How to find a rich man?

[Anonymous]

I know I'm going to get crap for this, but here I go. I wanna be a millionare so freaking bad. (have I heard that somewhere before? (lol) I want to be a wife to a millionaire. I want my kids to have a beautiful life and I want all the oppurtunities that come with having money. I don't mind working hard for my money, but chances are I will just make it to middle class, I want a husband who is rich, how can I find him? I am attracted to rich men just as women are attracted to musicians or men to big boobs. I live in a well off neighborhood but I am not well off and neither are my friends, where can I find these men and what qualities should I look for? I would prefer a man who makes his money and doesn't inherit it,(because that money will eventually run out) but if he comes from a well off family he will most likley get a good job(he has good connections) Is there a good book on how to attract rich men? Should I dress rich or plain? any tips, and pleaase don't judge I've heard it all before! I don't want to buy designer clothes with his money, I just want a good life for my kids... I want them to travel the world and have oppurtunities, because I never got to as a kid:/

[Anonymous]

Go where rich men are. You won't meet a millionaire at Walmart. Well you might, but you have a better chance at meeting men like this at a place that has a more upper class clientele. Try to work, shop and socialize in and around rich neighborhoods. If you wanted to be approached by a biker, you'd go to a biker bar, if you wanted to meet a nerd you'd go to an anime convention. Know your audience and cater to them.

Dress nicely in clothes that flatter you and are stylish. You don't want to be dripping in designer labels, that just looks like you try too hard. Some nice bags and shoes can help your outfits but they aren't completely necessary. Just try to model yourself after the type of women you see these guys with. Don't dress trashy or ghetto. Make the most of your looks. YOu don't have to have a lot of money, there's a lot of home beauty treatments you can do and make sure you keep that body tight.

Become rich yourself...or at least try. The last thing you want to do is sit around just focusing on getting a man. Guys won't respect this. Men respect women with goals, dreams, hobbies and plans so focus on bettering yourself WHILE you are looking for a man. You're more likely to marry a doctor if you spend time in the medical field, a law student or intern is more likely to meet lawyers, etc. Like attracts like. It is very rare that a rich man will just find some random hot girl with no skills and put a ring on it. We hear stories like that in the media but it's so rare that you shouldn't bank on it. Those kind of girls may become mistresses but rarely do they become wives. An average looking woman who is intelligent, classy and driven and sweet is more likely to marry a millionaire than a hot bimbo. Don't believe the hype lol. There are wives and there are mistresses, you are trying to be the wife so play the part.

Be classy. That means keep away from unsavory guys who will trash your name, don't do anything that isn't discreet. I don't want to see any sex tapes of you floating around on the internet or any overly sexy Facebook profiles. Rich men marry classy women and don't respect hoes. Most men of all social statuses feel this way. LADY IN THE STREET, FREAK IN THE BED

Have good manners and be polite. Don't be snobby, be sweet and feminine. Be friendly and nice to people.

GOOD LUCK! All the people criticizing you need to shut up. Everyone wants what they want in life and rich men need love too.

[Asker]

Great answer, wonderful advice, thank you taking the time to write that.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

This was a great answer :D

[cristinaboss]

Unless you're hot, don't bother. Or they may prefer being with a woman who makes plenty of money on her own so they don't feel that a woman is just using him for financial security.

Why don't you just work hard to make money on your own? Why do you feel like you want to 100% rely on a man? I'm no feminist, but I refuse to rely on a man's income. I work really hard in school to get a great job with a fantastic salary in the future. I'm sorry but it's girls like you that give us hard working girls a bad name. Why don't you quit being lazy and make something of yourself?

And millions of dollars isn't necessary to provide a good life for your kids. My dad is not a millionaire and I still have a fantastic life. As long as you love and cherish your kids, that's all that matters. Money isn't everything.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Lol money would be nice he he.

