Heck no, most guys don't believe what your boyfriend does, certainly not me. So what do you call it if the girl touches HIM and letting her do that? It immediately changes to his touching her too. You're right! Kissing isn't as far advanced towards cheating as getting a blowjob. It seems like anyone would realize that . Well you just let a guy go down on you and tell him and watch his reaction. lol! He'll probably go through the roof. It's easy to talk but the reality is much different. You are definitely NOT unreasonable so please don't change you position on this. Maybe he's blowjob crazy and is preparing you for what he's saying is ok/ Ask him where he gets his silly notions from. Like how is a girl suppose to give him a blowjob or you let another guy to go down on you without you touching him? That'd be the most delicate maneuver in the world. About like what a brain surgeon has to be able to do. Just don't try to convince him and cause a dispute in your relationship. Just tell him if that ever happens he's out the door! haha!
1 2 0 0I agree with you. I think that would be wrong and can't understand cheating. If you want to be with someone, then why cheat?
Having fun conversations, and jokingly flirting is one thing. A drunken kiss is maybe a mistake. Being intimate is wrong, especially if willingly.
Could you help me on mine pls? It's similar and not sure what or why this female friend is doing these things? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1589447-why-is-this-female-friend-behaving-like-this-please-help-can-you0 0 0 0
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Well, I know a lot about guys, and I understand what he believes to be correct (BUT ISN'T!). Men often make a strict line between sexual components and emotional ones. Some more so - like your boyfriend, and some, more sensible guys less so. Your guy believes that if he gets this from a girl, for whom he doesn't feel anything it will automatically mean nothing since no emotions were involved in this, but on the other hand dancing and kissing contain a bundle of deep emotions which should not be shared with anyone else but the one you love.
That's about it.0 0 0 0He is just saying that so if another girl gives him a BJ and you ask if he cheated on you he can say no with a clear conscience because he already told you its not cheating to him. I would tell him that if someone gives YOU oral sex it isn't cheating then since you aren't touching them (even though their mouth is touching you goodies). Who even thinks like that? I would dump somebody who can lived in such a warped reality.
0 0 0 0your boyfriend is in the wrong if he thinks a bj is not cheating it is cheating for sure and dancing he thinks that is cheating it isn't unless you get sexually aroused by the person you are dancing with and get carried away and start having sex on the dance floor and it sounds like he would be mad though if a guy kissed you that is intimate but so is giving and receiving a bj or getting eaten out
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5 12ewwww - he's WAY wrong. No you were not unreasonable. You are absolutely correct.
0 0 0 0This is stupid. He's way wrong.
0 0 0 0. . . I don't think dancing is cheating unless it is dirty dancing. I peck is fine for you gay best friend (opposite sex) or jokingly with a almost any close friend. But there is no situation I can think of where a bj is not cheating. The majority of people, as far as I know, agree with you.
0 0 0 0I agree with her as well!
He was just talking drunk, don't think too much of it.
0 0 1 1A Blow Job = CHEATING!Trust he is only setting things up,so if it happens to him or if it already happened,then everything will be fine.
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