A healthy dick will always keep a girl coming back. Smaller penises (5 and a half inches or so) can get the job done (aka get the girl to the big O), but most of that is not going to be from your dick. It'll be from the other aspects of sex: feeling your hips press into me, hearing you grunt, etc. I've only had one guy out of twenty or so partners that wasn't quite 6 inches, and he made me come most of the time but he definitely left a little to be desired.
The average guy (7 inches) is going to feel good, and can fill up a petite female partner. That being said, a 7 inch guy can't just plug-and-chug. Most women (all of my friends) have had bigger than that, so you'll still have to put extra thought into foreplay and oral to compete with what your partner has had before.
Bigger guys (8-9 inches) feel... right. It feels incredible to have a dick big enough to press down (away from the clit) and honestly, the two smaller categories described above just don't quite give me that feeling. It's a tough feeling to forget; smaller guys have to use their hands and it just isn't the same.
Being blunt, I always compare a guys package to my previous partners when I first feel a guys bulge or pull down his pants. I would never tell my partner this, of course (I know how sensitive guys are), but I don't really see how a woman could NOT compare. If she's been with an endowed guy before and you've got 7 inches, she's gonna know she will be working a little harder that night. Not to say you won't be enough for her; an average dick is lovely, but it just isn't as exciting as feeling a hung guy's member grow in his pants and knowing you're gonna have a special night.
I'm sure there are girls out there who go crazy for small dicks, so don't worry, there's a girl for all of you. I can only tell you my experiences and the experiences of my close group of 7 or so girlfriends, and we all agree that when you start dating a guy and he's got a modest 7 or even 6 inches, it's very difficult to forget how much better an 8 or 8 and a half feels.
You got your info wrong. The world's average penis size is 5 to 5 and a half, and is probably about 5 and a half to 6 in the united states. So when you say 8-9 I'm going to imagine you really mean 6-7. Personally, if I know a girl has been fucking a very big dick and I know it will be stretched out which makes her seem used up. Also it won't feel good if she's got a cavern down there. A pussy can stretch and tighten, but it takes longer to tighten up after stretching out, and to a certain extent it can never fully tighten up to what it once was. Also it limits her potential for a satisfying sexual partner. What happens for girls is they get addicted to the stretching and then maybe will seek out bigger size, but it's a downhill slope once they end up with loose vaginas. Loose vaginas are visually unattractive, don't feel good, and give that sense that she's been "used up.” If a guy is average, he can make a girl feel just as stretched out if she is tighter.
this is the second part of my comment: I go for younger girls, the younger and more experienced the better, for many reasons, the first and most relevant to this discussion is because she’s tighter and more sensitive and I can fuck her better I know she’s not faking it when I pounding her and it feels better for me. Also I like the idea of taking innocence, she’s less likely to have an STD if she’s younger and/or less experienced. It’s just all around better. There’s a reason men all over the world throughout history have wanted young girls, in every culture and religion, and the number one search term for porn is teen. The emotional part is VERY important though, you have to be confident and get her to want you and be able to make her wet with your personality. This leads to better sex. Sure, a guy with a big dick doesn’t have to do as much initially to please a girl, but having a big dick is not the end all be all, and I agree with females on this point.
third part: I personally don’t have a giant cock and I fuck gorgeous models and young girls all the time. I used to be obsessed and insecure about my penis but now I’m really not worried about it and happy with my size. I get more and better pussy and probably better sex than most guys with big dicks. A stressful adolescence is the major cause of a smaller or bigger dick. Stress is bad for the body and bad during puberty, as it raises cortisol level which in turn decreases an important growth hormone for penis size. There are ways to increase your size, one is to be confident (and do so you need to work on yourself you can’t just pretend to be), which reduces stress which can decrease penis length and functionality, and also having sex is the best exercise for increasing size so if you’re a guy, suck it up, get out there and start banging girls. Plus eat healthy and exercise. These four things will make your dick bigger.