Work for your own money instead of mooching off of some guy; once your at the top, you'll be surrounded by several millionaire bachelors; It takes some hard ass work, but nothing comes easy, and you don't want to be left with nothing if things don't work out, because all the money is in his name. You can do it, just keep some sturdy determination.

Or you can always go the sleezy way and hoe around, but I'm sure you have more class than that.

[Asker]

that is the goal:) but right now I don't have money, and I'd still like to date a rich man.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Lol they're a dime a dozen; most don't go walking around with an " I'm filthy stinkin rich" sign around their neck, because the genuine ones don't want to be with women who only want their money. But you gotta be able to hold your own in cut throat places where the rich usually linger, like big business affairs, and hollywood type stuff. You have to make your own, or you'll just come across as one of the many gold digging bimbos, who only attract old crusty - one food already in the grave men

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

lol foot I totally meant foot. * Only attract old crusty - one foot already in the grave, leaking odd bodily discharges, raisin penis having, rich men lol *

[Asker]

oh noo, not a crusty man! more like his son, who is in college... and plays tennis:) Maybe I will break into a gated community and find him using the courts.lol

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Lol @ breakin in :D He he, just don't get caught up in the fantasy of it; if you go into that relationship with nothing, you will leave with nothing; looks fade, and it's hard to find a rich man willing to settle in a solid relationship; you may be lonely and depressed as he works all day. It's nice to have the big house and fancy things, but all that doesn't matter if that house isn't a home. Rich men like valuable things right? Make yourself valuable, give yourself some worth.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

The gold digging tramps that hover desperately around rich areas, dreaming about being wined and dined by some rich guy have no value; they are like those plastic studs that turn your ear black after a while lol Real women are diamonds, and I'm quite positive a rich man would prefer a diamond over cheap plastic jewels lol

[Leeggg]

Are you super hot? If not, give up until you are. I come from a really wealthy family, and all my parents friends are really wealthy and every one of them has a hot wife. Even hot at their age (~45 - 55). So they'd be smoking hot when they first got together. Smart, rich guys pretty much have their pick when it comes to women, as long as they're not ugly and socially retarded. You'd have to make yourself better than every other woman if you want to snag a rich one.

Also, until you find one, get work experience in receptionist or accounting work. Or get some business management certificates or something. Another thing all my parents rich friends have in common, is that the wife isn't useless.. She usually does all of the paperwork and tax work and everything for the husband's business.

[ThickRick]

She just got wet reading this.

[Asker]

I'm model hot, but don't have flashy things, my nails aren't manicured, my clothes are plain. but I have a pretty face and really nice hair and a good body. I'm wondering if I should dress up more? or will that be a turn off (too high maintenance)? and that is great to know, I will consider getting accounting experience, not just for my husband but I am interesting in starting a business aswell. thanks for a great answer.

[Asker]

thickrick, how did you know?;)

[Leeggg]

Uhmm... dress maturely.. Seeing as you're under 25. Rich guys are generally older than 25, and if they're looking for a girlfriend they're going to want one that they can take to dinners at nice restaurants, corporate events, etc. So don't go about just wearing mini shorts and a revealing singlet (no matter how sexy that may be), wear something sophisticated. Rich people tend to want to have a respectable image, so they want their girlfriends to seem like more than just braindead arm candy.

[Leeggg]

and that's not to say sophisticated can't be sexy, by the way.

[Anonymous]

become successful yourself, rich guys want women on their level.

[darlanoy0510]

Hey keep on looking.

[EverythingReal]

Dye your hair blond, get a boob job, Mr Playboy would be surely interested.

[ThickRick]

How about get rich yourself by WORKING HARD, and maybe you might appeal to a rich guy?

Oh, you just wanted a free ticket. I see. Unless you are super hot, it ain't happening.

[Asker]

I agree! how about being a super hot hard worker? I am deffiantly not lazy, I think that's what I love about rich men, they work hard and go for what they want, it's not all about the money for me.

[Shaun]

If hard work made you rich, the rulers of the world would all be the hardest workers.

