How often do I call the booty call?

[mysticlivestock]

A friend of mine from HS and I saw each other out at a bar and ended up hooking up. It was totally unexpected and awesome, I'm pretty sure we both like it and eachother. It was a thursday. Weve been meeting up after hours almost ever thursday since, and he has sometimes called me on other nights, but I was busy, and vice versa. We recently hooked up on a saturday after missing our normal thursday night rendezvous and it was a whole lotta fun. He tells me to call him during the day, that we should hang out, but he's often busy, but courteous. Should I occasionally not call, to give him space or play hard to get? Or should I just call whenever I want to f*** and say screw the head games? I like the thursday night sessions, its fun, and he's commented before, "Haha this is so funny we f*** every thursday, its awesome." Would I be crossing a line to want to take it to other nights of the week, or more than once a week?

[John-Bee]

FWB sometimes have a prearranged date & time like your Thursdays. Others also have the call when they really need it. If you are the only one calling I say that's ok. If you want let him call you to see what happens. then that's ok too. If he asks, why you didn't call you can always come up with an excuse or simply tell him the truth.

If you really just want to be FWB then set some time table or simple ground rules.

Just be careful that he's not bringing something to you from his other encounters. What ever two people agree on is up to them & always ok

[Mustang2]

do it when you want. that doesn't make any sense. do what you want when you want. grow up.

[melissarose8585]

Well, he could just be busy, and not too interested in something remotely serious. Or he just wants sex. But if you want it more than one night a week, I doubt he'd turn you down.

[wannabe]

whenever you feel like it really

[adat1408]

Give him a little space. Don't be calling him all the time just for sex.make him want it