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He is uncircumcised and it really bothers me - I think it is really gross!

I have been with this guy for about 4 months I really like him but just found out he is uncircumcised I just think I would never f*** and defiantly never blow a guy who wasn't circumcised I've never been with a guy who wasn't. I just think it looks weird and is f***ing gross. Its a bit unsanitary and I don't like it. I was talking to all my girlfriend and they told me I should break up with him cause its nasty but I like him I just don't like that he is uncircumcised.
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Hahaha I love how all the insecure uncurcumcised douchebags are getting upset because of my personal preference. Many women actually more like 75% of women rather they admit it or not hate uncircumcised men its just as simple as that.
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  • I don't think you should ever go outside the U.S for a boyfreind because it may come as a shock to you to find but only 30% of men globally actually are circumcised of which 68% are muslim. Outside of the u.s its the norm to not have your penis cut and in many countries is considered a violation of basic human rights to do so without permission. The skin around a penis was created to be there for a reason because it was meant to be there, by it being removed there is an increased risk in erectile dysfunction and is that trally worth it? it is not unsanitary by any means, I'm not cut down there and mine has never smelled in the slightest or been dirty because I clean myself. a guy that was cut and didn't clean himself would smell being cut or not wouldn't make a difference. they also don't all look the same too, not all cover the head of a penis so that faults the generalisation you have there. by the skin not being there it also damages nerves so it wouldn't feel as good and the skin is there to act as a form of lubrication under the skin to make it comfertable. how would you feel if a guy was disgusted by the way your clit was because it wasn't cut?

    If that is all you really care about with your boyfreind than you should dump him, you shouldn't be having sex if it matters that much you surely can't care about him that much

    i really reccommend that you go to this site to gain some knowledge on circumcision, see what its like for yourself link

    • I'm from Canada and currently live in the states and those are the two countries in which most men are circumsiced those are also the only places I've lived and will ever live. So I'm not worried

    • Ok I guess its your choice, but I really don't understand where this idea of natural penises being dirty comes from in the u.s.you might as well dump your boyfreind though since your time togetehr meant nothing because his penis isn't mutilated https://4.bp.blogspot.com/_BfflSH3V_ck/RwjwuwteGnI/AAAAAAAAAkU/FdklaczUito/s1600/map-mgm66LARGE.gif

  • I think there's a lot of confusion on your part. Having an opinion is one thing, but why ask a question if you don't want to hear what anyone has to say?

    I'm uncircumcised, and honestly I've been insecure about it because girls like you. I clean my genitals extremely well, the same way you would your own. There's no way I'd call it unsanitary, though it could be if someone let it from neglecting a good wash. As for it looking weird; in other parts of the world, women would think a circumcised penis looks weird without its foreskin. There's nothing wrong with not being used to how something looks because you aren't familier with it, but don't insult it. Men are born intact, with a foreskin. Calling it "uncircumcised" gives context of the expectation we have here in the USA, and it's sad.

    If you don't want to have an open mindset about it, then I say just dump your boyfriend. Also, the things your friends say might not be true, but the answers are there if you want to learn. Google it.

    • Oh, just to add, my I was my Ex's first uncircumcised partner. She was absolutely obsessed with it. It was almost a daily thing that she would ASK me if she could give me a BJ; she knew it was something to appreciate. That's only thing I miss about her, now. <3

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  • You can't really like him all too much if your thinking about breaking up with him because he isn't circumcized. And sex doesn't have to happen, not all relationships should be about that. And blow jobs, you don't have to do them.

    I know its your own person opinion the uncircumcized is nasty and all that but its not unsanintary if the guy knows how to take care of himself. Its perfectly normal to not be circumcized and actually more guys are uncirmcized then not.

    I really think if you do like this guy his penis shouldn't matter. I've been with circumcized and uncircumcuzed guys and so far uncircumcize is the better. But obviously for you you won't realize that this guy can be good because you think his d*** is gross.

  • I understand you I myself prefer circumcised men and it is very unsanitary but since you really like him this is a difficult dissension. I would probably agree with your friends and him being uncircumcised obviously really bothers you and I know how you feel it would bother me as well but its not like you can ask him to get it circumcised and plus you are really young there are plenty guys out there. Since he doesn't satisfy you maybe it will be best for you to break up. Like you said you would never f*** or blow a guy who was uncircumcised and that would put a whole in the relationship already so maybe you should call it quits.

    • If it's unsanitary why is it the norm to be uncircumcised around the world?

    • What I don't understand is why people are attacking her? its her opinion/preference... she can't have one?

    • @cyrus7 Probably because she stated her opinion/preference in an unsavory way. Dirtbag guy: Women with small breasts are F***ing gross. It's like dating a boy with a vagina. I'd never F*** or date a woman with small breasts. Normal guy: I prefer women with larger breasts.

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  • I just don't get why people are bashing you for your own personal preference. If it honestly bothers you and you just can't get over it, than break up with him. I personally think if you really like and care about a guy, then breaking up with him over his d*ck is harsh and a little immature. Your feelings for him shouldn't be affected by the fact if he's cut or not. I prefer a circumcised guy too, but I wouldn't break up with someone over it. Having said that, if you seriously just can't get over it and you can't even like touch it, then break up with him but that clearly just shows that you don't have any true feelings for him.

