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Heels in the bedroom, yes or no?

So, My boyfriend and I are both very sexually open with each other, we've done pretty much everything there is to do. Somehow I've never managed to bring heels into the bedroom. I'm a relatively tall girl, 5'8", and my boyfriends about 5'10". If wear my 5 inch heels do you think I'll make him feel short? I don't think he's insecure about his height at all, after all he isn't short, but I'm just wondering. I will be laying down for most of it so I don't think it'll matter height wise all to much. But what about when I am standing, do you think it'll be an obstacle? I have these thigh high stockings and booty shorts I've been dying to show him on with my heels. Also, how sexy do men think heels are? Are they a pain during sex?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Do it! Heels are sexy, and if they are perhaps a big cumbersome to wear to bed ALL the time, I don't think many men would kick you out for wearing them during sex. Especially not when you're wearing thigh-high stockings, too!

    As you said, you won't be standing up most of the time, and as long as you don't kick him in the face or the groin, I can't see how they'd be a pain. I imagine you both will find it very sexy.

    Plus, playing with height differences can be fun during sex ... it might let you try angles or positions you're not normally able to. And if for some reason the shoes aren't working, you can always take them off. But I don't think you will!

  • Absolutely wear them. I'm sure he'll get a kick out of the new experience, even if it's not something he'll want all the time.

    I'm the type of guy who normally likes my girl completely naked, but even still, it's fun when she dresses up sometimes and we keep some of the clothes on her.

    And heels can be used as handles, by him or by you, to hold your legs back or spread them wide or whatever, and that can kind of be fun too. And they're great for bending a girl over and banging her from behind. I'm sure you'll figure out some fun ways to incorporate them into your bedroom activities.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Absolutely! Everytime I have sex, I wear heels! Everytime. Some guys already had a thing for it and if they didnt, they did after they were with me! i LOVE it!!

  • do it... guys like that... well in my experiences theyve always liked it... its sexy on a girl... get nice ones not just plane ones

  • Can't you just wear heels that aren't 5 inches? I'm the same height and would never buy a pair of heels that were more than 2 or 3.

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  • Wear the heels and he'll love it with the stockings and boy shorts. It's very sexy to have sex in front of a mirror and see her heels pointing toward the ceiling while she's getting done within an inch of her life.

  • I think the heels on in the bedroom is super sexy, and it doesn't bother me if the girl winds up taller than me. (Least of all in the bedroom--as you point out, she usually doesn't stay on her feet long ;-)). Go for it...they are a bit of a pain though just cause they catch on the sheets and dig your boyfriend if you're not careful. Small price to pay though imho...

  • I don't think you should wear 5" heels; that's too high. Wear 3" stilettos. I think sex in heels is very hot. You should definitely try it. Being on top (cowgirl, or reverse cowgirl) in heels will feel very different, and should be better than without heels. Give it a try. Just be careful not to whack him in the eye when you put your feet over his shoulders in missionary.

  • Heels are very sexy, especially in the bedroom.

  • Have you done the Brown Bomber?

  • I know that I love new experiences in the bedroom and I am sure he will enjoy it. I actually really am turned on when the girls I am with wear heels in the bedroom. It really gets me going. Don't worry about the height difference because it won't matter. Just enjoy and have fun and let me know how it goes!

  • I guarantee you, when you walk in the room with just stocking and heels. Or just the heels... he won't be looking at how tall you are

  • How about heels no where? I don't find them attractive.

  • Yes.. wear them all the time n every place...

  • show him... its hot! (and if things aren't going to plan.. you can always take them off! )

  • very sexy! I love it!

    every woman I am with leaves them on -- its hot as f***!

    And he will love it too!

  • Yes, heels are very sexy.

  • You're thinking about this way to much

  • Yes, but not only 😉

  • Heels during sex...YES, oh yes. And her being taller than me in heels actually spices it up, especially if she's on top.

  • sure

  • Hot indeed

  • i think it is fun for sex nd a lot of men like it

  • Hell yes. They are hot as hell

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