If you are in love with the guy, size doesn't matter (except the extremes). However, if you love him but aren't in love with him, size is very important - up there with decent looks, good hygiene & a pleasant personality. I'm not been a size queen - in fact I'm with a guy I'm in love with who is below average - but my ex, who I loved but wasn't in love with was VWE & it made a huge difference. Let's put it this way: I'm the least slutty of my circle of girlf friends & the least obsessed with penises. But after having sex with my ex for a year, I was physically & psychologically ruined for other guys. I never wanted that to happen, but it did. Unless you've got a vagina guys, you just can't understand the incredible, otherworldly sensations a large cock causes. When I first saw my ex's package, I didn't want it in me, I thought it would hurt. And it did hurt, in fact he couldn't get it in the first few times. When he did eventually get it in, it hurt. But I really liked him & he was such a sweet, sensitive lover that I wanted to make it work. After a few more tries, I was completely hooked. I suddenly realised what my girlfriends had been raving about for years. Sex with a big penis is sensational when done well: the best parts were just before he entered & as he entered, causing pain from stretching, but the sweetest pain imaginable. Once he was in, I felt stretched & completely full, his size pressed all my nerve endings & caused friction on my vaginal walls. When he thrusted, the sensations on my back wall were the best feeling I've ver had, it was like plummeting down the steepest roller-coaster in the world. Orgasms made me shudder all over my body, not just in my vagina area, & the feeling in my vagina once he'd withdrawn was numb. It wasn't long before I started aching for that sensation all over again - I'm not a drug taker but I can imagine that addictive need for pleasure is a bit like heroin addiction lol.
if your bf read this he'd neck himself lol
@gtrain I know, right?
@gtrain lol
Personally, I prefer an average to less than average sized penis. This is my experience. I started out having sex with a little over average guy. The sex wasn't 'spectacular '. It was just 'there'. Wasn't even what I looked forward to. My next boyfriend waso bigger than the last. He was thick and long. Still the sex was just 'there'. My third boyfriend was average size and the sex was way better. I enjoyed giving him a blow job and a hand job. I just enjoyed playing with his penis. The next guy I had sex with was big. Way above average, but guess what? I was hardly ever ever satisfied. Didn't enjoy giving him a blow job that much. Now the fifth guy was below average. He wasn't really small but was getting there. But the sex was amazing. It was f***ing amazing. I have no idea what it was. We weren't dating however we hooked up and could not keep away from each other. He just knew how to ride me good. Then i had sex 4th guy again (the big guy). Sex was worse. I kept thinking of the other guy and eventually I could no longer continue with the big 4th guy. Right now I get turned off by a big dick. I am petite and so is my vagina. The big dick just ends up hurting me and the guys get bruises. A small dick fills me up better and the guys u could go as hard or as fast as I wanted without hurting me or himself. Plus I prefer giving a blow job to small penises as everything fits in my mouth. In summary, right now I prefer the less than average penis and a big dick turns me way off and is a big no no. So don't worry if your penis is less than average. There are girls like me that prefer it that way.
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I can't believe no one liked or commented on your response. It was so thoughtful and helpful. I don't know how long ago this was but thanks! xoxo -b
Great post, Kait! Thanks for sharing! A guy does not need to meet my perfect size in order to make things enjoyabIe. It's all in how they use the tools they have. A full, hard and strong erection is a rarity nowadays, just start with this. So.. happy everyone can get help for this 😊 (you can search google for ‘GET365VCL’ 👍). The longer guys (over 6 inches) can be eager to show me how deep they can get, not thinking I may need more time to accept their length. I have only met one over 7 inches. It took a few times to get him to take his time, and I usually used a large dildo before he arrived just to loosen things up a little more, then had him use it, his fingers and oral before he plunged in.
Not any better at all. Visually, I will admit that I am more turned on by a bigger penis. I find bigger ones more fun mentally to perform oral sex with. I do not personally equate a bigger penis with strength or masculinity. As far as "straight" intercourse or sex in general, I do not at all find a bigger penis more satisfying or appealing. I find a guy's knowledge, enthusiasm and sexual skills to be satisfying and appealing.
so you would rather have a small 1" inch baby dick? lmfao common just be real here! lmfao xD
@vald9inches She said she doesn't find bigger penises more satisfying. This doesn't mean that she prefers absolutely tiny ones.
Great post, Kait! Thanks for sharing! A guy does not need to meet my perfect size in order to make things enjoyabIe. It's all in how they use the tools they have. A full, hard and strong erection is a rarity nowadays, just start with this. So.. happy everyone can get help for this 😊 (you can search google for ‘GET365VCL’ 👍). The longer guys (over 6 inches) can be eager to show me how deep they can get, not thinking I may need more time to accept their length. I have only met one over 7 inches. It took a few times to get him to take his time, and I usually used a large dildo before he arrived just to loosen things up a little more, then had him use it, his fingers and oral before he plunged in.
I'm interested because I am very small. I can't imagine that a small penis (4.5 inches or less) feels the same as a large penis (7 inches or more). I am also not sure how many girls will have experienced very big and very small. Statistically if I was in a sample of 1000 men , 992 would be larger than me. I am less than 4 inches erect. Similarly guys with 9 inchers are pretty uncommon, despite all the claims made on forums etc. So it would seem to me that when girls are talking about big and small most will be talking about not so big and not so small, which is interesting in its self. As it suggests that even smallish variations in size can have a telling effect.
