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I don’t feel any different after having sex for the first time. Did you?
jamieswift13 Xper 5
So my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time last night. We love each other a lot and have discussed it a lot and felt like it was the right time. He was not a virgin but I was. I was so nervous for the pain and for it to hurt and he was so sweet to me and gentle. It honestly really didn’t hurt and I didn’t even bleed. We used a condom and I’m on birth control so we were safe. It was first time sex so neither of us even came. It was more of a new bonding experience. But like today I woke up and I literally don’t even feel any different. Everyone says sex is such a huge deal and it just doesn’t seem that huge to me. I feel no different. I feel like the internet hypes it up to be this huge life changing thing and I just don’t feel that lol. How was your first time? Did you feel any different? Thanks!
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33 72You're not really gna feel anything life changing but one of you should've finished lol. Mine was good bc i wanted it and the person I had it with I liked so yea. You might not get much pleasure from vaginal instead probably rub yourself during or have him get you off prior or after and try diff positions. I don't know why he didn't finish ask him ab that
I was really really nervous and basically shaking and squeezing his hand so hard and he was just really focusing on comforting me during the entire thing. I think it’ll be different next time :)
Yea you have to be relaxed and actually excited to do it throw caution into the wind a little bit, very little lol
I think I’ll be better next time bc I know it doesn’t really hurt like what I thought it was gonna be like
Good luck
If it's something you've never had before first time might not be exciting. Sometimes you need to explore other times you need yo learn how to get eachother off. Learning intimacy plays a large role it will get better though
The most I can say about my first time is that I'll never forget it. Her or the experience. She was great, the experience was horrible because it was the first time for both of us. But it gets better after that.
Don't have sex expecting to achieve a sense of fulfillment or change. Do it to share a bond with your s. o thats when it's far more gratifying.
Nah it’s overrated, same for getting my first blow job. Didn’t feel like how some guys make it sound like it’s mind blowing, it was alright just didn’t make my mind blow.
so your climax has been an anti climax. makes sense. it takes a few goes before you get into it unless you just found you are not really interested in it now you have done it
No ya still the same person just now someone helped ya masturbate
I loved the experience of having sex for the first time. We had a long foreplay, and I was really wet and comfortable when we started intercourse. I had my orgasms too. It was great but yes, it doesn't you a completely different person.
I felt stupid. I was so bad at it. It motivated me to learn and practice and become a much better lover.
If you don´t feel different, It´s completely OK! It only shows that you love your boyfriend and you had a great relationship even without sex :)
I never actually thought of it like that! Thanks! :)
Glad I could help :)
Well, I felt pretty good about myself and grinned for a while afterwards but I mean it didn't change anything too substantively. I think internet virgins deify the act of sex because the older you get the more you want it when you've never had it. People look at porn and think its real or that sex is a spiritual experience when often its not even that intimate when done between two people.
Not really but I had sex with an friends with benefits and not a significant other. I feel stupid for it now.
He probs had a tiny pecker
So it’s different for guys and girls. A girl just needs to feel that connection. And a guy really just wants to be physical with you because he likes you. I don’t know how woman supposed to feel but usually a man wants to do it again. I can only speak for myself but I love to pleasure a woman. But if it was your first time you probably didn’t know what was going on. I’m not surprised you didn’t come. Just wait till he makes you. You’ll see what the hype is about
I think you need to look at the emotional ties to sex, especially for women. If it was a pleasant experience, that's great and I'm glad it was for you.
It takes time to start enjoying it, the guy is also inexperienced, so give him time.
People tend to blow the "first time" thing out of proportion. Some do feel different, others don't. I did, but I didn't as well.
No people were like you'll be a knew man felt exactly the same
I didn't feel any different.
not at all though I sometimes I don't want to even remember my first time since it was my worst so far. you know I was pretty nervous and had would constantly lose my erection
Well my first time was... hard.. by that i mean it was hard for me to get in , i was sweaty af and my ex's time was her first as well and i yeah i could not penetrate.. Nothing changed after my first time. besides the sheets that were almost half red