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I don't like giving blow jobs?
Anonymous
I think it's unfair that most guys expect blow jobs in a relationship, I don't expect anyone to give me oral sex, no one ever has given me it! But they have always expected me to give them a blow job. I hate it. Seriously guys go suck on a penis and tell me how you liked it! I bet you wouldn't enjoy it. Your jaws and neck ache after about 30 seconds, You Gag, All you can smell are sweaty balls and ass, feel cold hairy/spiky balls against your face, Semen tastes like crap, smells sweaty, salty, and disgusting. It is the consistently of runny snot. It's disgusting, uncomfortable and I hate it. But most guys will dump you if you don't do it. Besides it's bad for your health I don't want a STI in my mouth! oral sex is the main cause of oral cancer. Maybe I'll do it if the guy wore a flavoured condom... But no that's not good enough for them doesn't "feel as good". Selfish assholes.
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why are people still answering this? it's over 2 months old. No one's going to change my mind on blow jobs, ever. It was just a rant because I hate how guys are such animals about sex, it is disgusting.
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I'm jealous cause I never asked a girl to give me a blow job. Because of the majority, the guys like me are left in the dark. Not saying that its not enjoyable, but its not the only way to achieve orgasm for a guy.
Personally...i can't imagine being in a monogamous relationship & not getting blowjobs.
I agree w "dudeman"...if the girl NEVER gave a blowjob, & I'm committed to her, then I wouldn't expect that. If I know that she has, & she refues to give me blowjobs...to be frank,
F*CK THAT.
Why? Because I'd consistently feel shorthanded during the entire relationship, & that would build frustration, & to be frank that would probably turn me off during intimacy. I'd think about how she sucked d*cks before...but refuses to suck mine, & I'm HER BOYFRIEND.
Can't do it.
so you just get into relationships so you have someone to relive your sexual wants? asshole.
it might help if you develpoed a better taste in men, if you found guys that would return the favor, wash their balls, groom them selfs down there, consider useing condoms if its important to you etc..
I know this is an old post. But thank you so much for writing it! Yes it is disgusting and sperm is gross. Of cause guys know that. Noone can deny that penises and bslls are ugly and smelly, and sperm IS sticky gross goo. You really need to ignore all your instincts to suck on a cock or even swallow sperm. But guys are too ashamed to admit it and girls dont dare to say anything bad about blowjobs or sperm.
I think it is important to write such posts like you did. So people see that it is ok to not like it. Im a guy and i hare blowjobs.
That doesn't mean i dont ho down on a girl. You can't compare that. Sec isn't about fairness or equality. You do what you enjoy. When you enjoy blowjobs, you do. When you enjoy eating pussy, you do.
Why are people answering this? If you rant, expect a counter rant. It's kinda common sense.
Here's an idea.
Don't give blowjobs to assholes that dont' wash properly, pull your hair, thrash your head around and force your to deepthroat. If you don't like hair, get him to shave. - and yes, they will return the favour. Men fantasize about going down on women.
Last but best idea: STOP GENERALIZING.
I never want to give another blow job ever again! I don't care if he's showered (sperm is still gross and he still sweats) and shaving just makes it feel spikey. It's still a bad experience, that I don't enjoy one bit. Men who ask for blow jobs say it's not that bad but HAVE YOU EVER TRYED IT? no I bet you haven't. I don't expect oral sex, never asked for it and never had anyone give it to me. So why do all men think it's a necessity to have a blow job? otheriwise they just look for a new girl.
Get them to properly shave or wax. - For your question - For all you know I could be gay, then that would be offensive. And you, you should stop generalizing. I bet you wouldn't like it if a bunch if guys went around saying all women were cold hearted, gold digging, motherless whores that sell themselves out for five bucks and something warm in their stomach. Would you? I'm pretty sure you might take offense to that after the tenth time.
The hair isn't even that much of an issue. It's the whole thing! I don't like anything about it. It is not comfortable for me, I have trouble keeping my mouth open for so long and keeping my teeth out of the way, it make's my jaw ache and lips sore, and I don't like the feeling of having it poked inside of my mouth it makes me gag even if he dosnt go deep. Sorry if you are gay. Gay people probably don't mind it as much because they get it back in return and know what it feels like to have it done.
If you don't like it you don't have to do it. Keep it to yourself. Don't go on a rampage on the internet. I'm actually not gay. You don't apologize to people for them being gay. You don't congratulate them either. You treat them normally and with every respect you would another person. Your last sentence was an oxymoron.
I didn't apoligise because I thought you were gay. I know gay people are normal and I treat them the same as everyone else, I have gay friends. I was apologising incase I hurt your feelings because you said that saying blow jobs are disgusting would be offensive to a gay man. I know I don't have to give blow jobs, but I don't want to be single either. Guys see it as a deal breaker. But I think it's unfair I don't dump people if they don't do something sexual to me, there is more to life then sex.