I can only observe the effect my penis has on my partner ( yes I have had a few!) . I realised I have to be pragmatic, as simply sliding in and out won't achieve much for either of us. I should say that even a relatively small vagina will be less than filled by me.
So the question is does the feeling of fullness that women describe , just feel full , or do more ample guys hit more than one spot at a time. How does that affect the quality of the experience? This is a really interesting but lamentably badly researched question.
Too many responses to the question does size matter sound like girls repeating what they have heard or read someone else say. Perhaps its not something that they spend too much time worrying about.
To me big dicks just look so impressive and little ones don, t look like they have any purpose. My current (and long term) partner said "Oh my god there's nothing to it" the first time she saw mine. I have also been told that my flaccid member looks like a little flap of wrinkled skin. I cannot imagine that any woman who finds me attractive is turned on by the sight of my penis.
So I get the sexually stimulating site of a large erect penis.
How does the difference in dimensions translate into sexual performance?
Most women are more sensitive just first few inches inside and almost numb deep inside. Let women chose if your size is perfect for her. Not all of them need that "fullness"
Great post, Kait! Thanks for sharing! A guy does not need to meet my perfect size in order to make things enjoyabIe. It's all in how they use the tools they have. A full, hard and strong erection is a rarity nowadays, just start with this. So.. happy everyone can get help for this 😊 (you can search google for ‘GET365VCL’ 👍). The longer guys (over 6 inches) can be eager to show me how deep they can get, not thinking I may need more time to accept their length. I have only met one over 7 inches. It took a few times to get him to take his time, and I usually used a large dildo before he arrived just to loosen things up a little more, then had him use it, his fingers and oral before he plunged in.
I've talked about this with my female friends a lot. Most of them say average penises feel better than tiny and huge penises. Tiny ones are barely felt and huge ones hurt them. They say in general they prefer them thick though but they always say it's more about how the guy moves and the chemistry they have together.
they didn't want to hurt your feelings bud
@vald9inches Yeah right, all the women commenting are lying and you know the "real" truth because they have so much to lose in telling the truth on a fringe website's thread. LMFAO. I think I'll believe the people who actually experience these things rather than insecure boys (your username says it all) with a piss poor understanding of the human body. I guess they're just trying to hurt your feelings, bud. );
@Freakpower wow commenting on a 1 year + old thread and i am the insecure one? Lmfao 😂🤣🤣🤣 ok sure buddy whatever helps you sleep at night 😉
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!well its not necessarily the size for me its more of the way he can work it, what's a big **** if he doesn't know what to do with it.
You want your cake and to eat it too dont you? ;)
I think people have a mixed up or just don’t have any experience to give an accurate opinion. When it come to big girth or thickness around is what actually makes the sexual experience very different. Also medical issues a girl has like it looks some do on her also factor in like tilted uterus etc. When a cock is 6” or more thick around your getting bigger stretching us open much more. Some girls with depth issues suggest from tilted uterus where it won’t move to let the penis glide past. Personally I thank god have a very healthy vagina and can take it deep. Longest penis I had was dry close to 10” long and deepest I took a dildo was 11 3/4 before bottoming my vagina out. I love sex and know my body very well as I have explored it with many guys and toys of different shapes and sizes. I would say the best size for me is anything between 8” and 10” long and 6 1/2” to 7” thick around when it comes to being very picky and using toys or a man who can fit me properly for it. But on the flip side I like to have a guy who is very hot and a nice person who I enjoy time with. I would rather not put size into the equation when looking for a life partner if possible.
Are u sure it's not exaggerating a bit... 11 inches.. that is like almost coming out the other end lol
@vickymoore9 how would you feel about anything less?
Bluntly put the ONLY women who care about size are whores, sluts, tramps & good for nothing except cheap sex. Town bicycles. Passed around, used, dumped & which no man would ever marry unless he is absolutely can't get anyone else desperate.
I would choose big over small. Even if the man does not know what to do with it bigger is better. I know what to do with it and most of the time that is all that matters.
Honesty comes at a price on this site.
I am being honest. I was with a man for a while and he was small. The sex was good. I never said a small package can't deliver. When I moved on to someone that was larger, I thought it was better just because of the size. It was something that I missed that the other guy was lacking. He didn't have as much skills as the smaller guy but what he lacked in skill, I could make up for.
I'm not doubting your honesty. Just saying the truth isn't always what people want to hear on this site, that's all.
It feels worse. Because its hurts. And vaginas are like 4 inches, 6 max.
So... "big" is a turn-off.
I'm not saying small is good... but average is best.
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