First of all you need to pick yourself up for your child and your future emotional sanity. Then you need to go before the girls parents and let them know what you have seen. At which point they need to sit their daughter down in front of you and them, and she needs to confess to her parents. Then her parents need to go to the police department and report him all while you are filing divorce papers. You need that paper trail woman. Once he is in jail you file for full custody of your son, and possession of your estate (house, cars, bank accounts) and you carry yourself like a strong woman and you heal. He is a sick sick man! And now that this has happened to you, you cannot sit there and tell yourself you didn't see the signs. But what's done is done. If you take this man back or give him the opportunity to file against you, you would be a damn fool! The first to file in any divorce gets their side heard first. And you need that. So wipe your f***in tears and do what you KNOW YOU NEED TO DO! I wish you luck.
5 0 0 1Blunt and true. and don't say you don't want him to go to jail because he's sick and he needs to suffer the consequences
Divorce the bastard! Not only is he horrible for cheating on you to begin with, but on top of that he's cheating on you with a FVCKING 16 YEAR OLD and as if that's not bad enough when you catch him he doesn't even have the respect for you or the decency to stop. He's a prick with some serious issues. Don't waste your time on someone like that. You're still young, divorce this piece of sh*t and get a man who respects you.
All I can say is if I had been in your situation, he wouldn't have had a choice, but to stop because he'd have been too busy trying to block the punches I would've been throwing... lol3 0 0 1If he valued you or your life together at all he would of stopped. He should of stopped and tried to come after you...then maybe you two could of worked it out. Have you talked to him since? Has he even tried to explain himself? Or is he too busy screwing the babysitter? That's complete bull****. You should tell the girls mother where she has been too. I find it horrible that he locked your son in his room so that he could do this as well. You should not have to put up with that. Take your son and leave him. You both deserve better and he does not deserve either of you for that s***
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Oh girl, I'm so sorry for you.
There is but one thing you can do now - leave this jerk!
Honestly, not to mention that he cheated on you, but he didn't even have a problem with it. Jumping around immediately after discovery - then realizing what he has done wrong - trying to explain himself. That would be THE ONLY "reasonable" reaction to be.
But f***ing her to the end? That's just gross. Both by behavior and age differences as you've mentioned. I don't know how old he is and you put up 18-24 - is this true?
So if he still need younger girls, I don't know what your babysitters age was, but I'd seriously consider going to the police if she is still underage - just give him the full tour...3 0 0 1
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6 1He obviously didn't stop because he doesn't give a sh*t about you. Honey, he was CAUGHT FUCKING ANOTHER GIRL RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU AND DIDN'T STOP. That says it all. He didn't care enough to stop and doesn't give a rats ass about you. Sorry to be harsh, but it's the damn true. Divorce him.
3 0 0 1I agree with you entirely, but why would he stop? He wasn't going to get any more caught. I think life as he has known it just ended. He is looking at divorce, loss of family, and maybe jail. He might just as well give her a few more strokes and finish.
Hoeny, you're trying to make excuses for him now. Look at yourself. You seriously just asked me WHY WOULD HE STOP? Out of respect and embarrassment if nothing else. It's sad that you feel the need to defend a man who doesn't love you and runs around with teenagers.
Did you miss the part about agree with you, divorce, family loss, and jail. From that you extract I am defending him? I don't think so. He has no respect for her, that isn't a reason, and who is too say what embarrasses some people. You were describing normal reactions. I don't see much in his behavior to indicate normalcy.
Divorce him.Plain and simple.If he had been caught and STOPPED,maybe I would have suggested serious counseling and therapy,but the fact that he didn't stop,shows he had 0 respect for you,your marriage,your emotions,your family and more importantly,your CHILD.Divorce plain and simple.I'm sorry you married an idiot.
1 0 0 1i'm sorry this happened to you. leave him. at least you're still young and you have a whole life ahead of you and you have plenty of men to date. dump his ass out on the streets!
2 0 0 1he's been going to the bar for 5 years since 21 (making him 26) the girl is 10 years younger (16). I think you need to tell that girls mother because she needs to get her daughter some help. and you need to leave your husband and take your son. ew.
1 0 0 1Leave him!
1 0 0 1Men like this are not worth your pain, tears, or even acknowledgment. Simply dump this mofo and try to move on with your life. There are many great men out there. Don't let one dirty apple ruin it for you.
2 0 0 0i salute this man
0 2 10 0Ok why the hell ?!
He has done nothing wrong he was f***ing the babysitter when his kid is locked in the other room HAHA I salute this man again
Didn't do anything wrong? he is married and was having sex with a 16 year old when he's 26 (give or take a year--do the math in her story). I'd say that's wrong.
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