equipment women have more nerve edngins to begin with so I gurantee you feel a lot more than guys.

  • How can you talk about your mother like that. Go check into looney town. Cause you obviously need serious help.

    • welll lets see...she had part of my penis cut off and ruined my life..i can't marry or be equal to any woman and that's all I wanted out of life...she deserves worse than what I said about her. I hope she burns in hell if there is one.

    • yeah blame your mother for your misery. I mean she only carried you for 9 months. Changed your diapers, feed you, took care of you, took you to school...

    • and then she cut off my penis and ruined any hance to ahve a good sex life and made me inferior to all women...i wish she would have aborted me...i wish I was dead now.

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