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How can I find a guy who PREFERS small breasts?
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I've never met a guy who prefers small breasts to big ones. All of them just settle. To them small breasts are OK or acceptable, but they all think bigger is more of a turn on and I'm sick of it. My last boyfriend was one fan of bigger, and the only reason he paid attention to my breasts in bed, was because he knew I liked it and could even orgasm by that. Once I had my orgasm, poof! It's like my breasts disappeared! But when a girl with big breasts walked by us, he couldn't get his eyes off! He also always watched big tit p*rn and all... so yeah, he was a lover of big. Incidentally, I also believe personally that my breasts are one of my nicest assets. My butt is big but I don't like it, I think my boobs look better even though they're small. But I've always felt they're under appreciated. I'm TIRED of that! So how can I find a guy who won't think small breasts are acceptable, but who will think they're actually better than big ones? I'm sick of guys not paying attention to one of my best looking body parts, only to find them ogling a girl who has more up top. Should I ask that in the first date or what? I mean, I've met guys to whom my small breasts have been very obvious, I haven't deceived them making them think they were bigger, yet I still found myself in that same old situation (no attention paid to them, looking at other girls' big boobs!). They say looking is harmless but it sure has taken a dent on my confidence!
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Why do guys always end up trolling these questions with penis size issues? If you feel that bad about penis size, then ask your own question. You can't see the penis through clothes, it's not the same as breast size! You don't see penis shots everywhere..
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Like you see big boobs everywhere in the media. And most girls I know don't give a damn about penis size. Don't demonize me because of your insecurities about penis size, I'm only talking about my real experience with guys and breast preferences.
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29 95i figure as long as your boobs are proportionate with the rest of your body then its all good. how big or small are your boobs anyway? I prefer at least a handful like a c cup or something, anything more then that just takes a lot of work lol. I like nice firm sized handfuls. I also think a lot of guys prefer biggens is because big boobs are a sign of fertility and this naturally turns more guys on then the ones that like more moderate modest sizes. like you were saying its a fact that smaller boobs are more sensitive then biggens. and at the risk of sounding perverted a lot of guys like titty f***in me being one of them, doesn't mean you need gigantic mounds to do so, a c could get the job done, girls enjoy it to, hope my answer has been informative :)
Well I'm an A, so I guess I'm way too small for all that.
yeah but if you have a good personality and are a naturally kind charming person, the right man will come along and look past that tiny flaw, and love you for who you are, its our imperfections that make us who we are :) if we didn't have imperfections we wouldn't be human I figure.
So it is a flaw? :(
well yes and no, your going to be unattractive towards a man if he feels your insecure about your breasts and he's going to get annoyed if your constantly asking for reassurance about your boobs, iam saying a guy would look past the boobs and more to yourself if you just have confidence. just like a women wouldn't want to date a guy that was insecure or high maintenence or narcissistic about his body. in fact it would turn me on knowing I could get a girl off just with some foreplay
although most guys won't admit to it no one PREFERS a AA cup. Would you prefer a guy with 3 inch penis? Nope.
Well I don't have AAs, but still, that was rude.
the truth hurts don't it? obviously you asked this question expecting a certain answer. and not caring about opinions.
Ok, do you have a 3 inch penis? If so, well, trust me, a lot of women don't care because NEWSFLASH: opposed to what you see in p*rn, too huge a d*** can hurt, and most women DON'T EVEN ORGASM by vaginal penetration. In case you're average sized and don't have a 3 inch penis, then why even bring it up? I think there are more women with AA cups than there are men with 3 inch penises, and like I said, I don't have AAs, I'm more like a full A, but still, it's kinda rude to women with AAs.
wow. my comment had nothing to do with myself. I was making an analogy. one which doesn't seem false to me- and one which your skull is too thick to comprehend.
