Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Everyone is making a big deal out of a woman having good pussy, nowadays. It's like it determines the quality of her self value. Is she worthy to fall head over heels for depending on the quality of her pussy?
I'm 26 years old and I've only had two sex partners (an ex and a current boyfriend). I've never been told the status of my pussy. So, I don't know if it's good or bad. I know this may seem like a silly question to some but sometimes I wonder if I give good sexual pleasure...
Would a man hold it in if he knows I have good pussy? ... Just so that he can make me feel devalued as if he's the only man that'll love me? Or because he doesn't want it to get to my head?
A couple of days ago, I had trouble making my man cum. I tried different ways to please him but he would not cum and I felt like I was trying forever until I felt discouraged and left him to please himself.
I'm so confused... I'm not sure if what I have, "down there" is worthy...
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How do I know if I have good pussy?
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What Girls & Guys Said
7 30It's different for each guy, one guy may think a pussy is great and another may disagree. As long as you're taking care of your pussy you're fine. A man has to know how to please you.
First of all, I haven't heard of good pussy or bad pussy till I read your question. So, whatever is bothering you is just irrational fear (it's normal, everyone has some kind of irrational fear).
Secondly, if a guy can't cum easily, more often than not, it's because of himself. As mentioned by someone else, the reasons are many. Your pussy isn't one of those. :) Trust me! I've been there. It was never because of my girlfriend's pussy. It had to do with me being tired or not feeling horny enough or because I would have masturbated earlier that day. And when that happens, I'm mad at myself and not at my girlfriend. I'm sure your partner must be feeling insecure and blaming himself for not being able to perform.
Thirdly, what you have down there is definitely worthy. I don't think any of us have an unworthy thing down there. So, please don't worry.
Coming to how you can resolve it. Change yourself. As in, don't be so insecure. Most of the times, it's all in our head. So, kick out the negative thoughts and be more body confident. Have a longer foreplay, spice things up like using a blindfold, make changes in your sex life and you are good to go!
I would say your pussy is most likely trash cause you would definitely know if you had good pussy. Not to mention your boyfriend would have definitely told you that you had good pussy. So what to do from here you ask. Start fucking as many guys as you can till the pussy gets good and seasoned. Take it from Horsedik Red... I will fuck you and give you a second opinion if you would like.
I can only provide a sample size of one here but I think every guy will have this problem. As a guy we have to have blood flow as well as the right state of mind. I find that whenever I start thinking about my girlfriend face and her lovely smile and even this one time I saw her holding her cat up I get this very good feeling in my throat and everything goes smoothly. But whenever I start thinking about dirty things or something other than her, I find that it is rather hard (no pun) to perform or even continue to perform.
I think you shouldn’t be too hard on yourself. Just know that things won’t be 100% all the time. Don’t ever put your self worth or value into another person as you’ll never be able to please yourself. I think if the chemistry isn’t there then it’s not your lady parts that’s a problem but rather you just need to dump the person and find someone else who will love you and not just try to use you for sex.
All legal pussy is good pussy!!!
If it's getting the guy's soldier to shoot, then it's plenty good.
IT's really rare there's an issue here, and most likely you'd notice a lack of friction as well.
when someone says "good pussy" it has nothing to do with your vagina. it just means whether or not you are good in bed
I don't think that's really a thing. if anything it may be in reference to sexual performance, but even so, no one really cares.
do you have a child when it comes to this
Yes I had a child in January. My only baby but no vaginal delivery if thats what ur wondering.
okay just wanted to be sure then it doesn't matter
they all feel pretty much the same. don't worry about it.
if a guy had trouble cumming with you, it's highly unlikely it was your pussy.
Hahaha thanks for the laugh