How to blow his mind in the bedroom? What are some tricks that will work for most men?

I am curious as to what bedroom tricks you men enjoy most. I want to gather the top 10 tricks in the bedroom that work for most men and maybe try them out.1.) How do you guys feel about the throat swab, where the girl lies on her back and the man stands behind her and she gives him head upside-down. 2.) How about pressure and vibration on the perineum right before climax? Do you really have a crazy super powerful orgasm with that--what is the best technique to stimulate the prostate (male G-spot)? 3.) What are you favorite positions? If you are into butts what positions turn you on most? 4.) What spots on your body turn you on --neck, ears, feet, nipples? 5.) What overall turns men into crazy wild animals addicted to sex with a the woman that blows his mind? I want to drive this man wild---in bed he seems a bit reserved and I want to have sex "out the box" and turn him on to some new experiences. He works really hard in the service industry--so I had an idea of serving him as a sexy maid, preparing a gourmet meal with all of the fixings, after he finishes I would perform a sexy striptease dance like to "Cater to You", I would take my clothes off to reveal a sexy sheer maid costume. Next I would begin undressing him slowly and senually, give him a full body massage starting with him lying on his stomach-I would start with his arm-shoulders-neck-back-legs-butt, rolling him over and massaging his feet-legs-shoulders-chest and abs.Then I would get a tray of desserts I prepared and proceed to massaging his gentials. Next, I would use the desserts to give him the most amazing head of his life--while feeding him the ice cream, chocolate sauce-cherries-strawberries-whip cream-caramel-chocolate mousse and mini squares of cake/brownie squares. After I have licked him clean I would hand him the whip cream and tell him to put some where ever he wants me to lick it off--after that I would tell him that right now I am here to serve him and and he can take me however he would like. WOULD THIS TURN YOU GUYS ON? Is there anything you think I need to add or remove from this idea? I was never much into foreplay but I want to build up the anxiety for both of us as it is a big turn on, so I've heard. I know I am over thinking a bit, but I don't get to see him as often as I want --so when we are together next it has to be amazing! I sort have used too much of that numbing gel used for deep throating the last time and instead of putting on my tonsils I put it on him and he went numb after we had sex the first time I feel so bad I have to make it up to him. He thought he had a reaction to my condoms. My bad--help me make it up to him guys by telling me what turns you on!
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P.S. I won't be feeding him pasta in bed--like dessert--it's kinky but people really enjoy it--I tried it once in college whip cream and chocolate sauce the normal. But as I give him head I would stop so he doesn't get off just yet and I will feed dessert
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  • "WOULD THIS TURN YOU GUYS ON?"

    Hell yeah!

    Holy crap, you sound amazing.

    The only thing I can suggest is try not to mix food with sex, you can eat before sex, and talk dirty to him then, not like extreme sex talk, just light stuff to give him a hint of what's coming next), or after sex, but I wouldn't try to give him head while feeding him-- Makes him have to focus on something else besides you, which would very much disappoint him, or at least it would disappoint me =P.

    Yeah, it sounds awesome, I don't even know where my prostate is, never mind what the heck a perineum is, so you definitely know your stuff !

    Honestly, I suggest you ask him personally about it in advance, because a lot of guys are different in terms of what they've done before, and what new things they want to try. But you have one idea right, get kinky and have a blast, I got horny off reading this post.

    Good Luck!

    Tip: Look up a guide on for guys on how to please a girl in bed, see if what the guide says works for you, and try to find a similar guide on how to please a guy in bed. Chances are if the one for guys on how to please a girl works for you, the vise versa will be true also.

    • You would not be cool with a girl licking chocolate off your cock? Or having just tasted vanilla ice cream and wrapping her licks around your manhood? It is supposed to be better than Altoids and/or halls!

  • To me that sounds fine just defiantly stay away from the prostate and you should be good personally don't think any straight guy wants to have anything up his ass, I for sure don't . If he is a butt man doggy style and reverse cowgirl are always great positions.

    • No sweetie you don't have to put anything up the anus--the space between your scrotum and anal passage there is like a small bump and by fondling that area you stimulate the prostate gland by causing an incredible orgasm. Look it up tell your girlfriend to try it on you--no anal molesting involved.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Don't listen to any one who says stay away from the prostate. Biggest orgasm my husband ever had was when I blew him with a prostate massager in his ass. Eyes rolled back in his head, he felt the earth move everything. So I would say add it to your list

  • how about putting whip cream on ur own nipples and have alchohol in ur belly button like body shots or if thats not ur thing put nutella on ur nipples and ask him if he wants dessert in bed.

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  • I'd leave out the food play. Food belongs in a whole different category from sex. Mixing them has always weirded me out.

    The throat swab... yes! Very hot! But only if right after some shower play. Even then, I'd make it quick, and would want her to wash her mouth out and use mouthwash quickly afterward. So kissing her would feel less uncomfortable.

    Taint and prostate play... can't say I'm a fan.

    Unless a condom is involved, butt play is out of the question. But doggy or spoon if she insists. It wouldn't last long though. This is sort of a losing proposition.

    When making out, I like when the couple explore each other's mouths with their tongues. Go ahead, lick the roof of my mouth. I'll quickly return the favor.

    Otherwise, for me, the biggest thing is an easy position to maintain where I get deep penetration, have little issue with sliding out by accident, and can sustain erection long enough to know you're getting a full blast jet inside.

  • Will you do this stuff with me in bed

    • Dude you're 13.. go play in the sandbox or something

    • @NellyBellyJelly lmao sandbox