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How many different partners have you had sex with (oral sex counts) in your life? Honestly
Anonymous
I am curious at this question because I feel it is hard to tell and everyone is different but I guess certain types of people are similar in their outlooks. Have you had sex more than oral sex or vice versa? Have you given oral sex more than received? About how many of your sexual partners were casual (one night things with someone random; or a hook up with someone you know but it did not lead to a relationship? Were there times in your life when you were more/less promiscuous than others? Do you regret sex you had? Do you want to have sex with more people?
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write down your age and respond with the breakdown of regular vs. oral sex if you can. to give people an idea of this non scientific survey
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What Girls & Guys Said
41 24Hi im 17 about to turn 18 and i have never had sexual intercourse. However , last night actually i got a little drunk & Gave My Friend oral sex... i remember saying no but he kept asking & i do like him a lot so i did it... today im feeling really ashamed and embarrassed. He hasn't even called. What if he tells my friends? what will they think? i Regret this decision right now & im worried.
26, been in one long term relationship from 18 - 26, given oral sex once before I started the relationship.
So a grand total of 2. Weird that I haven't had more since I have zero hang ups about sex, not my relationship is over I think I'm going to go and get a little, build those numbers up lol
I've had sex with 8 girls, gave oral to 6 of them, and received oral from 4. I've given oral more often than I've received it. 3 of the girls were one-night-stands and the other 5 were relationships.
I'm 22
Sex: 6 partners (2 serious, 3 less serious and 1 one night stand)
Given oral sex: 3 partners (2 serious and 1 less serious)
Received oral sex: 2 partners (from 2 serious partners)
I don't regret anything!
I'm 17 and I've had 14 different partners. Both male and female. 9 of these casuall.
I have given oral sex to 11. Received oral sex from 10. I had 3 sexual partners in 2 weeks because I broke up from a long term relationship and I guess just wanted some fun (yes that may sound a little bad). I don't regret any of it because you learn from experience, you learn what you like and dislike and learn people's preferences and become aware of the world of sex. You learn what you're attracted to and learn who not to go for and there are fetishes to discover and different ways and all sorts.
I will continue to have sex ofcourse, I do rather love sex but I would like to find a partner in which I could experiment with instead of many different people.
Oh shit!! These generation
None! I'm 18
Im 21 and I've had 2 sexual partners
both guys I've had sex with I also had oral
25 y old... lost it when I was 18 with a boyfriend...after that I had very short term relationships or one night stands may be 40-50 for6- 7 years ! ... I don't remember and don't care... I never had any disease or got pregnant...oral only about 5 times... I like guy does everything for me as I am very selfish person and after that one night I never want to see him again...I am attractive and men all the time approach me...sure I wanna change and find long term relationship but I have no luck! why?
4 virgins + 4 orals(both ways), 2 mama's (1 oral), oral from a chick at a nursing home, maybe twice. can't remember. 25 slutty girls that now have STD's =D haha
2 and that's about it
Im 19.
I have had sex with three guys. I regret the second guy because although it wasn't random and we were seeing each other,I feel he was only seeing me to get to that particular outcome.
I first had sex at 16 with a boyfriend I stayed with for 4 years.
Have only given oral sex to the three guys I have slept with and only recieved it from two of them.
Im with my boyfriend now but I lie about the second guy I slept with because I really feel ashamed for allowing myself to have sex with him. Oh and also this boyfriend has only ever had sex with me. But he has recieved oral from me and another girl.
Oral sex = 3
Regular sex = 3
Being felt up by a guy at a party = I'm sure that's happened more than 3 anyway...
i'm 19. I lost it at 14, but had a year and a half break from sex in grade 10 and some of 11. I've slept with 20 guys and I'm not sure about oral sex. um 2 of them have been non- serious bf's. I was a serious 2 year relationship.
i do regret who I lost it with, it was definitely the meanest guy I have slept with. um I wish I had waited until I was 17, because before that I honestly didn't know enough about sex to be having it. it was just a thing we did and I never felt pleasure or anything good about it. but yer I hope no-one judges me, I'm just answering honestly
sex with 25..
given oral to 3, received from a few more than that.
Had a time where I didn't care about anyone or anything and was very very promiscuous, however I was always safe! Therefore I have no regrets, everything happens for a reason, no-one got hurt and it's not who I am now
Im pretty sure I've had sex more then giving or recieving oral, but I have given oral to more guys than I have slept with. I have given oral more. Most of my times are with casual guy friends that I had known typically for a while, a few were guys I had met through other guy friends and hadnt known long. In highschool I was more promiscuous and have learned I don't have to be like that. I don't regret anything, but I wish I would have realized I didn't have to do the things I did eariler. I am 18. I have had sex with 15 guys and given head to well over 15. Not proud. But have learned a lot about myself.
Given (never recieved) oral only, once, and I regret it more than anything else in my life so far.
I was 17, I'd never been in a relationship, never asked someone out, even, and she was very bold about it. Long story short, I gave it.
She tried to kill herself a couple days later. That really does a number on your self-esteem, trust me. I wish I'd never even met her.
At least you can say youv gotten your nose wet LOL
wow so far the girls are looking way sluttier than the guys
True but for every girl on here that says she's had sex or given oral...there was a guy involved too haha
Or guys are looking more boring and sad.
@mytommy, yeah, but it must have been the same guy, and you are all sharing him.
Definition of 'slut': "a girl who had more partners than the person using the word 'slut' " or: A girl who had as much partners as a "stud". Nobody ever judges a stud. Why?
wow, so far the guys are looking way more virtuous than the girls, lol. You SL*TS! joking
It would be a lot less if oral sex didn't count, haha
Whys that? do girls give head often and to friends or random guys or is this a generalization?
No, not at all. in high school I did that with a few boys because I liked then and I wanted them to date me, but clearly I was naive. since then I only do it with boyfriends who I am also sleeping with.
Rad! you live in cali?
I have never really done anything sexually before.