Guys don't see it as a deal breaker. YOUR guys see it as a deal breaker.
ok for f***s sake if you don't like the smell I got a solution go wash his balls in the shower. I agree with most of the girls they like to please us, go a head (no puns intended) and tell me this BJs have been around since rome so if you think they are that uncomforteble they would have stoped giving them. yeah you call me an asshole your a bitch who gives bkowjobs for a $ in a high school bathroom. and no girls your not all crazy like her I love you girls (except the crazy ones) I personaly start by giveing oral sex and when I'm done if she wants 2 I have no problem with that
I don't expect blow jobs.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JJY2ynlXoKAAnd yes, oral sex is as risky as vaginal sex, where STD's are concerned:
It's a bit less risky than anal and that's why gays labeled oral 'less risky'.
Here are some links:
STDs can be transmitted through oral sex as well: link
What infections can I catch through oral sex?: link
HPV Causing More Oral Cancer in Men: link
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And a girl can get hepatitis from a BJ USE CONDOMS!
indeed
well if a girl does want to do it that's fine as long as she hasn't blown other guys if she has and she doesn't blow me too then that's the end of the relationship
You need to find a nice tender sweet guy that will be very giving to you. sorry you have been hurt
He can expect a bj if he also goes down on me as well
I agree with you. Penises are disgusting. I prefer to pleasure my girl without my penis.
I hate sucking d*** too.I don't like the texture or taste of a penis yuck! But if I am in a relationship with a guy who excepts it but he is clean and returns the favour I will give and take.I still am not a fan of bjs though.Ps you cannot get sti from giving oral sex to a guy.
You need to have your guy to wash his dirty balls. lol. . Why haven't they gone down on you?
it wouldn't matter if he was clean or not it would still be horrible. I have never asked for a guy to go down on me and I don't expect them to its disgusting.
But you expect guys to go down on you
She actually stated she had never had a guy go down on her and she didn't expect anyone to
no I do not, I don't expect anything so filthy and disgusting.
Sex and turn ons are very subjective to every individual. We get it... You don't like it.. No need to be so over dramatic. Also no need to be harsh or criticize those who like it. You obviously are close minded sexually and its a shame that you can't enjoy the whole experience.. You're really missing out on an intimate connection just by being disgusted by pleasuring your partner.
Baby oh baby - what am I gonna do with you? - Barry White
Sorry, the song's been stuck in my head all day. Speaking of head, I don't like giving bj's either. Well, I don't think so anyway. Unless it was mine. I love my boy parts. In fact, I love girls parts a whole lot too. At least I can get in any position I need to depending on what my girl happens to feel like doing then. I like the fragrance and the way her nice soft bush feels on my face too. We both enjoy each other. I bet one big reason we do is that she doesn't have a big sweaty out of control hairy p**** with half of it shaved so that part can feel cold and clamy oh, and spiky too - probably from the stubble from not keeping up her obligation to shave every 15 minutes so it feels (and looks) nice and smooth like a 4 year old's puffy vag.(you know, the way most guys today demand all women maintain their pussies - relationship or not).
Me I'm very happy with the way we were made - God or evolution, you pick. No matter what we were born with - big fat cock, tiny little pussy, hairy or sparse, brown, red, blond - whatever we have I think it's a fantastic design. Like your car, you do have a choice when it comes to what kind of guy you pick. There are thousands of combinations of the types of equipment you will come across when you find different partners. Just because you picked a lemon with sour sweaty balls that he shaved once and let grow back to become a kiwi, doesn't mean the next one won't be a nice, delicious, perfect sized, **** like mine. I know when I come that not a drop is wasted because my girl doesn't gag from some nasty sour spunk from your guy because he has a sh*t diet with too much meat and probably smokes. A healthy guy who eats a lot of fresh fruit, veggies and grians with maybe a little chicken, fish and beef once in a while has some pretty tasty banana juice. Ask your girlfriends. Believe me, if every guy was shooting out sh*t flavored goo, I don't think the term blow job would have been invented. Nobody, except the most deviant of troll chicks would find it a delicassey. But thanks to proper hygene and a little soap and water (and I mean very little soap ladies) and everybody can enjoy hours of oral pleasure way before you even think of having that animal of a boyfriend hop on your back and pound the daylights out of you with that nasty, crusty ol' dog d*** that you make sound so appetizing.
I hope you hang on to this charmer and keep him locked up away from the rest of the female population before he horrifies another poor girl with his rendition of "cesspool blow job". Otherwise it will become epidemic and soon us guys with our delicious cocksicles will only remember hearing those once popular phrases like blow job, **** sucking, and "Honey, would you mind swallowing all of it tonight, please?" a long forgotten memory. With the threat of oral cancer on the rise, that practice would be outlawed worldwide except for a handful of third world cities. Thanks, Anon!
Wow your aggresive...bet you never had a relationship based on love,try 1. Hope that will help
(sorry for the other comment...wrong post)
It wouldn't matter if I was in love or not. If he loved me he wouldn't expect me to do something so discusting and I wouldn't expect him to do it to me.
I don't think this is a question, but you are not alone in this thought. I have had a few women who refuse and it is frustrating, but like you said, empathetically I would agree. There are flavored lubes out there that may help you enjoy it... (Good Head) is a brand that might help.