[ThickRick]

Long ago, rulers were once very hard workers. Then their bastard sons inherited all that hard work and screwed us all with a big wet fart.

[Asker]

haha so true, to both of you. my dad worked like a dog since he was a young boy and he is still working a hard labor job out in the sun at age 65:/ sadly our house is falling apart and my family has hardly any savings and always lived poor. What was all that hard work for? To have a lot of money in this world you have to sell yourself short in some way. Life is hard for the honest man.

[NessielaKee]

I'm sorry to say but you are a shallow person. Money isn't everything, go find someone you love and who loves you and be done with your life. Being rich is not as fab as you think. Happiness is more important.

[brenster]

Why would a rich man want a gold digger like you. If he does come from a rich and intelligent family, I assume they'll all have the good sense to hate you. Of course, they'll be veery polite about it.

[Asker]

I expected at least one answer like this. What makes someone attractive to you? how is your preference any difference to mine? rich men get my heart fluttering and it's not from dreaming about spending his money. In today's day, money=security and nothing turns me on more than knowing a man can make me feel secure.

[J_White90]

1) You're a gold-digger if that's all you're looking for in a husband and you should make your own damn money.

2) Unless you're a 9 or a 10 or rich already (which you say you aren't), then you should ptrobably kiss that dream goodbye because most guys will either not look twice at you or realize that you are the type of woman who fits the profile in the above category.

3) There aren't a lot of people who I hope have a legitimately sh!tty life, but you've managed to become one in a single post. So congrats.

[dIO_oIb]

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[dIO_oIb]

HEY, BEGGARS CAN'T BE CHOOSERS.

[RedThread78]

Work really hard and go to an Ivy League school... there are a lot of legacies and rich people that go to schools like that. Usually rich people marry other rich people though to become even MORE rich... but it isn't always the case.

[Asker]

great! thanks. I'm am working my way up to go to a university, right now I'm at junior college.

[G_GTom]

Actually, I have quite a bit of money. I hope your not thinking money will buy you happiness because it won't. Now, I will admit, there are a lot less things you have to worry about when you have money.

I was reading an article about this recently. The authors of the article concluded that money is important up to a certain threshold and then it becomes less important. Once you have the things you need and some of the things you want, monetarily speaking, the value of money goes way down. At that point, family, life goals, and personal relationships are more important. Those were the people who were classified as being the happiest in this article.

I guess with anything, the grass is always greener :)

[Asker]

agreed:) I am happy now, and I will be happy with where ever my life takes me. I am a simple person, I don't need much, just a strong, loving family. The rest will always change.

[Shaun]

Anyone who knows the answer to this question won't be answering questions on GaG, I promise you that.

[dIO_oIb]

BOOM, just did.

[TheBattMan]

You know what, I'm not usually this mean, but I'm going to say it like one or two others have: You are a gold digging whore.

Make your own money, have confidence that YOU can make something of yourself and not depend on someone else. It bothers me when women on the show Survivor link up with a strong guy so they can get through the game easier, but it absolutely disgusts me to see women plan on being with a man just because he has money. All of the things you want can be had through your own hard work and also a regular marriage with decent providers. I don't appreciate you using "I just want a good life for my kids" as a valid excuse for you wanting to do nothing with your life. It's selfish, although you try to present it as selfless.

[Asker]

not that I don't want to do anything with my life, I am willing to work and I know what hard work is, I think a rich man would appreciate that, I am anything but spoiled and I don't want to be spoiled, I do however realized the advantages rich people have and I want my family to be able to have opportunities, if that is selfifish then I guess I'm selfish, but I'm not hurting anyone.

[bel42]

make your own money ! don't depend on other people

[bamesjond0069]

If you would make me 8+ kids, take on the traditional feminine role, are looking more for security instead of shopping sprees and are not fat, I'll give you a shot at dating me. I am a self made millionaire and athletic.

[purplepearls]

go to places where rich men hang out. Try checking online for such places. Nevertheless ,marrying someone rich won't make you happy if you don't love them.