    • I couldn't agree anymore!!!

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  • You're too immature to be having sex.

    It's been proven,there is nothing unsanitary about being uncircumcised

    • I just don't like it it is my preference. That does not make me to immature many women don't like it. I'm deffiniteley not alone on this one.

    • Then break up with him genius.If it's such a problem,break up with him

    • You are a damn it just Stfu she can have a preference and an opinion

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  • As long as he uses proper hygiene it really isn't unsanitary. It's natural, so there's no real reason to think of it as weird or gross. It's only your mindset because circumcision has become the norm. You should try to be more open minded about it. If you can't, you'll simply be forced to make the decision of whether or not to stay with him- no one else can tell you what to do.

  • How is it gross? It's just a natural penis, the way a penis should be. No offense, but you seem a little too immature to even be having sex if you're seriously going to break up with him just because he's uncircumcised. That's pretty b*tchy. You really must not care about him. I feel sorry for the poor guy.

    • Haha wow, I love how people are down rating me just for telling the truth.

    • Haha. I know right. People are so insecure for speaking the truth here.

    • Imagine if a guy said he wanted to break up with a girl cause of her nasty beef curtain labia. The bashing would be insane against the guy.

  • If he's not going to get a circumcision for you--and it's a LOT to ask--you'll either have to dump him, or deal.

  • This is one of the most ridiculous posts I have ever seen on this website. Your a pretty Shallow Bitch. First of all its not unsanitary. And the reason you think its "weird" because you have been brought up to think so. I seriously hope this guy dumps you he deserves a lot better than you.

  • would you cut off your inner lips because a guy likes innies? yeah, i thought not...

  • It is not like he chose to be uncircumcised.

  • To be honest... uncircumcised just doesn't look as good as an a sircumsised one does... in the end... it's still a dick lol

  • thats messed up, you shudnt judge a guy based on that, but its your preference so break up with him I guess ?

  • Op is stupid

  • Not all uncircumcised d***s are the same, the ones you are thinking about are nasty ass guys who don't know how to wash themselves. I'm uncut and I love it, I wash, it's clean, it doesn't smell or look bad. I can pull it all the way back so it looks like it's circumcised. But to break up with him over that is pretty messed up. And if you never even seen it you should wait till you do and then come back.

  • I understand that girls may prefer cut. But to just flat out call uncut guys disgusting is a HUGE confidence destroyer to guys. My brother is uncircumcised and he is extremely self-conscious about it. I just recently learned to get over it, although posts like these still make me feel bad. I mean who wouldn't feel bad when girls just say that it's the most repulsive thing in the world. It's especially harmful to the younger guys growing up. Just like how people claim no one should comment about girls being fat, ugly, etc because it can seriously damage their self-esteem, the same goes for guys.
    The "insecure douchebags" are insecure because most girls just talk shit about them. If most of the population commented on how fat you were, I'm pretty sure you'd be insecure, too.

    I'm not saying you can't have a preference. I'm just saying to please watch your words because the world doesn't need anymore self-conscious people.

  • This is probably years after your post but... if he broke up with you because your labia looked weird, you'd probably be pretty hurt. You can have a preference but you shouldn't be getting involved with sex until you can handle the human body with more maturity. Plus, at least 100,000 years worth of vaginas that led to your birth had penises in them that looked like his.

  • Yeah all you insecure guys really need to stop leaving all these nasty comments . She's right 75% of women do not like uncircumcised men rather they admit it or not and she happens to be one of them. I myself do not like Uncircumcised men. This is just her preference OK you can't get made at her its just what she likes. She is asking for advice and all you douche bags can do is get all upset because you are uncut. Lots and lots of women do not like uncircumcised men just deal

    • I can deal with that...

  • It's actually a fact that uncircumcised penises are just as hygienic as circumcised penises. So that may provide you some comfort. From what it sounds like to me, it seems like you are extremely shallow. If he's a nice person, and sex isn't all you care about, stay with him. You sound incredibly immature from your closed minded opinion, to your immense need to swear and obvious spelling mistakes- should someone as emotionally and mentally immature as you even be having sex? It's also proven that circumcised penises feel less pleasure when having sex. So you are providing much more pleasure to the guy your currently seeing over any of the men you've previously been with, I don't think that matters to you though, since you seem incredibly selfish.

  • Wow, I respect your opinion, you have all the right in th world to feel the way you do, but you are being really rude about it. No wonder uncircumcised guys are taking offense to this. Also, if a guy cleans himself well it's not unsanitary, and I think you would be surprised by how many women don't really care either way.

  • I just want to add its even been proven that uncircumcised males don't "last" as long as circumcised males. Uncircumcised is more sensetive than circumsied which make them more prone. ( been proven )

    • I can last as long as I want and I'm circumcised

  • Way to be shallow. If you have a huge inner labia, is he going to break up with you for it? No. Because that is stupid to throw something away over subtle things.

  • I am not going to say anything nasty - like the majority of people have. But you can't change the fact that he's uncircumcised. You are going to have to accept it. Ask yourself if you really love him? As I don't think you would have the guts to break up with someone just because of that :)

  • Get over it. You shouldn't love a guy just for his cock. If you can't see past that, then he shouldn't have to be with a bitch like you.

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