I know but if you don't have a 3 inch penis, why do you sound so resentful? It's not my fault that such men were born that way and it's not MY FAULT that some shallow women put those men down... it's not my fault that p*rn emphasizes d*** size over anything else, it's not my fault that men buy into it, etc. I have small breasts, I've been humiliated, and I was asking a valid question, which has nothing to do with penis size. It's not all about men and their penis, you know?
did I ever say anything was "your fault"? OK since you seem to have a penis phobia maybe I'll make another comparison. would you PREFER a guy with a 6 pack or just a normal stomach? remember the keyword is PREFER. same goes with some guys and boob size; they might want bigger boobs and you want a six pack. now do you get it?
I don't have such a preference. Of course nobody wants a fat ass, and that goes for both men and women, but I don't mind a guy with a beer belly, and the one time I was with a guy with a six pack, it looked OK, but felt weird to the touch (you could feel every single muscle move and it was creepy). Too ripped and it looks bad anyway. But guys can work out and get a six pack. I know a lot of women do prefer them. I can't simply go to the gym and get bigger t*ts. Penis phobia? that's sh*t.
And that's not even the f***ing point! I asked how can I find a guy who prefers small breasts, and not like all the past guys I've been with who prefered big t*ts but still went after me only to lust after giant t*ts later. I don't want that anymore, so I don't waste anyone's time and they don't make me feel like sh*t in bed. I suppose there ARE guys who like small breasts better, I just haven't found one yet. Just 'cause you're into big t*ts doesn't mean everyone is, y'know?
So...her question about small t*ts means that she MUST have AAs. yet your comment about a 3 inch penis doesN'T? I call hypocrite who's compensating. or troll. probably troll. either way a loser.
1. I never insinuated anything about her boobs. she insinuated about the size of my johnson. 2. obviously this poster lacks the mental capacity to understand the merit of a simple comparison and the meaning of 'preference' 3. I'm done replying to you idiots.
It has been scientifically proven penis size has nothing to do with female pleasure.
Did you ever find one? I would say that about one guy out of three prefers smaller...and I am one of those...(:
Bigger boobs are a societal preference.
But there are some guys that'll appreciate what you have, just keep trying.
many men prefer small breasts
My opinion is that small boobs are beautiful. Then i don't judge women on size of body parts. I look for confidence, belief in herself, and capable of speaking their minds.
You can't force or demand that guys pay attention to your favourite part. But with confidence, guys will appreciate all of you.
Well, first of all, this is one of the reasons I'm glad I'm not a girl. I mean, girls with big chests (and skinny bodies) do have it easier in a lot of ways. I know, it's a generalization, but it seems true to me.
I think it's just one of those injustices of life that you'll either accept or go crazy. I'm one of those guys who has no problem with smaller breasts. But, in bed, yes I do pay more attention to larger breasts. I'm sorry, but that's just how most men's brains work.
I've dated girls with A cups, and I didn't like them any less because of it. There's more to a relationship than sex. Sorry, it's just a crappy fact of life you have to accept :(
That's a shame that you pay more attention to large breasts since small breasts are usually more sensitive. You are missing an opportunity to be a good lover by breast play alone. But maybe you don't care about that.
small boobs aren't more sensitive that's just a lie made up by girl with small boobs so guys will like them more.
Actually dear "IHateMeganFox" ="In a study conducted at the University of Vienna, researchers found that large breasts were about 24 percent less sensitive than small ones. "This is probably because the nerve that transmits sensation from the nipple is stretched," says Alan Matarasso, M.D., a plastic surgeon in New York City." It's partly true.
He will find you. I guarantee it. You see most boys were raised as if they don't have a soul and to follow the way other guys act. Anyway Your just waiting for a mature guy who can think on his own ( hard to find these days ).But we do exist.
Big breasts is a fetish to some guys: when they were babies, the milk came out of big swollen boobs. (in the perception of a baby everything is big)
Some people never got over the weaning. (or it happened too brutally)
update: penis size is another fetish.
