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He wants to sleep with me badly and I don't know what to do.
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i met this man at work, he doesn't work with me any more now, he is 6 years older, married with 2 kids. I have always talked to him as a colleague and nothing else, I never even thought about it when he stayed long after working hours to download a movie with me, or when he asked to go out for dinner with me, I thought it was completely casual and friendly. until we went out for dinner for the first time, we both had few drinks, and as he said goodbye, he hugged me soo tight, and when I went home, he kept texting me all night wanting to come over to give me another hug as he said, but I was actually falling asleep, so nothing happened. second time we went out we again had few drinks, and this time we made out in his car, and it was extremely exciting that it was very hard to stop on the right moment, but I was strong enough to stop him, and I did. we haven't had sex, but the memory of that intimate moment is still alive in our heads, he calls me every single night, and he said that he thinks about this moment every single day, he actually said, I love my wife, and I wouldn't leave her, but I am dying to sleep with you because I have never been that excited in my whole life. i think the guy is a bastard, but he is right, the moment was so great to be forgotten, and I am afraid that I will be weak one day and sleep with him. what can I do, and what does he want from me?
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What Girls & Guys Said
20 25F*** LEAVE HIM ALONE. HE IS MARRIED!
He wants sex.
He is using you and if you give into him he is going to use you and discard you like a used rag.
Don't do that to yourself.
He just wants an adventure... do you want one too... he will do it till it is too risky and hopefully you and him will write it off as fun... that is what you need to consider
That's not right. Think about his wife, and kids. That's not right at all. He's just in the mood for some sex, with someone younger and more supple than his wife who clearly isn't giving him anything. For obvious reason I'm hoping. He's just in it for the excitement, and the sex. Not a relationship. Get out now while you still have control over the situation. Think about everything you could potentially mess up for more than just him.
If he's married...then no do not sleep with him.
He's obviously a cheater. If you sleep with him, he still won't be with you. He'll simply use you to for his sexual thrill because apparently his wife is probably not satisfying him.
So I'll give you an answer and afew hints.
Do NOTsleep with him.
Avoid situations were it would be you and him alone as you might feel weak and give in to him, if you have any desires for him that is.
Try not to text him back, especially at night.
Or you can simply talk to him and tell him that you're not interested. Hopefully he'll leave you alone.
SEx, Sex and more sex!
what happens after you two sleep together?
don't be a home-wrecker. put yourself in his wife's shoes.
Keep going out with him and get a few drinks in you, then fuk his brains out. Why would him being married or having 2 little kids matter? Maybe you will work your way up to homewrecker status! Maybe you should tell his wife and ask her permission first. He wants you to be his come slave basically. Maybe his wife will be glad to be rid of him! Are you really this naive? I need to find more girls with your mentality quick! What will you do when you have his baby in your belly? Don't expect him to give you the time of day then! Maybe you will be lucky enough to go on the Montel Williams show, or even Jerry Springer!
Please I refuse to by this bs. All women love jerks,a**holes,douchebags etc.
I think he just wants sex and that's it! I would just avoid him if I were you!
dont do it just leave him alone remember there is always a consequence to your action, what's in the dark will eventually come to the light and when it does you don't want to be caught up in that save your self the head ache
dont sleep with another womans husband she will never forgive you plus it could cause a divorce and it was real hard when my parents got divorced so think about there children plus if he is doing this to you don't you think that there are at least a handfulll of women that he has persuaded I mean the guy is maried for peat sake so I think its a moral issue so ask yourself if you realy want to cause pain and regret
He is married. Tell him no and say that his wife can try harder and get him that excited.
He has already told you what he wants. Weren't you paying attention to what you were typing. He said, and I quote you, "I love my wife, and I wouldn't leave her, but I am dying to sleep with you because I have never been that excited in my whole life." Don't ask me why he wants this moment with you, it's not because of the kiss, it goes back further than that. But just realize that he's made up his mind, he just wants to have sex with you (MIND BLOWING OR NOT), no strings attached, and when he either gets caught or is over that sexual drive he will leave you alone.
But, although he already knows what he wants and has basically asked you for that. He is still awaiting your answer. I'm saying it's up to you. Their isn't a right or wrong answer, if you say no, it goes back to him. If you say yes, it ALL goes back to him.
Fuck him...f*** him good!...cause you know you want to! ;)
He wants to use your body for his own personal sex toy. He is a bastard. Get mad at him for treating you as no more than a human blow-up doll and then I am sure your hot desire for him will fizzle out. Trust me, he does not see you as a person, just an object he can f**k.
just go f*** him who cares
I think you should do it because you want to and eventually you will so get over with him. Beside it will give you much pleasure
You must sleep with a lot of married men
Yes!!!!!!! and?
sex no stings attached...