[Anonymous]

The children of rich people usually become arrogant and spoiled. Is that really how you want your kids to be? also rich children usually aren't thankful for what they have but what they're about to get. What's so wrong about growing up in a middle class society? I love it because it makes you learn how to self reliant.

[Asker]

oh you and me both, I hate seeing spolied children. But I think an arrongant kid with money is just as bad as an arrogant kid without money. Many kids are ungrateful. Middle class kids own iphones and laptops yet complain about their lifes, they have food on the table everynight and complain there's nothing on TV.. My children will be grateful no matter how much money/oppurtunities they have.

[Opinion Owner]

you have a point. but you see I grew up pretty poor I mean I have yet to own any type of mp3 player and I made a lot of my toys. so I'm kinda partial to the poor life. its what helped me be grateful for a lot of things that a lot of people don't get to experience. And I'm sure you would make a great mother I'm just more partial to what I call the good life. And just so you know I didn't mean my post to come off mean in any way, I just have a strong opinion on this subject.

[Asker]

I can relate, I spent a lot of time living in complete hatred towards rich people, but I realized that it was because I was jealous of their lifes because I never got the things I wanted (we couldn't afford school sports, I remember wanting to be part of sports so bad..). But then I realized how fortunate I am, my mom cooks dinner everynight and our family is so close with each other, most rich kids parents are gone and nannies take care of them. the grass is always greener on the other side:)

[Asker]

you must be grateful with what you got wherever you are in life. With that said, I think I have a good head on my shoulders and won't take money too seriously, I'm still debating whether I want a lifestyle like this, I know my husband will be away at work and our family may not be as close as the one I grew up in, something to consider..

[Opinion Owner]

just keep your chin up

[Tyler1234]

Pm me

[Anonymous]

If you marry a super rich guy, you may found you are stuck with someone that you do not really like. Better to get a great boob job and some face-fixing cosmetic surgery till you are super hot. Then you can sell your body to real rich guys, and in almost no time, you will be rich. Keep whoring around to get even richer, then you can look for someone you like to marry.

Don't brush off this idea as beneath you, You already said you are looking to provide sex for money when you said you were looking to marry someone really rich.

The only problem would be that when you decided to settle down with someone who you really liked, they would have no interest in taking on a slut for a wife.

[Anonymous]

You're a gold digging whore. No matter what you want to call it to make yourself feel better about being a gold digger, in the end it is what it is.

[Anonymous]

First, you have to be hot. If you're not hot, don't even bother trying. A guy who can get a lot of women isn't going to go for a girl who doesn't keep up her appearances. Second, search sites that focus on rich men meeting women. Third, try not to care about loving the person, because, chances are, if he's working for all that money he's not going to be home very often and with all the temptation he's likely to seek companionship from other women.

[Asker]

good point. That is a sacrifice and I'm still debating whether I'm willing to deal with that. I really want to be a good mom and I believe that will be enough. I imagine those women have affairs aswell. I would never want to be in that type of situation.. defiantly something to consider.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Yea, there will more likely than not be a mistress, or affair here and there. Money brings power, and a man with that much power can do whatever the hell he pleases, and if you don't have your own money or means of survival, your totally powerless. Sure you can't settle for upper middle class at least?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, there are a lot of things to consider.

[Anonymous]

Hell, I'm pretty sure you'll have a superior lifestyle with a man that makes 125 k a year.

[Asker]

no doubt. but I am aiming higher than that, I would be happy either way, but life is too short to settle.

[Opinion Owner]

Do you know how much 125k a year is? Most middle class males work jobs that make 70k a year. If you could settle for a man who makes 125 k, like a surgeon or engineer, you would either be High-middle class or low-high class thats something to settle for...

[Asker]

that is generally what the people in my neighborghood make, the cost of living is very high here, so they would be high-middle at the most, I want to marry a man that is no doubt high class, It may be just be a dream, like I said I'd be happy either way.