Small breasts are much more fun, for the girl : link
BTW, my first girl friend had NO breasts at all: flat as a boy, at 19, wearing falsies. We had a great time together. She kissed like heaven.
Only way you can truly find one is advertising haha
I was confident with my body and didn't flaunt it or obsess over it or even glorify it. I was self-confident
go to a midget convention. to them your boobs will be huge.
Lol... although if you look for busty midget p*rn... errrr nevermind... but lol.
Small boobs are the best!!
I prefer small breasts...big one's sag and get stretch marks.
Exactly! Not pretty at all. Small ones don't get in the way:)
I mean I like having a little SOMETHING to play with. but small is perfectly fine. I mean the only thing I lose is that she can't titty f*** me. If that means her t*ts stay hot for an extra 30+ years, no complaints here. XD
not all do but I don't like sag or stretch marks etiher and fake ones don't sag
I prefer pear shaped women or bottom heavy. Everything below the waist. Above the waist is secondary for me. I like feet most of all butts second legs third boobs I don't care about. I like them but small breast are just as good for me. I like nipples most so small is sexy. I'll lick and suck and caress them all night long. I can overlook a flat butt if she has nice soft smooth feminine feet and wears pantyhose. It's so much of a turn on that it's all I really need to bend the knee to her and make her my queen. I think size of boobs is not always related to beauty of boobs to me. I have gotten hard from lots of small breast. So maybe look for foot guys or leg guys or butt guys. Higher probability of success there I think. Once in highschool I got in trouble. Walking with my girlfriend who was a rather less feminine rough loud wild girl with a fat butt to science class. We walked into the room and at the door was the teacher and two students on either side and forming a diamond was my girlfriend stepsister who was feminine and small chested with her back to us. But she was dressed up. Skirt and silvery greyish shiny pantyhose and while leaning on the table as doing what's called a heel pop which standing leaning on one leg while other leg is free to slip the foot out of the shoe or popping out of the shoe which for whatever reason possesses my soul and I cannot control my reaction so when I saw this as I was told later my eyes popped out of my head and my jaw dropped in from of everyone. This led to all hell breaking loose. Also bin boobs usually come with big shoulders and I am not as attracted to that. The pear shape wide hips small chest is the perfect shape to me. If I had to choose between big and small it would depend on how they looked to me. Coloration nipples etc. If she has a small chest bit I see her nipples poking through I'm hers.
I've always maintained that all breasts are attractive based on a) their proportionality to the rest of the woman's body, and b) their perk-sag factor. Yes, big t*ts are nice, but so are small ones. And I'd much prefer small natural perky breasts to big implants or big naturals that sag a lot.
I'm not a breast man in general as much as I am an ass man, and you may never be able to steer a man's eyes away from any attractive feature on another woman, but I would say that it shouldn't be impossible to find a man who enjoys your small t*ts.
I hope. It just sucks when all the girls they check out have big breasts though, or all the pics of women or p*rn in his PC are of busty women, or all his celeb crushes are busty, you get the point. If at least a guy varied more in his fantasies and tastes, I wouldn't feel so crappy about my t*ts, but sadly, I haven't been too lucky finding a guy like that... who TRULY likes variety...
I like small breasts better for a number of reasons
It is embedded in mens brains to look for a parter that has large breasts so when you have children with them they will have enough milk. But personaly I don't care that much about breast size... As long as they have normal sized breasts I am happy, the bigger is just a bonus. Sometimes small breasts can suit some types of girls...
Actually studies show that bigger breasts don't mean more milk. It actually has nothing to do with that. In the old days..people thought that. But no. That's why a girl with an A cup (for example) could grow to like a D cup when preggers. ;) They grow when women are preggers.. You know that right? lol.
I have NEVER been drawn to breasts , curvy hips / nice legs used to be my trigger for attraction.
Of course bigger is better , but i do not dislike "flat" girls
i can grab something else instead of those big juicy tits ;)
and i will love it also ;)