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I don’t feel any different after having sex for the first time. Did you?
jamieswift13 Xper 5
So my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time last night. We love each other a lot and have discussed it a lot and felt like it was the right time. He was not a virgin but I was. I was so nervous for the pain and for it to hurt and he was so sweet to me and gentle. It honestly really didn’t hurt and I didn’t even bleed. We used a condom and I’m on birth control so we were safe. It was first time sex so neither of us even came. It was more of a new bonding experience. But like today I woke up and I literally don’t even feel any different. Everyone says sex is such a huge deal and it just doesn’t seem that huge to me. I feel no different. I feel like the internet hypes it up to be this huge life changing thing and I just don’t feel that lol. How was your first time? Did you feel any different? Thanks!
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33 72It was a big deal cuz you made it one. ;)
And now you know why the internet isn't that reliable of a source for opinion - it's just everybody's opinion! Most of them aren't worth listening to.
Congratulations!
In general? No, I didn't feel any different.
But it felt like we were closer than before.
Nope, after he pulled out I felt the same as before.
I'm still a virgin with no boyfriend so I cannot relate to your experience
My first time i was actually disappointed, lol it was not what I thought it would be like.
You both didn't cum could mean that your both not really into each other. Sex has is done when there is a strong connect between each other to make it great. I've had some fantastic goings as I grew older. So don't worry to much about it. But try and learn from each other and try and make it a spontaneous event, not just, so you wanna try it?
Lol honestly haven't had the honor of trying it😂
Virgin team full wayyyg
Lol. When I had sex for the first time, I thought I would feel different, but I didn't feel anything. Lol. You may feel an increased attraction to the other person, but you, yourself won't feel any different.
I just felt like she flicked a switch and I was wanting it even more than before I had it...
Yes, I did. After sex I was wetter and wanted more
First time is rarely a memorable experience.
You don't know what you like, what your partner likes or what they would be willing to do.
I'd say the first time is definitely not a life changing thing, not unless you give a lot of importance to the sentimental value of it.
There are definitely ways to make sex feel exciting and special, but it needs some work.
It's normal when two people start together experience wise. But if have sex who knows how to make you enjoy it you will different about it
Yeah it's rather underwhelming.
No idea.
I'm a virgin
At first I felt the same way. I lost my virginity to someone who was also a virgin. And I did it when I was 20 so I really felt that I was way behind the ball and missing out. But after a while it gave me a new sense of confidence. I think for a guy it is a lot different experience. A feeling of "wow I really can do this" the biggest feeling I had was "i can't believe someone loved me enough to let me take their virginity"
Still a virgin.
I am still a virgin so, I may not be the right person to answer it. But, getting to have sex is difficult more than having it.
And, the pussy gets bigger once, you had sex and, it could effect you when you start having it on a continuous basis.
It's like eating chocolate, you enjoy it, it makes you slightly happier and then you forget it. When you don't have it for a long time (Like many of the hardcore internet users/G@G users) you'll start to remember that feeling and over exaggerate how good it was.
Sex is usually terrible for everyones first time, awkward and sweaty with a feeling of no privacy, it gets a LOT better
My first time was amazing. As an awkward virgin i didn't know if i was any good. When the moment arrived i made her come 4 times. Personally it was a great confidence booster amd the next morning i felt rejuvenated
Sex itself is great. The losing of your virginity is the same exact act. So you feeling no different is normal. But the act of losing your virginity, was about sharing yourself, as is every time you sleep with somebody. I am glad it was a good experience for you. Please be careful and responsible, babies can change your whole life. Chances are , now that your sexually active, you will explore different avenues of your sexuality , keep you channel of communication open with your lover. AND Never do anything you don't want to do.